It is a basic human function to try and help people and make the right decisions, we live in an economy based society, where peopel are nice to you if they think they can gain something from you - look at your actions, who you hang out with. You are ultimately a product of your parents and then the enviroment you are raised in.
I either have freinds that help me out sometimes or I help them out sometimes - but it is benneficial to both of us in the long run.
Raise a kid with no boundaries and let them do what they want their whole life and they might figure out that good creates good, or they get lost in hate, violence, lonlieness, shame, wahtever they have been subjected to up to that point, yes you could take a 12 year old from white suburbia and have him drinking a pint of whiskey for breakfast and shooting ak-47's at innocent people all day within a year- he woudl be a product of his enviroment.