Opinions on a situation please

xhilr8n
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I had a transaction about a month ago now with oxygen65 on here, and here is how it has gone so far.

I sold him a perfect working 13W7, when it arrived at his house it had a hole in the cone, i had paid the shipping place to package the item and insure it. I also took pics of it while they were packaging it. I have been dealing with them on the phone, on many trips down to my local packaging place, etc.. Well i found out the other day the claim was finally approved, i had to provide a receipt for purchase of the item(which i found), and provide the pictures of the unharmed sub at the shipping place to UPS. After telling the buyer i was gonna refund his money i have gotten a series of pm's, i think are childish, moronic, and rediculous.

When i told him about a week and a half ago, that they were in process with the claim and it was pending approval upon me providing pics and receipts, he said all he wanted was a refund and he would be cool, b/c he was getting a new car or something, so i said that is cool when i get the claim i will refund the money. I was actually planning on giving him an even 500$ when he didn't pay me that much.

here are some pm's i have gotten the past couple days

6-23

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Originally Posted by xhilr8n

as i said i will refund your money..what you paid me......

jason

but i still want the sub!!!

there is no way i can find another one for that price, let alone find another one! it took me forever to find urs that you were selling

u gotta give me enuf money to buy a new one

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Originally Posted by xhilr8n

i will refund your money...... why do i gotta give you enough money to buy a new one and give you the sub.......dude be rational........ i don't see how you can think i am obligated to give you the sub and a refund. I paid for the insurance, i paid for the sub to be shipped etc. I put retail price insurance on it, b/c if i got stuck, i wouldn't LOSE money on it....... i wouldn't have sold it to you as cheap as i did if i hadn't have needed money as bad as i did at the time.

I am not trying to screw you in any way shape fashion or form, i will give you a full refund...... Do you remember the pm you sent me a lil while back about how you were going to a smaller car etc. and all you were wanting was the money you paid me for it......if not i saved it and can forward it to you.

jason

wait so im getting the sub too???

cuz if thats the case then its fine cuz ill just send it to jl to be reconed

i kno i sent you pm saying that i didnt even want it anymore but thats cuz i was gonna buy a new car and now i decided not to, so i still want the w7 but if i get the damaged one then thats cool cuz ill just get it fixed with the money you give me

all i care about is gettin a working 13w7 that has no cosmetic flaws, but if i dont get to keep the w7 i would like enuf money so i can purchase a used one becuse i really want one and its not like you are gonna be losing money cuz u can get them off ebay for 650, that still means ur gettin 350 out of it.

let me know what is goin on

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Originally Posted by xhilr8n

dud you either get your refund in full Paypal fees and all, or i will ship you the sub and a partial refund...... I mean come on. I am not gonna just give money away....even if it was on a insurance claim. If you get hit by someone, you get your car fixed, and there is a surplus amount between the price of getting the car fixed, and the insurance payout, would you give the remaining to the person that hit you?

I have talked to JL and the Recones aren't cheap.....it costs around 450, i will refund you 225 and send you the sub, then all you would have to pay is 225$ to have a brand new JL 13w7

I am negotiable but i am not gonna stick myself over them screwing up....if i ship this thing again and it shows up worse though, then what....... I am not going through this drawn out claims process again....... There is a guy in the classifieds section that is selling his 13w7, i would pay him for that one, and he can ship it to you.......but if anything goes wrong with shipping it is out of my hands..... I will send you the link.

Jason

he wants 650 for the 13w7 and as far as a 12w7 i dont want that cuz there is a huge diffrence between the 2

just give me 650 and well call it done, i dont see what the problem is ur still gettin money that you didnt have for doing nothing

i dunno why ur bein so diffucult about this, you told me that you insured it for 1000 bux in case anything goes wrong cuz thats what a new one costs, well why didnt you tell me that if somethin does go wrong that ur not gonna give me the money to buy a new one anyway???

its not like im askin you for 1000 bux, just give me 650 so i can buy one off ebay and i kno it will get here without being damaged

also that guy with the 13w7 has 36 posts???

can you tell me that you would wanna deal with him, cuz i kno i dont

just give me 650 so i can get a 13w7 and know that it will come to my door alright, thats all im asking, ur still making money off it too

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6-24

Originally Posted by xhilr8n

DUDE IT ISN'T GONNA HAPPEN.....

I will refund you your money next week....

jason

so why did u insure it for 1000 when ur not even gonna give me half of that????

may i remind you i have all of your information, including where you live ur phone numbers and even whoever elses you gave me.

i just really dont understand why ur bein an up tight little ****in ***** about this, ur still makin 350 off of somethin that u didnt even do, all i want is my sub, and trust me everyone is gonna think ur a ****in dick and never wont have anything to do with you after i make a post about ur ***

either you give me the 650 for a new 13w7 or like i said, give me the old one and whatever it costs for a recone, i dont think it is unfair at all, i purchased a 13w7 and that is what i want, u seem to feel since you fell into some easy money that it is ok to **** people over. well guess what if u try and **** me over u have another thing comming to you, cuz when u give someone ur address and all that info u **** urself if u try to **** me.

and dont forget the fact that u commited insurence fraud, i dont think u wanna go down for that one do ya???

i exspect my 650 or the w7 and the money for a recone within a week or ur *** is mine, even if i have to fly out there to get it from u, cuz i dont kno who u are ****in with

i tryed to be peaceful about it but u braught it to this, its up to you

either pay up or ruin everything here, cuz unless u move i will follow u on this site and make sure no one has anything to do with you

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This was the final response i got this morning, Am i really in the wrong here, i looked up subs on this site for sale for the same price as mine roughly and offered to pay for it, if he wanted.....but i said that shipping was out of my hands.

Frankly, i don't think his plans have changed, don't think he was ever getting another car, or anything of the sort.

The solutions i offered of him getting another one should be more than ample in my opinion.

Has anyone else had dealings with him, sold or bought from him, or anyone else for that matter and had to deal with this tantrum throwing thing. I must also add that when someone threatens me it makes me a little less motivated in helping them out......especially when i have spent the last couple weeks etc. fighting with ups etc. just to make them pay the claim.

Jason

 
Under normal circumstances I would have said to give him the full amount of the insurance claim but only so long as the sub was returned to you.

Give him money and the sub??

Puh-Leeze.....

But if your buyer is going to be such a complete douche about this I would say once the sub has been returned to you then refund his purchase price only (plus whatever you charged him for shipping the sub to him originally ) plus the return shipping to get the Dub7 back to you.

 
Under normal circumstances I would have said to give him the full amount of the insurance claim but only so long as the sub was returned to you.Give him money and the sub??

Puh-Leeze.....

But if your buyer is going to be such a complete douche about this I would say once the sub has been returned to you then refund his purchase price only (plus whatever you charged him for shipping the sub to him originally ) plus the return shipping to get the Dub7 back to you.
agreed

 
typical CA.com lack of common sense and logic...
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Wow children these days, if he isn't a 16 year old douche, then he fails at life as an adult...//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif

 
I posted in the feedback area, i was just trying to get some opinions and this is the lounge. I figured it was ok here, if not mods feel free to move it.

jason

 
guess he never watches any of the court shows on tv. you can't have both the item and the money you paid for it, one or the other. he should send u back the sub, and then you refund him what he paid, no more.

 
The kid is a fucking idiot.

End of story.

Your only obligation is to reimburse him the money he paid. That's it. It is not your responsibility to make sure he gets another sub to replace the damaged one.

He sends you the sub, you reimburse him the money he has paid you and not a penny more.

 
have em mail the sub back. and you give him excatly what he payed
done

if he does not wana mail the woofer back, then dont give him any money.

whats hard about all this?
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