Help me making a life-altering decision...

I am visiting the family before I go to the army and I cannot keep it in my pants with my ex.. Aint gonna happen..
But all I read was post 51.. Your a ****ing loser bro, you can be homeless and survive.. But mooch off your mom all your life. I bet that makes her happy..

But people like you noone can fix, your just useless..


It actually does.

She's divorced, and my Dad was a real dick. He basically alienated her from all of her friends while keeping his... so when they got a divorce, she was left alone. I'm the only person she has left to talk to and be around. So, she really doesn't mind me being home.

 
you need to

step one) buy a bottle of whiskey

step two) forget laws

step three) drink

step two) call some hoes

step three) ****

step four) drink some more

step five) drive while intoxicated

You will see the light when you wake up

 
Alright, so because you were making 35 an hour and doing all of this for your friends, you DESERVE to be lazy and mooch off someone else for a little while? One thing I realized early and alot of people never do. IDC who your are, you dont deserve shit.

 
Alright, so because you were making 35 an hour and doing all of this for your friends, you DESERVE to be lazy and mooch off someone else for a little while? One thing I realized early and alot of people never do. IDC who your are, you dont deserve shit.
Who the fck am I mooching off of?

My Mom? The amount of money I save her by doing all the work around the house more than pays for the bills/food she pays for me.

My friends? No, because the last time I ate a friend's food was July 4th... and it was a fkcing party.

Tell me, dude. Who the hell am I mooching off of? And I don't DESERVE to be lazy or mooch. I was living off the money I saved up from my job, and I was trying to stretch it out as long as possible.

I don't understand what you guys don't udnerstand about that.

 
Maybe you missed the part where I'm in College? I'm not too lazy to get a job, I fear it'll take away from my focus towards school-- and I'm sorry if I'd rather watch out for my future and cook my gf a home-made meal then slave minimum wage to take my gf to fast food. Besides, Fast Food is pits. But maybe the fact that both my friend and I can control ourselves surpasses your ignorant *** brain... or maybe a girl other than yours (assuming you have one) is understanding.My gf knows my best friend/ex. They were actually decent friends. We all went to middle school together, actually. And I know for a fact that she'd be okay with me going to see her. And unlike you, I trust her not to cheat on me... and if she does, just as if I do, may it rest on her conscious because no revenge is better than self-hatred and guilt. So I have no fear of her cheating on me.

And //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif I'm 18 and a full-time college student taking 6 classes. I think I'm entitled to be unemployed and broke.

So, please know the story before you flame. There's a reason I'm broke. I'm in class 7 hours a day 3 days a week, and then "homework" 7 hours on the other days, worth of reading, essays, and equations.

TBH, the only human contact I get consists of hanging out with my family, my gf, and this forum. So, I don't have much of a social life. Its mostly school & School work... and when I'm not I'm on this forum.

You want to retract your statement?
you are entitled to be broke, but not entitled to be stupid enough to waste all your money to go cuddle with your ex girlfriend. thats very disrespectful to your girl and kinda pathetic on your part that you are even considering it. yes home cooked meals are better i was just using the comparison that you couldnt even afford to buy her a meal but ur considering spending all ur money to go visit your "friend". thats just pathetic. see where the priorities are a little messed up?

and dont be mad cause i had a response to the information YOU provided. although it really didnt help, sounds like you are spreading urself a little thin and maybe should take one less class and have a job. sounds like you just want an excuse not to have to work.

and i believe in an earlier response you even said you are trying to work but no one would hire you.. so which is it, you dont want to work or you cant get work. info just doesnt add up.

i stand by my original statement.

 
I mean, you guys are right. I probably shouldn'tve made this thread, and I probably should get a job.And surprisingly, this has motivated me to go out and find a job. I actually just got back from applying at places.

But only a few of you have actually been helpful. The rest of you are just being dcks. For no real reason. Of course I'd have to get a job eventually. The question was to gauge the time until I had to actually get one.

I haven't asked my Mom for money in 2 years, and that time won't come anytime soon. I got fired in June from a well paying job ($35/hr as a Web Administrator) so I've been living off of the money I saved up from that. That just ran out paying for this month's car insurance bill.

I'm really not half as bad as you guys are making me out to be.

I'll admit, I'm lazy, and I don't want to get a job. But, I'm sure if any of you could live with out having a job, you'd do it. I'm a slight burden on my Mom. But I do everything around the house (maintenance, yard work, cleaning, etc.), and for you wise-*****, no, I don't get an "allowance." I do it to earn my keep, so my mom doesn't have to, or hire someone else to do it. If I was such a hassle on my Mom, I know she'd tell me to either pay or get out. She loves me, but she won't hesitate to kick me out.

Thank you for being helpful (sqhertz & Reson8), but seroiusly, what the hell is the rest of your problems? I asked a simple question, you blew it to a proportion it wasn't supposed to fill... attacking sides I wasn't even aware I was supposed to defend. I mean, I'm in no way shape or form a rich spoiled kid. I worked and bought my car, I worked and saved to buy it, and all the audio inside, and even though the equipment isn't that good, I love it. Because I worked for it. I worked to pay for the gas when I was going to HS which was about 7 miles or so away from my house. I even went out of my way to pick up my cousins and take them and never got paid for it, or even a thanks. But I'm cool with that. I worked and paid for my car insurance. My mom has never paid for anything involving my car except a tank of gas once 'cause her car broke and I let her use mine while I took the bus.

As for mooching off my friends, I've bought them plenty of stuff when I was "big Bawlin'" off my previous job. I always used to pick up the bill when we went out to eat, and drive them around when we were in a group.

So, if you think I'm a lazy-scum-of-the-earth ******* who mooches off of everyone around him, I'm really not.

Of course you guys will flame this post, too. Call them "excuses". But, I spent days learning web code. (Arsenal includes, but not limited to: HTML, XHTML[Which is unfair to say since it's nearly the same thing as HTML], XML, CSS, MySQL+PHP) And I had a good job because of it that paid a lot... then when the economy ruined the business, I became unemployed again with a bunch of money saved up that I've lived off of since...

And the simple fcking question was should I go and then get a job when I get back, or not go and wait longer to get a job.

So, again... thanks for the fcking flames.
Dude, it is the netz! We are not your parents or hero's. We are just other people on the end of the spectrum. Don't get all bent out of shape when you get flamed, when really you should have known better.

I actually think you are a cool dude and still do. Do whatever you want to do. If you want to fawk your ex, go for it, if not then cuddle, because that is not cheating or anything. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif Then go home and chill at your moms pad. One day, you will want a good job and I am sure that is what you are going to school. Then you can get your own pad and think man, what a dumbass I was back then. Trust me I have done some stupid shit back in the day and pondered it and now think, wow was I retarded back then. It happens, you mature.......you eventually grow up, or I hope.

Good luck with what ever you do.

 
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I've applied at places I'm interested in working at. (Car Garages, Body Shops, Electronics Places, Game Stores, etc.) Places that I'm interested in making a career of in the future. [i want to go to UF for either Architecture or Engineer, if Engineer, it'd be Mechanical Engineer].

As for the class load, If I take 6 classes instead of 4, I could get my AA nearly twice as fast so I can Get the fck out of Miami 'cause this place is pits.

And I really doubt that my ex and I will cuddle. I've already made up my mind, I'm going. Regardless of how "dumb" it is, or how much you guys are against it. You guys have made me see I really do need a job. Doing shit around the house isn't enough, and I get that now. But both my friend and I can control ourselves, and I'll probably just sleep on the floor seeing how, even if we were intimate, I wouldn't want to sleep on a twin sized bed with another person. fck that. I can barely sleep on a twin bed.

(And someone earlier said get off my fat ***, even if it was a metaphor... I weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5'5". So, I'm skinny and shortasfuh)

At any rate, I hope the remainder of you don't fcking hate the sht out of me. That's what it seems.

 
I've applied at places I'm interested in working at. (Car Garages, Body Shops, Electronics Places, Game Stores, etc.) Places that I'm interested in making a career of in the future. [i want to go to UF for either Architecture or Engineer, if Engineer, it'd be Mechanical Engineer].As for the class load, If I take 6 classes instead of 4, I could get my AA nearly twice as fast so I can Get the fck out of Miami 'cause this place is pits.

And I really doubt that my ex and I will cuddle. I've already made up my mind, I'm going. Regardless of how "dumb" it is, or how much you guys are against it. You guys have made me see I really do need a job. Doing shit around the house isn't enough, and I get that now. But both my friend and I can control ourselves, and I'll probably just sleep on the floor seeing how, even if we were intimate, I wouldn't want to sleep on a twin sized bed with another person. fck that. I can barely sleep on a twin bed.

(And someone earlier said get off my fat ***, even if it was a metaphor... I weigh 105 pounds and I'm 5'5". So, I'm skinny and shortasfuh)

At any rate, I hope the remainder of you don't fcking hate the sht out of me. That's what it seems.

1. My mom tells my brother this all the time when he is looking for a second job; you shouldnt be looking for a job your only interested in. You should open your options to everything, to being a cashier at a grocery store or a chef at a pizzeria. Your more likely to get a job faster that way then being picky my friend.

2. What your typing now isnt going to be the same when your in person. I personally would tell your "friend" that things are rough maybe next time. But make it a day trip not an overnight trip. Screwing your girlfriend for your ex girlfriend is wrong and disrespectful, your girlfriend may not look at you the same way as she did before you left.

3. Go hit the fucking gym you stick

 
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Niggz, I live in Miami... trying to find a job here is like searching for ancient Mayan treasure...
BS! I just hired a guy there.... he making 15/hr and its a cake job, he has a company vehicle, fuel card and cell phone.... seek and ye shall find!!

 
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