If it were true, then why would it not happen everytime??
Take for example; my mom. Diagnosed with a very agressive cancer in March of '04. She is religious, my father is deeply religious, and her sister is a religious freak (no offense intended). She was on the prayer list at multiple churches, multiple people including herself prayed for recovery, surrounded herself with religious healing and spiritual literature, etc etc. She passed away in November of '04, a meer 8 months after being diagnosed, and in that time the doctors were hitting her with literally the strongest chemo available with today's technology, and her life still only lasted 8 months (the chemo barely even slowed the progression).
Dude, I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. That must have been incredibly difficult. There is no perfect answer as to why some are healed and some are not, but there is some explanation.
First, in many cases there is something God is wanting to do in a person's character. Like working out to build muscle, God often uses difficult circumstances to teach valuable lessons, strengthen and grow character or open a person's eyes to something of much greater importance. Keep in mind, this life is just a drop in the bucket in comparison to eternity. Living your life in maximum comfort from beginning to end doesn't stimulate growth and it isn't God's primary objective for our lives. Our character and our contribution to life is. That doesn't mean He wants to make everything difficult and a test either, He delights in our happiness. But, think about it, every great athelete, businees person, or anyone of notable accomplishment usually has a story of how they faced some huge thing (or things) and had to choose how they were going to react to it before they became who they are today.
Second, in many cases it is better for the person to be moved from this life into the next. If your Mom had a relationship with Christ as it sounds like she did, then she is in a much better place! God taking her home may be painful for us because we miss the ones we love, but it was the absolute best thing for her! She endured great pain in her last months, but many have suffered much longer. God may have shortened her suffering by taking her so seemingly soon. Actually, God did more then just heal her, he made her more complete then she could have ever been on this earth. We only see things from our limited worldy perspective, but from God's perspective things are very different. God hurt, just like you hurt, to see your Mother suffering. If her work here was done, then it was better for her to go to home. The only thing that could make it better for her is if the one's she loves join her some day when it is their time. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
God doesn't always answer the way we think He should, but He always answers in love and in our best interests. He sees a much bigger picture then we do. When you lost your Mom it probably didn't feel like love to you, and I can see a little better now why you have the beef with God that you seem to, but you have to understand what He did was the best for her. He didn't leave you alone in those circumstances either. He was there for you even if you didn't turn to Him. He provided for you through the love and lives of others even if you never saw it that way before. He has answers for you even today, He also has healing for the hurt, no matter how old and buried... but you have to give Him a chance, because He will never force you. You can blame God, like many do, and spend your life in inner hateful misery, or you can let Him help you through it. Happiness never follows a grudge, but healing definately follows opening your heart to Christ. I'm a living example. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/veryhappy.gif.fec4fed33b4a1279cf10bdd45a039dae.gif