Girlfriend advice

Ok here is the issue, I have been dating this girl for like 3 months. We get along good have fun ect. But her best friend a guy is like always making these coments like he is going to take her from me ect. For a while I was not worried about him and I am still not, but I feel that he is real disrespectfull. To top it off they are talking about going on a vacation together. I have said something a few times but she is like we have been friends along time I have no worries ect.
So the way I see it I have a few options.

1 Stay with her and not worry.

2 Stay with her and try to talk to her about it, But I think this will just end us.

3 leave her

4 jack his a$$ and leave her

So what would you do?
Well where to start... Sorry about putting it as a quote but I wanted to read it while I thought about it. First off him saying stuff is EXTREMELY disrespectful and honestly there prob is a 95 percent chance she is cheating on you with him IF she doesn't care that he says that stuff honestly. I just have seen it too many times. Best friends or not... typically when two people are joking like that something is going on between them.(not always but most of the time) now even if something wasn't he shouldn't joke like that and if she doesn't get mad at him for saying stuff like that it would really lead me to believe something is going on. Now in no case EVER is it okay for a girlfriend of one guy to go on a vacation with her guy friend. The ONLY exception is if you can go. And if she is all for going this would further lead me to believe something is going on. How I would do it

Is number 2 first... I would talk to her about it and I would ask to go on the vacation. if you can't or she says no.. Then you tell her that it isn't acceptable for her to do that. And you wouldn't appreciate her going. Then if that is a problem for her then go with 3 and if you feel at that point for sure she is cheating then 4

 
1) forbid her to go on vacation with her guy friend,by her doing that its disrespectful and wrong

2) tell her about the guy friends irratating comments

3) tell her is she wants to date you she has no reason to hang out with other guys

4) give her guy friend a serious beat down,although you may risk loosing your GF in the process youll feel better though

 
1) forbid her to go on vacation with her guy friend,by her doing that its disrespectful and wrong2) tell her about the guy friends irratating comments

3) tell her is she wants to date you she has no reason to hang out with other guys

4) give her guy friend a serious beat down,although you may risk loosing your GF in the process youll feel better though
QFT!

I like these plans!

But the aids needle and assraping were good too.

 
1) forbid her to go on vacation with her guy friend,by her doing that its disrespectful and wrong2) tell her about the guy friends irratating comments

3) tell her is she wants to date you she has no reason to hang out with other guys

4) give her guy friend a serious beat down,although you may risk loosing your GF in the process youll feel better though
QFT!
I like these plans!

But the aids needle and assraping were good too.
Forbidding your girlfriend to hang out with other guys...yeah, that shows a lot of trust and maturity on yalls behalf.

 
UPDATE

I went over there told her me him and her needed to talk. Told her that it was disrespectful and so on she said she would never do anything with him. He said she would then she told him she would not f**k a blackk guy. He said she was a racist and he walked out. I told her we where done and walked out and then he was outside runnin his mouth. So we got it on, dude could fight I was suprised he was about half my size. It was a good fight I am not going to say that I won the cops started to come and we rolled out.

 
UPDATEI went over there told her me him and her needed to talk. Told her that it was disrespectful and so on she said she would never do anything with him. He said she would then she told him she would not f**k a blackk guy. He said she was a racist and he walked out. I told her we where done and walked out and then he was outside runnin his mouth. So we got it on, dude could fight I was suprised he was about half my size. It was a good fight I am not going to say that I won the cops started to come and we rolled out.
pics or it didnt happen. i read this entire thread and it's not gonna end that easily //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 
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