need some opinions on gf and roommate problem

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

Ok so can you give me some advice on this:

so i have a girl room mate but i have a girlfriend and my room mate is questioning my girlfriend why she helps me out all the time. my roommate does have a boyfriend. So why would this girl be questioning my girlfriend about why my girl does my homework, cleans my apartment and does some of my work when i do have time to do it at work. Is she trying to hint to me that she wants to get with me and she is trying to get rid of my girlfriend or is she jealous of the fact that her boyfriend doesn' spend money on her like i do with my girlfriend. *THIS IS NO EMO BULLSHIT I AM JUST TRYING TO GET ADVICE ON WHAT IS GOING ON*!!!!

SO YOU HAVE THE ADVICE I WOULD APPRECIATE IT!

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[iagrdshaka 5,000+ posts]

Suggest an ménage à trois just to be safe.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

her boyfriend is probably neglecting her so she is looking for attention elsewhere. probably both, jealous, lonely , maybe even hitting on you. or you are being the typical guy and reading way too much into it. alot of guys think that if a girl says hi she wants to **** ha ha......very possible that she is just being nice. girls are much nicer to their friends than guys are ha ha

does ur girlfriend care that you have a girl roommate? if she is completely cool with it and doesnt always question if you and your roommate are messing around , then forget about your roommate and keep your current girlfriend around. non jealous girls are very hard to find. i dont know of many girls that would be completely ok with their boyfriend rooming with another girl......

edit: just re read your post and realized roomie is *****ing about girlfriend being nice to you and helping.... girls are just naturally jealous people.... is she the type of girl that doesnt get along with other girls? i know my girlfriend hates all girls ha ha.....if so no matter what girl you have shell find something wrong with her and say shes not good enough for you.....

and again she probably is jealous because her boyfriend probably takes her for granted.........

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

no me and my gf are completely fine its my room mate she had a problem with today while i was at work just wandering why my room mate is doing this. asking all these personal questions and saying why do you help your bf out to my gf like its wrong or something.

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

She probably sees the Toyota Echo and realizes you come from money and wants you to be her new sugardaddy!

At the very least I would PIITB just to test the waters.

 

[MarcRocks 10+ year member]

This isn't going to work out long-term. Sounds like you've got a great gf that wants to make you happy and help you out. If the roommate has a problem with that, for any reason, that's just going to stress you and your gf out and you don't need that. Have your gf move in with you. Then you have 24 hour access to poon.

As for the possible reasons your roommate doesn't like your gf helping you out:

Wants you (not likely)

Wants her (more likely)

Jealous of what you have together

Lonely and wants your attention to herself

Feminist psycho who thinks doing things for men is morally wrong

 

[rtillaree 10+ year member]

i wish i had these kind of problems in life...

 

[trunks9_us 10+ year member]

lol guys i think i figured out the problem for one guys my gf does live with me and my room mate is a girl. next my room mates bf he is in for rush for a frat and he doesnt seem to spend alot of time with her and he is always drunk and mean and stuff but she loves him while me and my gf spend all the time together and have fun all the time so i am maybe wandering do you think she is jealous b/c me and my gf spend all the time together and she cant have that? are girls like that i know she has low self esteem and she is always worried about her bf getting with another girl i dont know why she worries so much me and my gf dont have this problem so i am wandering is this what the problem is?

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

stick your roommate in the butt. This usually cures all.

 

[billabongcr 5,000+ posts]

shes mad her boyfriend wont do her chores.

trick your girlfriend into cleaning her room too..and while your in there..x2 on the 3some.

 

[BoomBoomBoy 10+ year member]

This is an easy case. You're involved with a roomate that likes to stick her nose into other people's business.

Tell her to either butt out, or find herself another roomate. This shit is only going to cause problems with you and your girl.

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

I think we need pics to better help you

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

Ditch the roomate if you value your girlfriend. I only see shit on your horizon in your current situation

 

[bikinpunk 10+ year member]

From what you said alone in your first post, I'd say your roommate thinks your girl is simply doing too much for you.

I personally think you're reading too much into this. If anything I'd say your roommate thinks your pathetic because you don't do for yourself.

/honesty

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

Suggest an ménage à trois just to be safe.

I'm with him. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fro.gif.c695f1f814b01c4ad99fe7f8cccadd29.gif