i have not seen/talk to my dad in 20 years

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

whats up guys? im 26 now and have not seen nor heard from my dad in years i would say 20 years now. i was just chillin in my room still at home with my mom ready to move out in a few weeks. i heard her on the phone say hes working 6 days a week i wish he did that for us. so when my mom got off the phone i asked her whos working 6 days? she goes look i spoke with your father ,she got the number threw a friend. she did not tell me much othere then she has the number and she feels better geting some things out there .u guys think i should call or just keep going on with my life?

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[-01limited- 10+ year member]

I'm 21 man and havent seen or talked to my real father since I was 5. Now that I'm a little bit older and understand some things better if he didnt try, then he didnt want to.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

Try to hit him up maybe he will feel guilty and give you some monies since he has a job //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/greedy.gif.5a53e6246569d7ab79867170f3b06629.gif

 

[jco1385 5,000+ posts]

what is there to gain from this? a lot of awkward situations //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[orangecounty1 10+ year member]

i say don't. why would you?

 

[audioholic 5,000+ posts]

I think the replies of a bunch of strangers on the internet isn't going to affect your decision one way or the other.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

what is there to gain from this? a lot of awkward situations //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

maybe monies .....//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/greedy.gif.5a53e6246569d7ab79867170f3b06629.gif

 

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

I'm 21 man and havent seen or talked to my real father since I was 5. Now that I'm a little bit older and understand some things better if he didnt try, then he didnt want to.

theres all ways 2 sides to the story , from what i got from my family is my dad was in to drugs and he just gave up on us.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

theres all ways 2 sides to the story , from what i got from my family is my dad was in to drugs and he just gave up on us.

now hes working and could feel guilty about his past

 

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

I think the replies of a bunch of strangers on the internet isn't going to affect your decision one way or the other.

i will read every post even yours.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

i will read every post even yours.

this

 

[connersdad19 10+ year member]

I have been through a similar situation. I had not talked or seen from my biological father since i was 2...i now am 25 and we have a talking relationship that is getting better. I think you already know the answer to your question though. Go with what you want, not what the majority says. Each situation and person is different.

 

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

I have been through a similar situation. I had not talked or seen from my dad since i was 2...i now am 25 and we have a talking relationship that is getting better. I think you already know the answer to your question though. Go with what you want, not what the majority says. Each situation and person is different.

i think your right me adding another issue i really dont need somthing that can effect me in a bad way. i really dont wana talk to him cuz i just dont know what to say. i dont wana call and just get nasty even though i have a right to. u know how they say u should respect your mom and dad well i think i dont have to follow that for my dad.

 

[sacsking916 5,000+ posts]

good luck either way whatever you choose to do. if you hit him up hope things go well. if not well then good luck with whatever else you got going on

 

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

good luck either way whatever you choose to do. if you hit him up hope things go well. if not well then good luck with whatever else you got going on

thank you