Help me making a life-altering decision...

htf do you live off $175 'till xmas?
x2. I don't think that would last me a week, and I'm thinking just as petty cash. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

Here's what you do, you stay there, save your money and get a part time job somewhere, just for pocket money. Give me the address and name of your ex, and let her know I'm on the way to fill in. Win/win for everyone. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 
You guys are right in the sense that I don't want to get a job, and if I truly needed/wanted one, I could.

And yes, my Mom still pays for the bills (because I still live in her house) and my phone (because she's the only person who calls me, pretty much).

I mean, call me a bum, a mooch, whatever. My mom isn't struggling paying for the stuff, and if she were you can bet I'd get 18 jobs to support her, like she's supported me through the years.

And the main reason I'm going there isn't to cheat on my gf, it's to be there for a best friend who's going through a tough time. The fact that we're still into each other is irrelevant because I have a gf, and she has a bf. So we can control ourselves. I mean, if I have to get a job and sleep less and work more and what not to get her to smile, and be happy for just a weekend, that's fcking fine.

You guys are just flaming me for being lazy because I don't want to get a job-- because I'm frugal and I never but ish, so I can survive off a lower amount of money than most people.

The decision wasn't 'to get a job' or 'not get a job' as you guys so promptly made it to be.

It was to visit a best friend in need, and lose money, or stay in Miami and be able to cruise with no worries.

But, you projected your own problems into the decision.

(BTW-- I can live off $170 bucks 'cause I drive a V6 Mustang and I eat healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif)

 
Dude...you said you and your ex are 'crazy' about eachother...how the **** are you gonna spend a couple nights alone in a bedroom (possibly in a single small bed) and not get intimate...she must be one ugly bish

 
wow man ur sad. u better just be lucky you have a girl willing to keep your broke ***. dont even have money to buy her fast food or anything and too **** lazy to get a job.
i hope when you go see your ex girlfriend your girlfriend goes and sees another dude and he nuts in her and then when you get home you eat her out and get his nut in your mouth.

i hate stupid people. what a retarded thread.
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LMAO!!!!!!! I'm laughing so hard at this right now I'm crying.

 
Dude...you said you and your ex are 'crazy' about eachother...how the **** are you gonna spend a couple nights alone in a bedroom (possibly in a single small bed) and not get intimate...she must be one ugly bish
Self restraint. I can keep it in my pants?

 
You guys are right in the sense that I don't want to get a job, and if I truly needed/wanted one, I could.And yes, my Mom still pays for the bills (because I still live in her house) and my phone (because she's the only person who calls me, pretty much).

I mean, call me a bum, a mooch, whatever. My mom isn't struggling paying for the stuff, and if she were you can bet I'd get 18 jobs to support her, like she's supported me through the years.

And the main reason I'm going there isn't to cheat on my gf, it's to be there for a best friend who's going through a tough time. The fact that we're still into each other is irrelevant because I have a gf, and she has a bf. So we can control ourselves. I mean, if I have to get a job and sleep less and work more and what not to get her to smile, and be happy for just a weekend, that's fcking fine.

You guys are just flaming me for being lazy because I don't want to get a job-- because I'm frugal and I never but ish, so I can survive off a lower amount of money than most people.

The decision wasn't 'to get a job' or 'not get a job' as you guys so promptly made it to be.

It was to visit a best friend in need, and lose money, or stay in Miami and be able to cruise with no worries.

But, you projected your own problems into the decision.

(BTW-- I can live off $170 bucks 'cause I drive a V6 Mustang and I eat healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif)
and because you still get allowance for keeping your room clean.

 
You guys are right in the sense that I don't want to get a job, and if I truly needed/wanted one, I could.And yes, my Mom still pays for the bills (because I still live in her house) and my phone (because she's the only person who calls me, pretty much).

I mean, call me a bum, a mooch, whatever. My mom isn't struggling paying for the stuff, and if she were you can bet I'd get 18 jobs to support her, like she's supported me through the years.

And the main reason I'm going there isn't to cheat on my gf, it's to be there for a best friend who's going through a tough time. The fact that we're still into each other is irrelevant because I have a gf, and she has a bf. So we can control ourselves. I mean, if I have to get a job and sleep less and work more and what not to get her to smile, and be happy for just a weekend, that's fcking fine.

You guys are just flaming me for being lazy because I don't want to get a job-- because I'm frugal and I never but ish, so I can survive off a lower amount of money than most people.

The decision wasn't 'to get a job' or 'not get a job' as you guys so promptly made it to be.

It was to visit a best friend in need, and lose money, or stay in Miami and be able to cruise with no worries.

But, you projected your own problems into the decision.

(BTW-- I can live off $170 bucks 'cause I drive a V6 Mustang and I eat healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif)

man.

i supported my fiance when she first moved down here for ~6 months , but she went ahead and got a job on her own just because she didnt want me to be paying for her ALL the time.

and if you making this decision depends on money , id say you need to get a job. for one , you wouldnt have to worry about something like this IF you did have one.

two , you drive a car that takes gas. unless you stay right up the street from everywhere you go , you will need to put gas in the tank.

three , i know i felt bad eating all my moms foods and having her give me money for shit (or in your case , pay bills).

and in any case , youre going to have to get a job anyways. you dont want to be fresh out of college STILL at your parents house doing the same thing youre doing now, struggling and eating shit. you mind as well get a head start in life and start working. its good for you.

and i x2 that if you go see that chick , lay with her in bed and cuddle, youd get a hard on and try to piihb. i know i would. my woman would trip if i were to say something like that. "yeah , my exgirlfriend/bestfriend is going through some troubles so im going to drive a few hours and stay with her for however long in a single bed in her college dorm. see ya!". riiight.

im not trying to be a dick or anything , but c'mon.

 
You guys are right in the sense that I don't want to get a job, and if I truly needed/wanted one, I could.And yes, my Mom still pays for the bills (because I still live in her house) and my phone (because she's the only person who calls me, pretty much).

I mean, call me a bum, a mooch, whatever. My mom isn't struggling paying for the stuff, and if she were you can bet I'd get 18 jobs to support her, like she's supported me through the years.

And the main reason I'm going there isn't to cheat on my gf, it's to be there for a best friend who's going through a tough time. The fact that we're still into each other is irrelevant because I have a gf, and she has a bf. So we can control ourselves. I mean, if I have to get a job and sleep less and work more and what not to get her to smile, and be happy for just a weekend, that's fcking fine.

You guys are just flaming me for being lazy because I don't want to get a job-- because I'm frugal and I never but ish, so I can survive off a lower amount of money than most people.

The decision wasn't 'to get a job' or 'not get a job' as you guys so promptly made it to be.

It was to visit a best friend in need, and lose money, or stay in Miami and be able to cruise with no worries.

But, you projected your own problems into the decision.

(BTW-- I can live off $170 bucks 'cause I drive a V6 Mustang and I eat healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif)
K moocher! Must be nice not to know or have a fawking clue about responsibility. I lived with my parents from time to time when I broke up with an ex or whatever the case was. Did I mooch off her? Hell no! I paid rent and some of the utlility bills. Did she ever ask me? Nope! Just felt I needed to because I was older and needed to contribute to the house hold and help out. I don't care if I am her only child or not, I will help. Called respect moocher! Parents raised me for so many years, so when I can help out, I do and when I couldn't, I would find a way.

About the girl thing, you are just telling yourself about your ex that you wouldn't do anything. You are lieing to yourself, but please, keep on keeping man, because eventually you will go down the wrong path and this thing called Karma will kick you square in the balls! And you will deserve it.

I thought you seemed cool before this stupid thread, but man, you made yourself look like a moron on here.

 
The decision wasn't 'to get a job' or 'not get a job' as you guys so promptly made it to be.

It was to visit a best friend in need, and lose money, or stay in Miami and be able to cruise with no worries.

But, you projected your own problems into the decision.

(BTW-- I can live off $170 bucks 'cause I drive a V6 Mustang and I eat healthy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif)
Well, explained in that context then I'd say go visit the friend. You can always cut back on what you spend money on, but if you cut back on friendship what then? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

 
Dude aside from the fact that not having a job when you are an able body person that can work makes you seem like a bum, the reason I think a lot of people were bringing up the fact that you should work is because if you worked and had plenty of money then you wouldn't have had to make this thread because you said the problem with going to visit your friend was with the money. You're the one that brought up the money issue so people are telling you how to solve your problem.

 
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