what should i think ( g/f stuff)

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

Wait till one of her friends gets mad at her over something and she will tell you everything you ever wanted to know! True story yo....

i'm not really lookin forward to that:up2somet:

 

[swaptrex 10+ year member]

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

It's not really a big thing. If you're on some pus*y shit looking for someone to love and cherish and such nonsense, a persons ****** past shouldn't be a big concern if it's about one dude that you're good friends with. It's expected that she'll lie about it because she doesn't want you think differently of her, and if you do think differently of her than the relationship won't blossom into whatever you want it to be. I'd only be concerned if she said she slept with three guys then I came across a snuff film staring the broad where shes ******' off a group of midgets dressed in elf costumes. As long as she's faithful to you during the relationship then there's nothing to worry about.

very true

i might be over analyzing it but she still lied and knew it would eventually get to me...but in this case it was brought up during a normal conversation with a friend...

 

[azbass 5,000+ posts]

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!

you are not the baby mama. *busts out michael jackson dance*

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

You're only 22....don't waste your time on her unless you plan on marrying her.

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

very true

I also wouldn't be too concerned about her boss right now. A lot of bosses give their workers nice presents around the holidays, especially in small businesses. If there's only a couple of people working in the office and one of them leaves, Mr. Bossman could get screwed over...giving out presents is just a way for them to signal to the employees that they're appreciated. I do part-time work for a very small business, only 7 people in the office, and I was given a Tag watch for the holidays.

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

You're only 22....don't waste your time on her unless you plan on marrying her.

i've only been with her 3 months....

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

I also wouldn't be too concerned about her boss right now. A lot of bosses give their workers nice presents around the holidays, especially in small businesses. If there's only a couple of people working in the office and one of them leaves, Mr. Bossman could get screwed over...giving out presents is just a way for them to signal to the employees that they're appreciated. I do part-time work for a very small business, only 7 people in the office, and I was given a Tag watch for the holidays.

its just that everyone i've talked to is questioning it wich leads me to be more paranoid

 

[NathanMc 10+ year member]

I wouldn't worry about the gift thing too much, I work for a car audio place..there's the boss, the tinter, me (the vinyl guy) a manager and 3 installers..we're all pretty close cuz of this and the boss man gave me 600 bucks cash as a christmas present, so like someone else said in small businesses like that it's not out of the norm. Ask her what he got the other employees actually and see what she has to say.

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

I wouldn't worry about the gift thing too much, I work for a car audio place..there's the boss, the tinter, me (the vinyl guy) a manager and 3 installers..we're all pretty close cuz of this and the boss man gave me 600 bucks cash as a christmas present, so like someone else said in small businesses like that it's not out of the norm. Ask her what he got the other employees actually and see what she has to say.

thanks for the advice, i'll try that and see what she fumbles up

 

[NhustlaR 10+ year member]

get rid of her, next thing you know shes sleeping with all of your friends then goes off to college and has *** with 1/3 of the college, and then commin back on your christmas break and asking for forgiveness and wanting to date you again.............. :blushes: shit, sorry

haha

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

just because her boss thinks hes going to get *** from her by giving her all this nice stuff dosen't mean he will

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

get rid of her, next thing you know shes sleeping with all of your friends then goes off to college and has *** with 1/3 of the college, and then commin back on your christmas break and asking for forgiveness and wanting to date you again.............. :blushes: shit, sorry
haha

ignore....

isnt every girl?

 

[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

All I can is I'd do the same thing you are doing. B/C it is a little unnerving to find out you friend popped your GF.

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

just because her boss thinks hes going to get *** from her by giving her all this nice stuff dosen't mean he will

word, just wierd to me is all....(along with dam near everyone i know)

if she is actually doing it i will never know anyways....i guess i should let the old man get some....