Should I visit a girl I met on Myspace?

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

Met this wonderful girl on myspace. She's 19 years old, and is currently living by herself in a hotel suite in Boston with her son. She's single and a model. She also has Lupus, which has affected her kidneys, and she has to go to dialysis appointments 3 times a week as she waits for a transplant. She gets disability from the state, and has family that help her with her bills, in addition to her modeling and print work. She is able to cover her rent totally on her own from her modeling, and money she has saved. She's originally from North Cali, but has relocated to Boston to be closer to realatives, and for better healthcare. She is smart, independant, and rational. We seem to have a lot in common. I've been talking to her on the phone for hours at a time almost every night for the past 3 weeks. She keeps me company at work, somtimes for the entire day. She's about 530 miles away in Boston. I could drive there in 8 hours, or drive 3 to Baltimore, then take an 1 1/2 plane ride to Boston. The round trip ticket would be about $125. I've known this girl for a total of about one month, but since then, there is not a day that goes by that we don't spend time together either talking on the phone, or on the internet. Seems like we are getting pretty close. I have 38 vacation hours accrued at work I could use to go visit for about a week. When I ask her about visiting she says "You know where im at" What are your guys thoughts on this?

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[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

what kinda *** posts this on a ca forum... dude get a life....

 

[thylantyr 10+ year member]

Simon Cowell would say ... yer fuggin nutz, abort the relationship as you are setting yourself up for misery down the road.

There are many healthy fish in the sea and you don't need headaches.

 

[Chevyaudio 5,000+ posts]

what kinda *** posts this on a ca forum... dude get a life....

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get a life.

 

[jeeper07 5,000+ posts]

Met this wonderful girl on myspace. She's 19 years old, and is currently living by herself in a hotel suite in Boston with her son. She's single and a model. She also has Lupus, which has affected her kidneys, and she has to go to dialysis appointments 3 times a week as she waits for a transplant. She gets disability from the state, and has family that help her with her bills, in addition to her modeling and print work. She is able to cover her rent totally on her own from her modeling, and money she has saved. She's originally from North Cali, but has relocated to Boston to be closer to realatives, and for better healthcare. She is smart, independant, and rational. We seem to have a lot in common. I've been talking to her on the phone for hours at a time almost every night for the past 3 weeks. She keeps me company at work, somtimes for the entire day. She's about 530 miles away in Boston. I could drive there in 8 hours, or drive 3 to Baltimore, then take an 1 1/2 plane ride to Boston. The round trip ticket would be about $125. I've known this girl for a total of about one month, but since then, there is not a day that goes by that we don't spend time together either talking on the phone, or on the internet. Seems like we are getting pretty close. I have 38 vacation hours accrued at work I could use to go visit for about a week. When I ask her about visiting she says "You know where im at" What are your guys thoughts on this?

not gonna lie.... your kinda creepy man.

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

Don't get me wrong. I have no illusions of "finding true love" or anything like that. I figure at the very least, I could stay with her as a freind, and party in Boston for a week. Whats so wrong with that?

 

[bdawson72 5,000+ posts]

dont believe it anyway

 

[Lil Poot 5,000+ posts]

lawl @ another of these type of posts....

 

[CJL 10+ year member]

Sure, why not?

 

[iagrdshaka 5,000+ posts]

I wouldnt do it, but thats just me...

 

[PollyCranopolis 10+ year member]

why not? Like i said, the worst that could happen is I spend a week in Boston, and party my *** off.

 

[pitbull12888]

the chick im bout to go with i met off myspace.. she lives like 10 mins up the road and i met her through 1 of my friends....she's awesome as hell! ... that chicks cute,if she lives around u meet her.. if not dont be a loser

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

OMG! First the honda civic ex that does over 130 and now this! You lose at life! Can she spread lypus? I hope she does!

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

its your vacation time to blow, i say go for it. have a good time.

 

[Ali1 10+ year member]

haven't you learned from the other noobs who post their drama with single women on this forum

but i'de fvck her.