wowzers.
not true, this is just in your case this is happening, because, obviously, you are not sure of what you're doing.
every car is different. search cabin gain / transfer function / cancellation.
nothing is wrong with a 300wrms sub setup. how the hell would you know how much 300w sounds like? too many other factors: the driver, its sensitivity, box, cabin gain, cancellation.. etc.
I highly doubt you do. if YOU said somethings sounds "good," i wouldn't believe it.
subs can be out of phase with each other (when running multiples) or they can be out of phase with the rest of the system.. but for a lot of the lame-o's here, they sub setup is their whole system.