Good luck......
I was 4 years active duty in the army from 02-06. I got out after a very hard tour in Iraq but thats another story. I got out with plans of going to school, using the G.I. Bill and all. After being out of school for so long I found out that it is very hard to get back into the swing of things lol. I was a contractor working for Akima Logistics for while helping soldiers train before heading over seas and let me tell you the contractor world is cut throat. I mean you could have work for a couple months but if your company get outbid you could take a major pay cut or be SOL not have a job at all.
Right now I am civil service and work at a Army Maintenance shop that requires that I maintain membership in the Army Reseves. Civil service is all about who you know not what you know also know as the Good ol boy system. The only reason I got this job is because I knew one of the supervisors who happen to be my commander in the reserves at the time. I would suggest to you that you sit down with your wife and make a plan. I would also start to do some major networking (like I said it's who you know not what you know). I was very fortunate to have the position I hold right now as I make more now then I did on active duty. I am telling you to be prepared for hard times. Network network network.