here it is man, had a friend that was a girl, wanting to become a man... she ended up liking another friend of ours, 1 thing led to another, and she decided she was just a boyish girl... stopped taking hormones, stopped going to her counseling sessions, (which you have to do here in the bay before you have the operation), and they have been happy ever since... if she likes you, or is interested in that way, she must already be questioning who, and what exactly her ****** orientation is... in that aspect, i say it's okay... people get confused all the time. as long as you are accepting of that, and not a jerk about it, then you are a a good dude... hit it!