Well, I didn't read the whole thread, but based on what I did read I'd have a couple suggestions. I'm in my mid-thirties, been married and all that. I've experienced a few things and what I'm going to say is out of my own experiences.
This kind of thing can happen, more then likely it is from stress and anxiety. If you are feeling guilty about the morality of your relationship, if you are nervous about the possibility of pregnancy...etc. There are also other frequent causes, like if you view a lot of **** or ********** regularly. **** desensatizes you so to what men are naturally wired to be aroused by, so it takes more to "get you off." Likewise, ************ trains your body to stimulis that is different from being inside a woman. Frequent ************ invariably causes premature ejaculation and even impotence. These are medically documented facts for those who think such avenues are "good" advice. Before anybody gets too uptight, both are generalably curable, but only with work, time and a very understanding partner. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif It is better to not get yourself in that position in the first place.
Save yourself for your woman, she'll appreciate it and you'll be happier with yourself and your performance. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif [soapbox] Better yet, practice abstinance until you are married and can be physical in a safe and permenent environment.[/soapbox] Then you'll have a lot less to be nervous about. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif