Is snooping on spouse wrong?

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

Take it from a hunter......never trust anything that bleeds for seven days and doesn't die.....

if your gonna use a quote, at least use all of it

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

by the way, you just gave a free pass to cheat (more). //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif


GO YOU!

I wonder who she'll be with tonight //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[80INCHES 5,000+ posts]

Is snooping on a spouse bad?

yes

cuz i dont like when it happens to me..and it not fair....omg i hate it so much...wheres the fu.cking respect for my privacy...wat the hell

80

 

[MsCrunk 10+ year member]

You need to come get some of this RNP, once you feel what my 10x daily kegals exercises be doin' to keep my ham wallet nice and tight you will forget you ever knew that white cave bitch.

I am married too but there ain't nothing wrong with a little bump and grind while hubby is at mosque //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

she has a lot of whoring to catch up with Supa's mom.

With her taking on 3 at a time lately, she is approaching that status quick.

 

[Bass Addict 10+ year member]

You need to come get some of this RNP, once you feel what my 10x daily kegals exercises be doin' to keep my ham wallet nice and tight you will forget you ever knew that white cave bitch.
I am married too but there ain't nothing wrong with a little bump and grind while hubby is at mosque //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

karma is coming for YOU lol

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

yes cuz i dont like when it happens to me..and it not fair....omg i hate it so much...wheres the fu.cking respect for my privacy...wat the hell

80

I feel the same way but at the same time he saw a red flag and looked into it. I would imagine most guys would do the same if their chick started spewing out odd emotional shit out of the blue.

 

[Bass Addict 10+ year member]

yes,its a dead give away fo sho

 

[TurdFergueson2 5,000+ posts]

Is snooping on a spouse bad? I am in the military and deployed, and my wife and I are open when it comes to email accounts and all that. But when I am deployed, I am not able to check her stuff an she knows that. She has a very jealous ex, and she has always been honest when I am home if he ever emails her.
Well, after chatting online for a little bit the other day, my wife out of the blue asks, "Would you ever stop loving me?, do you think you would ever hate me?". I was kind of thrown for a loop, but answered honestly, I would never hate her and never stop loving her, no matter what. But it raised my interest all of a sudden, and it made me question her honesty. She has told me over and over, she would never do anything to hurt our marriage, and until this, I totally trusted her. She has NEVER given me a reason before to doubt her.

So, I decided to get online, and look at the cell phone bill. There were about 6-7 numbers I did not recognize, and they were not her friends' numbers, these were random out of state numbers. Kind of like how most military people have cell phones from out of state because of moving a lot.

I haven't called any of them, but I did recognize one as her ex's number. Supposedly, she said he called her on Christmas Day, but the bill shows SHE called him. So, being a little upset, I texted his number, and told him to never call my wife, ever. He responded that she called him and wanted him to come see her. He is also military, and told me that he didn't, that he did not want to take the chance of ruining his career since she is a married woman now. He also has a girlfriend, and doesn't want to ruin that. We texted back and forth a little, and he said that he is not the one I need to worry about.

Well, I emailed her the very first text from him, saying that she was the one that called and wanted him to come see her. She blew up at me, saying he is lying and making shit up, and that I am snooping and need to stay out of her shit. She doesn't know that I saw the phone bill, which i copied to my computer. I told her, that he has to be lying, that I KNOW she would never do anything like that, but now I am getting the cold, silent treatment. She also has changed all her passwords for everything.

But as a concerned husband, overseas fighting for the country, am I in the wrong for snooping? I never would have thought of anything if I didn't get asked those questions the other day. All I want it to have her waiting at home for me, the day I get back. I love her more than life itself, and I honestly doubt I would EVER leave her, for any reason whatsoever.

Please let me know if I am in the wrong, the right, advice, help, etc. This is running through my mind non-stop, and I haven't even been able to eat in two days now. All I do is workout, trying to relieve the stress, and I can't sleep. I feel so crappy, I am almost to the point of passing out.

Thanks for taking the time to read this, I want to keep this quiet from my command, so I had to vent on here.

Dude, you already lost. She banged the guy already. She still keeps in touch with him, calls him all that. Your little snuggles is cheating on you. If not physically, mentally for sure. You're living a pipe dream to think that she is just gonna wait for you to get home and rod her out like she needs to be. It only works like that in the movies. She is using you for your benefits. Does she stay on base?

So it sucks that you not focused in the field because of this shit. But the truth of the matter is you should never seek answers you dont want to know. If she not pregnant, dump her ***. Or not. It's your life.

 

[BIGsherm7272]

She is fvking him or other men.......you can tell when they are lying because just as you stated, when you just even brought the matter up she exploded. That is a crucial sign that her ex is piitb.

Plus you are deployed and she is home alone, horny as fvck.

Bishes don't care about you really, just ***. They are all whores.

 

[Bass Addict 10+ year member]

piece of advice for all fellow bass heads,stay away from chicks with red hair and green eyes.they are satan's daughters !

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

yes, youre in the wrong. Because you are doing it for no fukin reason. if you found proof you still wouldnt leave her, so whats the dam point? Just let her fuk whoever she wants and get aids and have whoever's babies while you have to pay for her decisions. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/imdaman.gif.bc6c552e19aa4ad8c47461144f40eb1a.gif

It doesn't surprise me in the least that the best post in this entire thread comes from Chevillac.

The OP is, or should be, way past the question of whether she is a cheating whore. His only questions now should be along the lines of, "how do I protect my money until I can get a divorce." But instead, he is so freaking whipped that he is worried about whether he was in the wrong for catching the skank.

What a pus.

 

[snb778 5,000+ posts]

keep your head in the game out there.. you have no control over what goes on around home while you are away... figure it out when you get back....

BUT, after reading all that, it doesn't sound good... she is asking you if you love her, and would ever leave her for anything, almost like she is about to tell you she did something wrong... ya know....THEN, you call her out and ask why she is getting so emotional, and she blows up.........

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

OP:

You gettin any *** out there?

 

[Pop da Hatch 10+ year member]

wheres the pics...........