what should i think ( g/f stuff)

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

i hear car audio guys give great realationship advice so i thought i'd see if its true...lol

well i've been seeing my girl for about 3 months now and have came across a couple things things that im not to sure about...

the relationship is healthy as 1 can be, but as usual there are things that bother either side...ne ways, she says she's never met ne buddy like me blah, blah blah...told me this weekend that she loves me and has been giving hints since about being in love since the 1st month..

overview: her boss has 2 kids and a wife...he is approximetly 50 years old and is pretty wealthy...and ugly might i add

well to get to the story.............

she's been working at a very small business with about 1-3 poeple...her boss(owner) buys her lunch nearly every day...eehhhh, i can look beyond that..

early december rolls around and she excitingly tells me that her boss bout her a brand new pair of $300 (kenith kole?) boots and a $200 jacket...Weird aint it?

as a x-mas present for her he buys her a $3-400 digi cam....hhmmmmmm....

everyone i've talked to thinks somthing is up but have no facts as to what it could be...all i can think of is that she is "earning" what she gets....She tells me he's like the father she never had ( her father is a alchaholic, ect)...

1more thing.....

just found out she slept with 1 of my friends before we were goin out...i could care less really...she surley aint a virgin:naughty: ...this was about 2 months before we started goin out..

but the " secret" leaked out about 2 weeks ago..the thing is she was seperated from one of my other friends...as far as we knew they just made out...

so she told me when she found out (before) me and insisted all they did was make out...

so now i have the facts first hand that she indeed slept with him.....so she lied! i dont take kindly to liers( as does neone) and that in my book is worth braking up over...

so give me your opinions please....

p.s. i know what happens in the past should stay there but she flat out leid to me and im extremely confused right now

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[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

i hear car audio guys give great realationship advice so i thought i'd see if its true...lol
well i've been seeing my girl for about 3 months now and have came across a couple things things that im not to sure about...

the relationship is healthy as 1 can be, but as usual there are things that bother either side...ne ways, she says she's never met ne buddy like me blah, blah blah...told me this weekend that she loves me and has been giving hints since about being in love since the 1st month..

overview: her boss has 2 kids and a wife...he is approximetly 50 years old and is pretty wealthy...and ugly might i add

well to get to the story.............

she's been working at a very small business with about 1-3 poeple...her boss(owner) buys her lunch nearly every day...eehhhh, i can look beyond that..

early december rolls around and she excitingly tells me that her boss bout her a brand new pair of $300 (kenith kole?) boots and a $200 jacket...Weird aint it?

as a x-mas present for her he buys her a $3-400 digi cam....hhmmmmmm....

everyone i've talked to thinks somthing is up but have no facts as to what it could be...all i can think of is that she is "earning" what she gets....She tells me he's like the father she never had ( her father is a alchaholic, ect)...

1more thing.....

just found out she slept with 1 of my friends before we were goin out...i could care less really...she surley aint a virgin:naughty: ...this was about 2 months before we started goin out..

but the " secret" leaked out about 2 weeks ago..the thing is she was seperated from one of my other friends...as far as we knew they just made out...

so she told me when she found out (before) me and insisted all they did was make out...

so now i have the facts first hand that she indeed slept with him.....so she lied! i dont take kindly to liers( as does neone) and that in my book is worth braking up over...

so give me your opinions please....

p.s. i know what happens in the past should stay there but she flat out leid to me and im extremely confused right now

Kenneth Cole boots for $300? Someone is lying about the price! She lied...who doesn't? But about fvcking your buddy...****! I really doubt her boss is gettin his hands in the cookie jar. You should probably ditch her and find one of the other 20980249830198 women in the world.....

 

[Jordantyler 10+ year member]

true.. i mean if u dont love her, then dont be with someone that lies.. trust is the most important thing in a relationship..

tell her to sleep with her boss.. ahah jk

but yah serisouly i couldnt trust her after being lied to..

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

If you're going to break up with some slore because she lied to you, you will never have a meaningful relationship. Cheat on her until she finds out or you get sick of her, then dump her. Also, take pictures of her getting blasted in the face and post them, she sounds like the type of broad that's into that kind of shit.

 

[Jordantyler 10+ year member]

If you're going to break up with some slore because she lied to you, you will never have a meaningful relationship. Cheat on her until she finds out or you get sick of her, then dump her. Also, take pictures of her getting blasted in the face and post them, she sounds like the type of broad that's into that kind of shit.

haha true... but she lied bout sleeping with a guy thats a big thing.

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

lol......she's actually a great girl...

as for the shoes thats what poppin in my head now..i could care less...though a lady co-worker of mine knew what there were and was like WOW....

 

[azbass 5,000+ posts]

have her boss buy you some car audio stuff.

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

I'm sick of threads about girl problems and no d@mn pictures! Fvck! Pictures will help us help you make the right choice....

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

haha true... but she lied bout sleeping with a guy thats a big thing.

i made her feel as comfortable as humanly possible to tell me the truth reguarding the situation when it leaked out...i told her that if it is indeed false then she should talk to him about it...she never did.....

that raised a flag...i talked to "the friend" about it and told me everything..i've known him longer therefore i trust him not making this up....

i understand that it is in the past and doesnt concern me in the bit but i gave her the oppurtunity to tell me straight up...she's never hesitated to tell me about any of her other relationships

 

[Jordantyler 10+ year member]

yah post a pic ill tell u if u shes pretty or not haha

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

have her boss buy you some car audio stuff.

ONLY IN the perfect world

 

[Jordantyler 10+ year member]

be like u can sleep with my gf if u buy me a whole new system //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

yah post a pic ill tell u if u shes pretty or not haha

she's very attractive....

5'2"

120

med length blonde hair..

flawless face

at work = no pic

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

i made her feel as comfortable as humanly possible to tell me the truth reguarding the situation when it leaked out...i told her that if it is indeed false then she should talk to him about it...she never did.....
that raised a flag...i talked to "the friend" about it and told me everything..i've known him longer therefore i trust him not making this up....

i understand that it is in the past and doesnt concern me in the bit but i gave her the oppurtunity to tell me straight up...she's never hesitated to tell me about any of her other relationships

Wait till one of her friends gets mad at her over something and she will tell you everything you ever wanted to know! True story yo....

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

haha true... but she lied bout sleeping with a guy thats a big thing.

It's not really a big thing. If you're on some pus*y shit looking for someone to love and cherish and such nonsense, a persons ****** past shouldn't be a big concern if it's about one dude that you're good friends with. It's expected that she'll lie about it because she doesn't want you think differently of her, and if you do think differently of her than the relationship won't blossom into whatever you want it to be. I'd only be concerned if she said she slept with three guys then I came across a snuff film staring the broad where shes ******' off a group of midgets dressed in elf costumes. As long as she's faithful to you during the relationship then there's nothing to worry about.