So on this gay head unit, there is a subwoofer output setting and it just cuts off the frequency like a low pass filter, I set this to 80hz. You can adjust this setting up to +6, which I did. There is also just a bass boost optioin, I set this to +6 as well. The loudness is still off. I'm now getting decent bass and I still have the gain turned all the way down, so I think I have solved my problem.
Now I have a question about low/high pass filters. I have them set on my amps already at 80hz, but when I adjusted the bass settings all the way up my speakers started to sound like ***, so I had to turn the high pass filter on with my deck. Should I just leave both high pass filters on with my amp and deck? I dunno if that matters. Basically it just looks like I am going to have to tweek all the settings on my deck a lot to get it to sound good. I didn't think it would be this much work to set it up lol.