open up a 4wheelin' magazine.. : ) not a dodge/ford/chevy in sight my man.
toyota rocks the house off road, my 1986 toyota van with 2 wheel drive rocks off road.
i buried my 1994 4runner in a canal to the window line, and kept it running and after the tow truck pulled it out, it was still running, 2 hours later.
my scion XA 2005 (rip) was hit in the passenger side at ~60 from a huge ford van, crushed the car in half, and shut off the engine, it started and sputtered out at the junk yard, i took a look, and the MAF sensor lines were all cut, so thats probably why it didn't run.
toyota's are definately durable, i'd have to see the FJ cruiser in person, it looks small in the pictures, but it's built on the 4runner chassis, so i cant imagine it being too small, as the new 4runner is as big as a ford explorer, that and it comes with 17's stock, not too standard on tiny suv-types.