Woman situation, what to do

[wokeupquick 10+ year member]

You're a ***** man. Be scarce. If she calls you everyday and asks to come over, just make plans and ignore her for a bit. Girls get REALLY pissed when you do that... just don't take it too far, otherwise they get "hurt." Lawl. If she likes you, she'll come to you. Plus, the more complicated ****s like this are never worth the work. *****es come and go like the days of the week.

A way to test the waters - talk about other girls in front of her and see how she reacts. If she pursues the topic and starts questioning you, she might like you. If she's just like, cool, you = boned.

I've noticed a lot of experiences here parallel mine, really interesting...

Anyways, I think you've played too far into the friend zone. Try the thing I said above... if it fails, use her for her transportation/food/money or whatever and please, don't be a *****, don't be her shoulder to cry on jesus christ.

Edit - just read some of the last few pages of the thread. Just tell her to **** off, what a waste of time. In her world, she views you as a tool, nothing more. Understanding/realizing this will make you stronger next time around.

 

[wokeupquick 10+ year member]

double post

 

[sue bee 10+ year member]

Keep distancing yourself and trying to raise her interest in you via said distancing and your newfound *****es. Without the latter and former, you will have no reason for her to like you romantically. If there is any hope, it will be brought out in her after you do these things. If you can't get this girl to like you in a couple of weeks by doing what I said, there is no hope. And actually, just thinking about it...the bigger of a ***** you were, the better it was. Because if you were just kind of a *****, and showed some interest, then she already knows and has made up her mind. If you were a complete ***** - and I'm hoping you were - then she may not even know the deal. So here's to hoping you were a complete ***** and if you man-up you will show her a side of you she never knew about.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

We'll see. I'm still ****ed up in the game, so to speak. I'm officially announcing tonight that she needs to make time for other people and back off me some

 

[bonesninja 5,000+ posts]

only one thing you can do....supersoak dat ho

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

We'll see. I'm still ****ed up in the game, so to speak. I'm officially announcing tonight that she needs to make time for other people and back off me some

Keep one thing to keep in mind, you don't want her to become your enemy. Women talk to each other.

 

[T9X 10+ year member]

Keep one thing to keep in mind, you don't want her to become your enemy. Women talk to each other.

Nothing good has ever come from women talking.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

Been there, done all that.
But I learned and haven't let it happen again.

If there are no benefits, why have female friends?

Unless of course you like senseless drama and listening to someone b!tch.

its why i come to ca.com every day.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Noting good has ever come from women talking.

Agreed.

And I'm not going to be mean, I'm just pushing her away.

Maybe a few years down the road I'll approach her again, or she'll approach me. Who knows, until then **** it ya'll

I appreciate this thread. For the most part.

 

[Jeremy M 10+ year member]

So basically you and your hand are still jerking off in the shower to her and you have not even attempted to get any play?

lawl

how do u get soo whipped without even tapping it?

go put ur PNS into a vaginal cavity and u will forget her and be in love all over again with a new girl, then u can make a post about the next girl when she wants to just be friends.

 

[Slammed 5,000+ posts]

so many fishes

time heals wounds

this is a learning experience

you did the right thing...maybe in the future you will find someone who you like more than this girl and this girl will be begging for the cawk...life is teh funny

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

You act like this happens often. This is very few and far between, I dont just fall for someone. I just dont.

So, with that in mind, I will go **** me some new *****es, but I wont be posting anything on here about it other than whether or not the poon was good

 

[Rookie_80 10+ year member]

i might be wrong but seems like (from first few posts) she likes im more.

I'd fight for MY girl but i'd never bother fighting for A girl.

I understand u like her but again if she likes someone else better then lewt go and find yourself a better chick - u know there's so many around.

and u never know seeing you with another girl might spark her desire towards you.

 

[skateboardkid 10+ year member]

sounds like your gonna lose the girl and your freind, I know I wouldnt want to see them out at night and think " that mother****er is taking her home instead of me" I would want to kill right there, that or drink about 4 more Long island's and smoke a huge blunt and try to forget about it.

You shoudl have said to fuuck off thats my girl to your friend in the first place, maybe you dont have a chance, girls love to lead on the nice guys and then hook up with some rich ******* anyways.

Are you gonna fight for her or give up?

Is she worth fighting for?

Sounds like it's too late to do anythign but get drunk and find the next girl...

 

[GrayMatter4tw 10+ year member]

time for a rousing game of Rock Paper Scissors with your boy...

to see who gets sloppy seconds.

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I'll hit ya with some advice anywho...

Once you land in the friendzone, you will never get out.

Treat her like shit for a while, i.e. ignore her, and she will come crawling to you, if she wants anything to do with you. If she doesn't, get the **** out of that mess and find someone new. There's more women than men in most places, so take advantage of it.

how about I show you one of the ladies I'm working on to give you some motivation to post some pics:

feel free to flame I don't care

but

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