The problem doesn't appear to be with the sub, it sounds like your speakers are worthless or they are clipping badly when attempting to get to lower frequencies (quite likely) and thus sounding terrible. You are then using the EQ on your deck to try to keep the fronts from sounding like shit, but when you do, the signal to the sub is also effected. HU power is not sufficient to have any components up front work with your sub stage. You need to amplify a decent set of components in the front, set all your EQ levels to 0 (bass, mid, high), then set the gain on your amp so that it matches your components. Then tweak the EQ a little bit to get the tone you want. You should pretty much never have your shit set all the way to -6 or +6 if that's the max range...if you do need that kind of drastic EQ, chances are something is configured incorrectly.