I think the old dude wants to tap that *** that your friend already tapped. Uglyness doesn't apply when you have mad jack to throw around- how else does Donald Trump score with that rug? At 22 you shouldn't have a steady girl anyway, especially one that thinks she loves you already and is likely turning into human lint. You need to keep her as a fvck buddy and date an additional 4 chicks, so if she bones other people, you really don't care, because unless you are real serious (you don't sound like it) you are both wasting your time. If she loves you and you don't love her back then where does that leave you? I'll tell you where- in an ultimately doomed relationship that will require heavy doses of Jack Daniels and random bits of *** to forget about. Or you could just go to the booze part and not be so serious about this broad. So she boned your friend- good, you can ask him what she likes and she will think you are amazing because you just "knew" I would date multiple chicks until you are at least 25 so you can really find out what you like and need in a relationship, and when you have a long term one, you won't be as likely to feel suffocated because you have had experience sowing your wild oats.