well i just got back from the shop where my niece bought everything (2.5 hours each way), i walked in there with my cousin (nothing like 2 huge irish guys to liven your day up) and i explained that my niece was talked into a system that was WAY too big for her car and that I wanted to return EVERYTHING (almost 6k i might add, which was charged on her American Express card jesus).
Firstly the guy tells me there is a no return policy, then after some careful word selection he tells me that they aren't able to refund all the money today and there is a re-stocking fee, then after more words exchanged no with m cousin involved we got the re-fund on EVERYTHING.
on the way back home i stopped off at a shop in town and got her 2 sets of Morel ovations (on sale for $390 a set) which will be in, in a few days. and the guy who was there told me he had a BNIB Zapco 360.4 for sale for $300 cash, so i will be checking that out later tonight...things are already looking better...gonna look into some nice 8's or a good 10' MAYBE A 12"
now the whole deal with the wiring and everything, holy moly
EDIT: typo on the amount 6k not 8k haha and it was exactly 6, it was like 5,800 something