My gf is turning 21, I need some suggestions.

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

It sounds like you guys are spending WAY too much time together if you've done everything in such a short period. I suggest that you offer her the option to date someone else for her birthday. Perhaps she can come back with some new things for you guys to do.

yes i agree we do spend too much time together but thats just what we do cause theres nothing better to do. and yes i did tell her almost 3 months into the relationship that seeing each other too much is a bad idea. but i think i managed my time well keeping fridays and saturdays open to hang out with the boys.

we don't mind doing nothing together its just i want to actually do something nice for her for her bday.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

careful with the bear thing.. you have to make off quick... i did it it worked like a charm... BUT i'm stuck with her now, she thinks i'm the sweetest thing since corn in turds.. so u'l prob be stuck w her

You're boring.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

yes i agree we do spend too much time together but thats just what we do cause theres nothing better to do. and yes i did tell her almost 3 months into the relationship that seeing each other too much is a bad idea. but i think i managed my time well keeping fridays and saturdays open to hang out with the boys.
we don't mind doing nothing together its just i want to actually do something nice for her for her bday.

Well, at least you do that. What do some of your friends do for their gf's?

 

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

careful with the bear thing.. you have to make off quick... i did it it worked like a charm... BUT i'm stuck with her now, she thinks i'm the sweetest thing since corn in turds.. so u'l prob be stuck w her

i already think i am stuck with her..

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Ah, rent a limo for a few hours and simply drive around checking out some of the sites you normally don't see...

 

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

Well, at least you do that. What do some of your friends do for their gf's?

same shit everyone else does. go out drink and eat, go clubbing.. maybe vegas once in a while.

my gf's different shes a one shot wonder and litterally will BE drunk off of half a beer.

exactly why she doesnt want to drink for her 21st.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

How about a museum and lunch afterwards?

Yeah, I know. BORING...

 

[MyPoison1 10+ year member]

get a tattoo of her name on the small of your back.

 

[XaznKewLguyX 10+ year member]

How about a museum and lunch afterwards?
Yeah, I know. BORING...

already gone to getty's and the observatory

get a tattoo of her name on the small of your back.

ahah no way. IMO getting someones name on your body is just plain stupid.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

I'm a bit of a land lover myself. How about a nice drive through the countryside and small picnic or cookout at a park? Are there any parks in your area that allow you to do bbq's? Snag a couple of steaks, mushrooms and head out.

But don't forget that one beer to get her feeling good...

 

[MyPoison1 10+ year member]

take her to Disney land again.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Are you in the area of any wineries? Perhaps look into a tour of one. I understand it is quite interesting...

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

Horseback riding and a picnic.

 

[1000101 10+ year member]

already gone to getty's and the observatory


ahah no way. IMO getting someones name on your body is just plain stupid.

i agree.. i knew this guy once.. . he had his chicks name on his neck... .a year later she was walked in on by him and like 3 other people while she was bangin two dudes.. YES TWO.. .

That guy will never beable to forget that day.. or at least her name..lol

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Seadooing?