they just do that because they are afraid of newbies not knowing how to set gains properly and blowing amps, its a liability issue mainly to them and they want to avoid any possible warranty claims due to user error. As i said before, get a volt meter, plug the positive and negative leads of the voltmeter directly to your amp's pos and negative terminals. play some music, raise the gain until you start seeing the voltage drop below 12.6 then back it up until you keep above 13.0 volts. This method, will allow you to even run 100,000 watts rated amp on a stock setup. You wont be getting the full power but you can always upgrade the alternator or add more batteries way down the line when you feel like it wallet wise but in the meantime you'll still get pretty decent amount of bass with a lower gain setting.
Best thing is, you dont have to buy a bigger amp or beefier subs later on, you can just upgrade the electrical and turn up the amp and gain a good amount of output from that alone.