Serious though has be in a bit of depression

[Denial]

Im just wondering if anyone else ever feels like this sometimes...

I will be turning 19 this feb. I got finished up with school last year, and i no longer see even close to half the people i used to see in school, it was like a security blanket i guess, i could go and see those same faces i grew up with, go out sometimes and have a good time after school, then repeat the whole process again over and over for what.. 12 years?

Now that its all over, i only have about 3 close friends i see on a daily basis, that call me, etc, i recently split up with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, so that ontop of all this isnt helping.

I just feel like my life is going nowhere or something, every day is the same, i go to work for about 7 hours, come home, sometimes hang out with the same people, do the same things, just the same thing every day.

I feel somewhat lonely, i feel this is how its going to be... It just hit me that i finally have reach "adulthood"

I remember back when people used to say what do you want to do when you get out of shcool and things like that.. id always reply with "i dont know" but i always had so much time to think about what i really wanted to do, and now its here.. and i never really took the time, and i feel like im stuck in somewhat of a hole.

I hope you guys get what im trying to say, just looking for some reasurance.. i dont know what do you guys think, anyone with me?

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[Denial]

Wow, i feel a bit stupid now, i tryed to edit the title, i wanted to have "serious thought has me in a bit of depression"

Hands werent quite in sync with my eyes...

 

[DoubleR 10+ year member]

I am in the exact same position it sucks feels like you aint doin shit with your life hugh I feel the same way!

 

[SSS 18734 5,000+ posts]

if your 3 friends are REAL friends, thats all you need. To be completely honest, I would say I only have 2 REAL friends that I can always count on. The others are just people I hang out with.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Well seems like you are just worried about the changes of growing up. Go to college, i hear thats waay better than high school, and dont worry about gowing up. Youll meet all types of people in life that youll never see again. Go out and do some things you will be fine.

 

[Savstyle 10+ year member]

same boat your in man. goin on 2 yrs outta highi school only have 2 real friends.but i frequently visit my other ones. but i feal teh same way with the life is going nowhere thing. all i do is goto work hang out with my friends once or twice a week it gets depresing. just dont get stuck in a rut, make sure go out and have fun and dont let your days fade by becuase time flys by.

 

[TwistedVisions 10+ year member]

I remember when I got out of highschool and I only kept in touch with a few of my friends then over a few weeks they were non existent to me. I just started hanging out with a different crew. I think this happens to a lot of people in highschool you make lots of new friends but as soon as you get out of high school you move on with your life and make new friends. A major turning point for me was getting in college where I have met so many more new people then highschool. Do you plan on going to college? If you don't then honestly dont' know how you will make new friends unless you change jobs or something but I try to keep my work and play seperate. Remember that you are only 19 so its not like you have to have your whole life planned out or even have a career in mind. Enjoy being 19 and goto clubs or something with your few close friends to meet new girls to get over your breakup.

 

[ngsm13 5,000+ posts]

College...

NG

 

[Ape 10+ year member]

Even in Highschool I feel like I only have 2-3 friends that I can hang out with everyday... haha this thread is depressing.

 

[JAZN 5,000+ posts]

if your 3 friends are REAL friends, thats all you need. To be completely honest, I would say I only have 2 REAL friends that I can always count on. The others are just people I hang out with.

exactly. sux for me though, my best friends moved away and i hardly see them.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

exactly. sux for me though, my best friends moved away and i hardly see them.

Ill be your best friend!

 

[JAZN 5,000+ posts]

Ill be your best friend!

score!

 

[marleyskater420 5,000+ posts]

y is everyone so ****ing depressed?

 

[dustinr 10+ year member]

Hey man, I'm in the same situation. I work, sleep.. and work again. I hardly ever talk to my friends.. they are always working as well.. and our schedules are all different.. besides my 2 yr gf.. i have nothing else to live for =x

 

[Acidburn 5,000+ posts]

y is everyone so ****ing depressed?

they must not be getting what we're getting //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif