Sold Step-DAD is a little agrumentative.

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

Well i have lived with him for about 2.5years now. He has always asked me to do jobs around the house and ill do them with a smile on my face even though he tends to sit on his *** a whole lot. Whenever i ask a quesiton or bring up a good point he shoots it down and thinks or acts like i am a ten year old boy.

I was working on my system last night. Not extremely loud, but i was testing mid-bass in my doors with some Too Short. Went inside and went bed. Today i wake up in a good mood head downstairs to eat some breakfast and the first thing i get is

Mom- "Tyler Tray moved your car this morning." I thinknothing of it...

Tray- "that music in there is vulgar and i WILL NOT have that in my house!!"

Me-" I understand sir i appologize that you had to listen to it,but i dont think much of it considering it is in MY car and you NEVER have to listen to it. I do not entertain people with this music and do not force you to listen to what is in my car."

Tray- "YOU ARE DEFENDING THAT??? YOU LIKE THAT MUSIC?!!!"

Me- " yes sir, i bought that cd actually meaning i supported that man whom you already hate so much. I feel that if i were to walk into your bed room and hit play on the DVD player and you were watching a ***** and i made this big of a deal about it you might defend it to and think i wasnt in the right place to say anything about it. The music is very close to ***** and i bet you would defend it."

Tray- " You have little smart *** comments and if your mother wasnt here i would have already ripped up that CD this is MY house!!"

I probably wouldnt have such a big problem with these conversations we have, but they tend to be right when i wake up so i have a shitty morning often. I do more chores than he does and clean up after myself more than he does. If i forget to do one little thing i get yelled at the morning after. Its like give me a break old man go fly your **** plane.

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[Slim_Shady]

very true, but before he was in my life he was not paying the bills and everything was perfectly fine. It was not my choice to live with this man and really i cant do anything about it because i am in school full-time and playing sports so i have no time to get enough money to get out of the house.... I should just drop out of school and start working at mcdonalds... that will show em.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

Yyyyyyyeah. That'd show him //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

Just deal w/ it until you have your own place.

 

[loud-n-low 10+ year member]

so because your mom decided she was happy with this man...you decide that you feel the need to cause issues? I have a stepson as well and he creates more problems than you can ever imagine between me and my wife. I can't wait til he turns 18 so he can move out. I love him and all but he delibrately creates problems. Its my house and thats the bottom line. I'm not dick like your stepdad sounds but thats life.

doesnt sound like the OP is starting problems though

 

[grimreper912003 5,000+ posts]

so because your mom decided she was happy with this man...you decide that you feel the need to cause issues? I have a stepson as well and he creates more problems than you can ever imagine between me and my wife. I can't wait til he turns 18 so he can move out. I love him and all but he delibrately creates problems. Its my house and thats the bottom line. I'm not dick like your stepdad sounds but thats life.

I think you got it wrong. He seems to respect him, and it appears his stap dad approached him with the problem. He wasn't listening to the CD in the house. As long as he paid for his car and everything in it, why does it matter what CD is in the car. His step dad seems to be in the wrong on this one.

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

so because your mom decided she was happy with this man...you decide that you feel the need to cause issues? I have a stepson as well and he creates more problems than you can ever imagine between me and my wife. I can't wait til he turns 18 so he can move out. I love him and all but he delibrately creates problems. Its my house and thats the bottom line. I'm not dick like your stepdad sounds but thats life.

I didnt start anything. He happened to move my car and my music was on. He had a problem with my music..... What am i suppose to do? I dont understand how i am at fault in any way

let him listen to your setup with music he likes maybe there will be some common ground

he loves it. I have put on his so called "white music" and he thinks its very impressive, but still *****es about one cd that i have??? seems to me that HE is the one that needs to grow up not me.

 

[andrew2944r 10+ year member]

Try and get along till you can get out, sounds like your his whipping boy to me...

Good Luck

 

[BobbyDD 10+ year member]

doesnt sound like the OP is starting problems though

You're only reading what he wants us to know. His step-dad would probably have a much different version of things.

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

doesnt sound like the OP is starting problems though

I think you got it wrong. He seems to respect him, and it appears his stap dad approached him with the problem. He wasn't listening to the CD in the house. As long as he paid for his car and everything in it, why does it matter what CD is in the car. His step dad seems to be in the wrong on this one.

thanks guys i agree. I mean its not a huge deal its just its not the first time he has come at me with some little problems that he thinks are the end of the world when i am more sucessful than both his kids ever will be (neither live with us but daughter had a baby at 17 and lives at home with her mom, his son failed out of college and used up all his money...) I am doing alright its his kids he should be *****ing at.

 

[loud-n-low 10+ year member]

I didnt start anything. He happened to move my car and my music was on. He had a problem with my music..... What am i suppose to do? I dont understand how i am at fault in any way

he loves it. I have put on his so called "white music" and he thinks its very impressive, but still *****es about one cd that i have??? seems to me that HE is the one that needs to grow up not me.

all you can do with that is tell him its for the music/sounds not the lyrics

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

You're only reading what he wants us to know. His step-dad would probably have a much different version of things.

honestly i quoted everything pretty much word for word. I came downstairs into the kitchen happy saying "good morning guys this breakfast smells great! It actually woke me up" The next thing i get is "good morning, tray moved your car..."

I promise this is the true story.

 

[loud-n-low 10+ year member]

thanks guys i agree. I mean its not a huge deal its just its not the first time he has come at me with some little problems that he thinks are the end of the world when i am more sucessful than both his kids ever will be (neither live with us but daughter had a baby at 17 and lives at home with her mom, his son failed out of college and used up all his money...) I am doing alright its his kids he should be *****ing at.

^^^^could be what is up his ***

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

all you can do with that is tell him its for the music/sounds not the lyrics

it was stated but he couldnt believe i have the audacity to defend it. I said its older style rap Tray he has great low notes.... im not writing down the lyrics and singing them or anything

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

doesnt sound like the OP is starting problems though

he admitted that he gets a bit sassy with him occasionally

 

[acubsfan 10+ year member]

price on step dad shipped to 55379?

 

[loud-n-low 10+ year member]

he admitted that he gets a bit sassy with him occasionally

true, as he should when defending himself for not being wrong, stepdad just opposes what the kid likes.

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

he admitted that he gets a bit sassy with him occasionally

yeah no doubt, but not today in any way shape or form. My sass only comes out on the rare occasion.