Longest relationship you have been in

[BobbyDD 10+ year member]

13 years, still going

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

My g/f does things to annoy me, but it gives me something to despise, so I see it as being healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
For instance, she's an absolute slob, and I'm a neat freak, so she'll just leave clothes wherever. I normally do the laundry, but lately I've just piled her shit in the corner and not touched it. She's slowly getting into the habit of cleaning up after herself now.

i would pile all of her clothes up in her bathroom ... If you share a bathroom, in front of the door to her bedroom ... If you share a bedroom, in the driver's seat of her car ... If you share a car, put her and her stanky clothes in the trunk ... If you drive a hatch ... kill her.

Anyway, my longest relationship is 9 months. Why did it end? It ended cuz I was 18 and realized relationships aren't for me!

Almost 21 now and still lovin every minute of the single life //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

How long and why did it end?
For me, 5.5 years... Ended du to the living conditions of the area. I did not want to move.

5 and a half years and you didn't feel like moving??? Sounds like a STRONG relationship //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

8.5 years. Why break up when erryone has problems. I know whats wrong with my g/f, why would i want to try and figure out someone else's problem all over again?

cuz they have a new vegina too //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[Jep772 10+ year member]

will be 5 years in Oct.

 

[wu36ca 10+ year member]

5 and a half years and you didn't feel like moving??? Sounds like a STRONG relationship //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

Long story. She suffered from depression and separation anxiety issues since I knew her. She said if we moved out of the place we were in (really cramped with a lot of people) her depression would have got better. I was not sure of that. She ended up moving down with her family about 200 miles away. If I moved out and she still did not get better because of the separation anxiety I would have been really screwed. She would have ended up moving out anyway and I would have been stuck with a very expensive place in the Silicon Valley by myself. Plus I always wondered even in ideal situations would she be able to handle herself and how long can she maintain the most ideal situation. THings were bad. I basically wanted her to prove she was strong in the face of adversity. She did not do so hot. It was a little more complicated than me not wanting to move out. Now I kind of regret my decision, but at the same time she made things as complicated as possible and I did not have a good enough crystal ball to see if my decision was right at the time.

The reason why we lived together there in the first place was when we graduated college I ended up with a place with super cheap rent. Its very few and very far between in the area. She decided she did not want to move in with a roomate so she took on a $725 a month studio in the ghetto when she was already in debt. After a year she was going broke with a good job so I got her to live with me. That is when the real problems started. This on top of her missing her family and friends severely and her hating living in San Jose destroyed the relationship. She ended moving back to the Central Valley of California (Bakersfield/Fresno area). Right now she is in her ideal situation. So far she is happy. I cannot say how long it will last and I do not know if I will ever find out the result.

 

[Crutch 10+ year member]

5 years

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

5 years the longest for me.

3 years currently in the beginning of June with the wife. Only been couple weeks with wife status.

 

[XxSuperAdamxX 10+ year member]

2 years.

 

[SethPhillips 5,000+ posts]

longest 4.5 years. she was a biotch, but very fine. those seam to go hand in hand. i cheeted on her like 3-4 times. took me back everytime. feal bad for it, but **** it!

new girl i have been dateing since march. soo 3 month's.

cool as shit and fine as hell. cant go wrong.. well see how this gose..

 

[dan7532 10+ year member]

Long story. She suffered from depression and separation anxiety issues since I knew her. She said if we moved out of the place we were in (really cramped with a lot of people) her depression would have got better. I was not sure of that. She ended up moving down with her family about 200 miles away. If I moved out and she still did not get better because of the separation anxiety I would have been really screwed. She would have ended up moving out anyway and I would have been stuck with a very expensive place in the Silicon Valley by myself. Plus I always wondered even in ideal situations would she be able to handle herself and how long can she maintain the most ideal situation. THings were bad. I basically wanted her to prove she was strong in the face of adversity. She did not do so hot. It was a little more complicated than me not wanting to move out. Now I kind of regret my decision, but at the same time she made things as complicated as possible and I did not have a good enough crystal ball to see if my decision was right at the time.
The reason why we lived together there in the first place was when we graduated college I ended up with a place with super cheap rent. Its very few and very far between in the area. She decided she did not want to move in with a roomate so she took on a $725 a month studio in the ghetto when she was already in debt. After a year she was going broke with a good job so I got her to live with me. That is when the real problems started. This on top of her missing her family and friends severely and her hating living in San Jose destroyed the relationship. She ended moving back to the Central Valley of California (Bakersfield/Fresno area). Right now she is in her ideal situation. So far she is happy. I cannot say how long it will last and I do not know if I will ever find out the result.

I see. Don't feel bad bud, she's the one with issues. That was nice of you to help her out, but I think you'll be better off with someone else, if that amounts to anything.

 

[Rookie_80 10+ year member]

5 years the longest for me.
3 years currently in the beginning of June with the wife. Only been couple weeks with wife status.

how old was she when 5 year one ended?

 

[mazzasec 5,000+ posts]

thats cause ur always on here man:laugh:

ya your right ive been on my computer on Ca since i woke up at 12 //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 

[wu36ca 10+ year member]

I see. Don't feel bad bud, she's the one with issues. That was nice of you to help her out, but I think you'll be better off with someone else, if that amounts to anything.

Its hard. We were extremely close and the last thing we ever said to each other was I love you. She just recently started dating so I guess if she can move on I can too. It is weird because even though I was probably the less enthused member of the relationship during the time, I am the one now thinking there is no one better for me than her.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

6 months. That was about a year and a half ago and haven't been in a relationship since. Single life fits me just well at this time.