what should i think ( g/f stuff)

5'2" @ 120 lbs is borderline faTSo. I guess some folks like some extra coushin for the pushin'. Imagine that little frame with 40 more pounds on it after chunkin' away during pregnancy.

My impression... If her boss isn't some *** addict with "plans" for her, he's probably just treating her like a daughter he wished he had, or does have but she won't have anything to do with him.

If she's lying about the littlest thing now, you can rest assured she'll lie about important stuff. Does she really disrespect you that much now? If so, that will never go away. You can't re-earn respect when it's lost, no matter how hard or how long you work at it.

I'm older and I've already tapped all da pootie I want in life and have a great wife so I'm not a desperate kid rolling hard at the hormone rave. My take will be different than a lot of people's. I say, treat it no different than a relationship you'll be saying "bye bye" to, at any moment. Don't get too wrapped up in it. If she's fun to be around, have fun. Don't friggin' think that it's going to be that way if you stick together!!!

There is a woman's secret code that my wife has reluctantly confirmed because they all know it and talk about it and guys aren't supposed to know (yea, like they haven't figured it out already *lol*). It goes: the woman will appear to be the best possible example of the ultimate woman until around 1 year of marriage has passed, then she can put down the mask and be her true self (which is usually straight up beatch). This is assuming she wants to marry the guy. If she doesn't, you'll see her true colors more readily, if not always.

But anyway, you gotta' chill with the pursuit. Just let it be what it is and enjoy any enjoyable stuff about it. Don't try to turn it into something it's not. It'll go whichever way it goes, all by itself. She'll think of you as more of a man and less of a f'ing lonely puppy too.

Get your nuts back.

 
I am 36 years and second marriage. (I know). Not bald yet!

But anyways reading at what everyone said, the only thing I can say is that is human nature for a guy to lie about sleeping with somebody. (All of you mofos that have done it know it is true). Anyhow girls tend to be more honest about it. (Unless she has a hidden agenda). Are you rich? Do you own lots of state? Do you have a nice car?

3 months of dating is not enough to know all of the little noises girls have or make. So on that note; if you think this is a girl that is worth getting to know then continue with the relationship and really get to know her (you will have to open up your mind and look at things her way) remember to not forget who you really are. (fock I sound like Oprah)

You will have to put her past aside and ignore all of the dumb things she might have done. She is your girl now and anybody that might have slept of made out with her will probably brag about it and will most likely exaggerate the situation. (Most of us guys do).

Honestly, coming to a forum and ask for REAL help or things you should do about your relationship is just not going to help you make a decision.

Being 22 years old and inexperienced is not a crime, I mean you have to start somewhere.

Later

 
losts of good advice guys....some very true and others very imature...

as for the pic...all i have is a non face shot while takin pics of my cvr's..

http://img202.imageshack.us/my.php?image=pict00176ds.jpg

and she wears a 0/2 or sumtin...

idk her weight but she is far from boarderline FATso...i'd like to say normal...

she's gone out of her way alot for me...drives back n forth from chicago to see me every weekend...multiple times...helps me with everything in general..great girl....i have other things goin on and i am just goin crazy....idk

 
What I am saying is that at 22 most people are still fairly inexperienced with relationships, and life in general. This is about the age when most start real work in the real world, and life changes- but do you want to hose yourself out of goin out with the guys and just having commitment free fun? You are certainly welcome to do whatever you wish as I am a random voice on the internet- but I have experience in this matter first hand, and there is a reason the divorce rate is nearly 40% in states that track such things, and probably near 50% if California was added in. http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.htmlI really strongly recomend not taking things too seriously- you will be shocked how much you change between 22 and 30. I'm not saying don't date the chick- I'm just saying don't get painted into a corner.
i realize what your saying...im not that serious (compared to her) at all but am just concerned...

And beleive me i'm far far from marrige

 
5'2" @ 120 lbs is borderline faTSo. I guess some folks like some extra coushin for the pushin'. Imagine that little frame with 40 more pounds on it after chunkin' away during pregnancy.
My impression... If her boss isn't some *** addict with "plans" for her, he's probably just treating her like a daughter he wished he had, or does have but she won't have anything to do with him.

If she's lying about the littlest thing now, you can rest assured she'll lie about important stuff. Does she really disrespect you that much now? If so, that will never go away. You can't re-earn respect when it's lost, no matter how hard or how long you work at it.

I'm older and I've already tapped all da pootie I want in life and have a great wife so I'm not a desperate kid rolling hard at the hormone rave. My take will be different than a lot of people's. I say, treat it no different than a relationship you'll be saying "bye bye" to, at any moment. Don't get too wrapped up in it. If she's fun to be around, have fun. Don't friggin' think that it's going to be that way if you stick together!!!

There is a woman's secret code that my wife has reluctantly confirmed because they all know it and talk about it and guys aren't supposed to know (yea, like they haven't figured it out already *lol*). It goes: the woman will appear to be the best possible example of the ultimate woman until around 1 year of marriage has passed, then she can put down the mask and be her true self (which is usually straight up beatch). This is assuming she wants to marry the guy. If she doesn't, you'll see her true colors more readily, if not always.

But anyway, you gotta' chill with the pursuit. Just let it be what it is and enjoy any enjoyable stuff about it. Don't try to turn it into something it's not. It'll go whichever way it goes, all by itself. She'll think of you as more of a man and less of a f'ing lonely puppy too.

Get your nuts back.

thanks, besides the first paragragh...i dont date uglys...

 
I am 36 years and second marriage. (I know). Not bald yet!But anyways reading at what everyone said, the only thing I can say is that is human nature for a guy to lie about sleeping with somebody. (All of you mofos that have done it know it is true). Anyhow girls tend to be more honest about it. (Unless she has a hidden agenda). Are you rich? Do you own lots of state? Do you have a nice car?

3 months of dating is not enough to know all of the little noises girls have or make. So on that note; if you think this is a girl that is worth getting to know then continue with the relationship and really get to know her (you will have to open up your mind and look at things her way) remember to not forget who you really are. (fock I sound like Oprah)

You will have to put her past aside and ignore all of the dumb things she might have done. She is your girl now and anybody that might have slept of made out with her will probably brag about it and will most likely exaggerate the situation. (Most of us guys do).

Honestly, coming to a forum and ask for REAL help or things you should do about your relationship is just not going to help you make a decision.

Being 22 years old and inexperienced is not a crime, I mean you have to start somewhere.

Later

you guys are given good advice today...i like it...

i no more then i'd like to about her past relationships and have no prob hearing about them...But since this is my g/f that i care about it makes me abit skeptical...i dont like guys talkin sh!t about my girl weather or not its now or then...If infact he is makin this up then..............idk....

 
this shit is comedy. you can either do one of two things...your choice...

Option A : Tell the ***** you dont want anything to do with her because she lied and whatever else

Option B : Get the **** over it and shut up.

Honestly, youre young (so am I)...girls come and go. The thing you have to decide is 'do I want to stick to my guns' or 'do I want to let shit (i.e. your personal values) slide until this girl eventually runs my life...'

I choose option A. At this point in life youre still figuring out who you are. Id rather do what I think is right at the time than something that feels wrong. You learn from everything you do so just take her lies as a lesson learned so you know what to watch out for the next time.

 
Honestly, youre young (so am I)...girls come and go. The thing you have to decide is 'do I want to stick to my guns' or 'do I want to let shit (i.e. your personal values) slide until this girl eventually runs my life...'

so far i have the feeling (as do my friends) that i am def runnin it...(for now)

just acouple things came up and i decided to write them on the site cause it was still fresh...

 
At this point in life youre still figuring out who you are. Id rather do what I think is right at the time than something that feels wrong. You learn from everything you do so just take her lies as a lesson learned so you know what to watch out for the next time.

yea, thanks.

 
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