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Wow, there is so much stuff to address I don't know where to start. I'm REEEAlly itching to get into all the evolution/creation stuff, but for now I want to address more important issues.
In a world where there seems to be so much tragedy, it is understandable to wonder "where is God in all of this?" The whole "why do bad things happen to good people?" question has been a stumbling block for a lot of people, believers and otherwise. There are no easy answers, but there are answers. I'll try to highlight a few.
I know many who have lost loved one's before they were ready to give them up. Shot, who is EVER ready to give up a loved one? The thing is, death is a part of life, it happens and it is never enjoyable. When we are hurt and angry, for whatever reason, we all want some one or some thing to blame. God is usually the easiest to point the finger at. After all He is supposed to be loving and all powerful, why doesn't He just "fix it" all? Even people who don't believe in God, when something bad happens, all of a sudden it's like they will believe just enough to blame him for something they don't agree with just so they can vent in a easy direction. However, when something good happens, all of a sudden God doesn't exist.
Let me ask you a few questions. First, if there is a God and He created all things, don't you think He has the right to do whatever He sees fit, whether we agree with it or not? Would making everything easy and comfortable for us really be "loving?" Is He the only power out there? Are there other possibilities that could be behind the things we want to blame on God?
My first question may sound harsh to somebody who just lost some one they love, but wouldn't it be true? What most people don't realize is that, just because He can doesn't mean He does. Look around you at all the people who treat God like dirt, have no time for Him, curse Him, hurt others, etc. Even His own followers who go around telling everybody they are a "Christian" but are so self-centered that their lives are making God look bad. If God was so vindictive that He was just going to start taking people out, don't you think He'd start with them? The fact is God set up a natural process the life here on earth operates in, and while He certainly does intervene in more cases then He will ever get credit for, it is not in our best interest for Him to intervene in every case. Do you think we would grow or become wiser or stronger if we were spared from any bad things happening to us? As I said in another thread, God is interested in our character for more then He is our comfort. Does that mean He doesn't delight in our happiness and provide us good times as well? Of course not. The Bible is filled with examples of How God delights in His people, so much so He sent His only Son to make a way for us to be with Him again! If you've ever played sports then you know that your Coach will encourage you AND challenge you. He will ask you do things that will help you become better, but may not be very enjoyable at the time, in fact may be down right painful. God did not spare His own Son from the hurts and pains of this life. Jesus lost loved ones, He was betrayed by some of His closest most trusted friends. He suffered in ways we will never know, and He did so out of love! Would a life of complete comfort and ease make better people of anybody? The answer is no. The Bible says God takes what was "meant for evil and turns it around and uses it for the good." Amoung other things, people who have been through tragedy can now help others who endure similar tragedy. They are equipped like no one else would be. If you've ever had a problem that nobody seemed to understand, then you can appreciate that.
One more point I'd like to make about losing a loved one. Those Christians who have died at comparitively early ages are in a much better place, they are not hurting at ALL! We certainly miss them, but do you think God was being cruel when He took them off this rock and ushered them into paradise?
The last point I want to bring up, is God is not the only power out there. He is the greatest, but He has an enemy. Once His most powerful angel, Lucifer tried to usurp God's throne and now hates all that God loves because he and his followers were cast out. He was then renamed Satan (deceiver) and much of what gets blamed on God is the work of him and his fallen angels (demons). Much of that is brought into this world through the freedom of choice afforded to mankind. God has given us this world to manage in His stead (explained in Genesis) and He chooses to do most of what He does here through us. He wants us to be a part of the process, much like we train up our children and allow them to help us in things that we could do better and faster, but so that they can learn and grow, we involve them. Likewise, God invovles us. The problem is freedom of choice is not just given to those who obey God, it is also given to those who do not. God does not want robots and you would never appreciate being made to believe or feel a certain way, so as long as we are on this earth, we will have to deal with those who's decisions can and do affect our lives. Some times painfully. Does that mean God will not interfer? Sure He will, if it is in the best interest. If some one is on their knees interceding (i.e. being part of that process that He directed us to be a part of). But some times He will allow it because some needed change can be brought out of it. From His perspective, this life is not the end, not even the biggest part. It is a pre-cursor, a boot camp for what is to come. He sees a much bigger picture and He has a plan for how it will all work out. His ways and His decisions are not always going to make sense to us, but He has proven through out history that His love is real and His wisdom is perfect. I don't believe this because I have "blind faith," I believe it because I have trusted Him, stepped out in faith and consistently seen Him answer me, even in miraculous ways. I have been raised in the Church all my life, a Christian for almost 20 years. I have gone through countless doubts, rebellions and fits of blame as I grew, but God has patiently, lovingly brought me to a place of understanding and healing in each one. Looking back on situations I blamed God for, I can see so much good that came out of them, that though I don't understand all the reasons as to why it had to happen, I can see the ultimate difference it made for the better.