well my girl is kinda the same way, she has this idea im 26 now and i should b done with THIS kinda stuff. some woman are like this but its up to us to not let them b this way. i just think there is a common ground, if you have bills and cant pay for what you want then you cant get it. its all about being a grown *** man . if you make enough money and your girl is goin nuts still then she has to go or you have to back hand the bi tch to the floor one time. just one time will do she will know she was wrong. its like if you have a dog and he is going threw the grabage or sh its on the floor you hit them. not hard but enough so they know they where wrong. some times u have to do it over and over.