Woman situation, what to do

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

So, been talkin to this girl for a while, tried to date her and got the friend thing - some of you know how it is, some of you are straight pimps and dont understand. So, anyways, back to whats happening.

A very very good friend of mine ****ed her in the past, and it seems they're starting to hang out more and more, and possibly going to start dating?

So I've seen this girl every day, literally, for months. I'm wrapped around her little finger, sad to say, and I dont know how to take it.

What are you supposed to say when someone you care about is wrapped up in one of your best friends arms?

Seriously

Someone loan me a gun?

AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING ANY FVCKING PICTURES. IF THAT MEANS THREAD FAIL, THEN SO BE IT. fegs. I figured the CAPS would help you figure out what I was saying.

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[mapolley07 10+ year member]

kinda in the same position as you buddy.......except that she is dating some random dude now, not my best friend

 

[Proximity 10+ year member]

...

pics?

Your fault for not making a move and being a *****

 

[PsychoTheRapist 5,000+ posts]

Kill him.

 

[matte 10+ year member]

you gotta tell both your friend and the girl how you feel. you cant just sit around and HOPE everything works out in your favor.

if you dont tell them now, you might be missing out on something great.

 

[NewAgeKing 5,000+ posts]

Doubt it will change but get off your *** and at least try.

 

[budahbuddy803 10+ year member]

time to start spitting serious game......if you want her to know that is

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

That's where you're wrong.

I did make a move

I just didnt make the right move, haha

I mean cmon man, I guess I'm straight stuck in the friend zone or something.

For God's sakes, this girl calls in to check in with me, and tells me she loves me every night. WTF

haha

And she's on the way to my house right now. With him.

 

[NewAgeKing 5,000+ posts]

Oh and never tell her or him the wrapped around the finger deal. Your f'ed for life if you do.

 

[Innovative:Cory 10+ year member]

two words.....

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[Proximity 10+ year member]

For God's sakes, this girl calls in to check in with me, and tells me she loves me every night. WTF

Oh you're ****ed. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

and I don't mean literally.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

She knows

And they both know how I feel

That's whats ****ed up, But I will give him some respect. He told me outright he wasnt going to mess with her, because of us being how we are, and because he knew how I felt.

So, me being an idiot, I told him to go for it - prove a point to me. He's still trying to back down, but he's still pulling her away, if that makes any sense. I fvcked myself over telling him it wasnt a problem and to go for it, but hell man if she's happier with him - why not, you know?

At the same time, I'm at home miserable, and have to front most of my day because I'm talking to one of them.

 

[NewAgeKing 5,000+ posts]

Fight for your mate. Well not literally but try to charm her. Be better than your friend so to speak. See what he does and doesnt. Dont wait on her at all. See if he does it. Know what im saying?

 

[Innovative:Cory 10+ year member]

In all honesty, If she is telling you she loves you then she is just playing with your mind... I say cut off any favors you are doing for her and then see if her story changes...

 

[matte 10+ year member]

dude you can never be stuck in the friend zone. thats where i was and thought it would never change. you need to do something out of the ordinary - something he doesnt do. something to set you apart from him, and make her want YOU more than anything else in the entire world.

if she calls to check in with you and tell you she loves you, and shes still ****in around with him..that just doesnt make any sense to me lol.