had this issue as well, but after a few games over a couple of weeks things begin to loosen up.I am glad the OP made the poll with a spread, because mine would have been hard to choose had it not been 1-2 as an option.
I had two virgins that I dated back in HS. One I was able to fuck and the other I was not able to fit in. #2 and I tried for like an hour at this party. She was more upset than I was it seemed. I just went downstairs and found a different girl who could ****. For some reason she never talked to me again. That selfish b!tch!