Woman situation, what to do

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

That is one conversation that needs to happen, I think. What does she mean by that?

x2 I would be like you "love me" like you wanna **** my pee pee or love me like please hold my pocketbook while to I go to the bathroom.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

She's 19 almost 20. I will have that talk.

 

[ArrizX 10+ year member]

So, been talkin to this girl for a while, tried to date her and got the friend thing - some of you know how it is, some of you are straight pimps and dont understand. So, anyways, back to whats happening.
A very very good friend of mine ****ed her in the past, and it seems they're starting to hang out more and more, and possibly going to start dating?

So I've seen this girl every day, literally, for months. I'm wrapped around her little finger, sad to say, and I dont know how to take it.

What are you supposed to say when someone you care about is wrapped up in one of your best friends arms?

Seriously

Someone loan me a gun?

AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING ANY FVCKING PICTURES. IF THAT MEANS THREAD FAIL, THEN SO BE IT. fegs. I figured the CAPS would help you figure out what I was saying.

Cut her loose, or get the dude out of the picture.

No other options.

Seriously.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

I'd hit it.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Where's the pics of this chick MisterGrubbs?

 

[twistedmind 10+ year member]

So, been talkin to this girl for a while, tried to date her and got the friend thing - some of you know how it is, some of you are straight pimps and dont understand. So, anyways, back to whats happening.
A very very good friend of mine ****ed her in the past, and it seems they're starting to hang out more and more, and possibly going to start dating?

So I've seen this girl every day, literally, for months. I'm wrapped around her little finger, sad to say, and I dont know how to take it.

What are you supposed to say when someone you care about is wrapped up in one of your best friends arms?

Seriously

Someone loan me a gun?

AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING ANY FVCKING PICTURES. IF THAT MEANS THREAD FAIL, THEN SO BE IT. fegs. I figured the CAPS would help you figure out what I was saying.

Honestly man, bros before hoes. You should know this.

As for what you can do about it, not a **** thing except take her off the pedastool, stop being her shoulder to cry on and treat her like someone you want to **** not hangout with.

you're probably way to far into the friendzone at this point to make a comeback but if you want to try getting off the emo support wagon is a good place to start.

 

[konechiwa 10+ year member]

Honestly man, bros before hoes. You should know this.
As for what you can do about it, not a **** thing except take her off the pedastool, stop being her shoulder to cry on and treat her like someone you want to **** not hangout with.

you're probably way to far into the friendzone at this point to make a comeback but if you want to try getting off the emo support wagon is a good place to start.

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i like how everyone is only reading the first post now.

Grubsies thread got jacked up

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

I didn't read any part of the thread, but judging by the fact that the OP went on to CA.com for women advice my only answer is "Kill yourself"

 

[.::DuD3::. 10+ year member]

Moar cowbell

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

This coming from me, the acclaimed ***** of the forums evidentally.
Man the **** up and put a stop to it. It needs to be done, and if you care at all about that girl you'll do it, she might like it but she knows and you know that it isnt right.

TB - so do I reconcile for being a complete dick, and then start distancing myself?

Read what I wrote dude. You can be an ******* or whoever you want, but just be something your comfortable with doing what I outline. I told you you need to start distancing yourself emotionally while keeping her physically close.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Read what I wrote dude. You can be an ******* or whoever you want, but just be something your comfortable with doing what I outline. I told you you need to start distancing yourself emotionally while keeping her physically close.

But I dont understand how to do that?

So basically, still hang out. Avoid the small talk, avoid the deep conversations, just keep it simple at let it ride? I'm horrible at this.

And I ****ed up today. She came over, for a long time. I pussed out on myself, and you guys, I'll say. We talked, and this should explain the situation and how ****ed I am to you.

We talked about her saying she loves me...

Simply stated... she loves who I am, but cant be with me, or wont, whatever you will say - she loves me as a best friend and theres no way around it or way to change it.

Yes I ****ed up today, but I know, for sure, that I'm too far into the friend zone for it to ever be different. She sees me as someone she can just be with, tell whatever she needs to, whatever.

I get to just deal with it, I guess... this is a long journey to pain

And yes, I am now a *****. I cant do it.

Me = being emo right now, god****it

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

But I dont understand how to do that?
So basically, still hang out. Avoid the small talk, avoid the deep conversations, just keep it simple at let it ride? I'm horrible at this.

And I ****ed up today. She came over, for a long time. I pussed out on myself, and you guys, I'll say. We talked, and this should explain the situation and how ****ed I am to you.

We talked about her saying she loves me...

Simply stated... she loves who I am, but cant be with me, or wont, whatever you will say - she loves me as a best friend and theres no way around it or way to change it.

Yes I ****ed up today, but I know, for sure, that I'm too far into the friend zone for it to ever be different. She sees me as someone she can just be with, tell whatever she needs to, whatever.

I get to just deal with it, I guess... this is a long journey to pain

And yes, I am now a *****. I cant do it.

Me = being emo right now, god****it

Well I am glad you got that out of the way. Now on to plan B which is staying good friends with her but still throwing out flirts every once in a while to keep up some type of ****** tension even if she thinks it is just the normal dudes wanna bone me kind.

Then in 6 months or whatever when she has taken down her walls you get her drunk as shit and bang her.

 

[konechiwa 10+ year member]

But I dont understand how to do that?
So basically, still hang out. Avoid the small talk, avoid the deep conversations, just keep it simple at let it ride? I'm horrible at this.

And I ****ed up today. She came over, for a long time. I pussed out on myself, and you guys, I'll say. We talked, and this should explain the situation and how ****ed I am to you.

We talked about her saying she loves me...

Simply stated... she loves who I am, but cant be with me, or wont, whatever you will say - she loves me as a best friend and theres no way around it or way to change it.

Yes I ****ed up today, but I know, for sure, that I'm too far into the friend zone for it to ever be different. She sees me as someone she can just be with, tell whatever she needs to, whatever.

I get to just deal with it, I guess... this is a long journey to pain

And yes, I am now a *****. I cant do it.

Me = being emo right now, god****it

your in the friend zone. i think you'll be fine in about a week or two.

Seriously, what you need to do is stop talking to her.

edit: i meant you'll be not sad in a week or two not out of the friend zone.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Well I am glad you got that out of the way. Now on to plan B which is staying good friends with her but still throwing out flirts every once in a while to keep up some type of ****** tension even if she thinks it is just the normal dudes wanna bone me kind.
Then in 6 months or whatever when she has taken down her walls you get her drunk as shit and bang her.

I could honeslty probably **** her right now, but here's the thing.

This is going to start a flame war, but I dont mind, because I'm being truthful, and at the end of the day those flaming have no effect on anything in my life.

Anywho, it's not about ****in her, sure it's great but it's not about that, it's not what is important. That is last resort.

She's been treated like shit, abused and misused, and downgraded like you would not believe. She's a good lookin girl, I wont deny that at all, but once again here's the thing - my main thing is I want to be with her. Since I cant, I'm trying to help her get some self respect back. She's too good for her past; the way she has been dogged, beaten down and demoralized sickens me, she's too good.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

your in the friend zone. i think you'll be fine in about a week or two.
Seriously, what you need to do is stop talking to her.

edit: i meant you'll be not sad in a week or two not out of the friend zone.

haha, ****it. I know man, I know.