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<blockquote data-quote="vehementSPL" data-source="post: 3686204" data-attributes="member: 582725">Well where to start... Sorry about putting it as a quote but I wanted to read it while I thought about it.&nbsp; First off him saying stuff is EXTREMELY disrespectful and honestly there prob is a 95 percent chance she is cheating on you with him IF she doesn&#039;t care that he says that stuff honestly. I just have seen it too many times. Best friends or not... typically when two people are joking like that something is going on between them.(not always but most of the time) now even if something wasn&#039;t he shouldn&#039;t joke like that and if she doesn&#039;t get mad at him for saying stuff like that it would really lead me to believe something is going on. Now in no case EVER is it okay for a girlfriend of one guy to go on a vacation with her guy friend. The ONLY exception is if you can go. And if she is all for going this would further lead me to believe something is going on.&nbsp; How I would do itIs number 2 first... I would talk to her about it and I would ask to go on the vacation. if you can&#039;t or she says no.. Then you tell her that it isn&#039;t acceptable for her to do that. And you wouldn&#039;t appreciate her going. Then if that is a problem for her then go with 3 and if you feel at that point for sure she is cheating then 4</blockquote>

[QUOTE="vehementSPL, post: 3686204, member: 582725"] Well where to start... Sorry about putting it as a quote but I wanted to read it while I thought about it. First off him saying stuff is EXTREMELY disrespectful and honestly there prob is a 95 percent chance she is cheating on you with him IF she doesn't care that he says that stuff honestly. I just have seen it too many times. Best friends or not... typically when two people are joking like that something is going on between them.(not always but most of the time) now even if something wasn't he shouldn't joke like that and if she doesn't get mad at him for saying stuff like that it would really lead me to believe something is going on. Now in no case EVER is it okay for a girlfriend of one guy to go on a vacation with her guy friend. The ONLY exception is if you can go. And if she is all for going this would further lead me to believe something is going on. How I would do it Is number 2 first... I would talk to her about it and I would ask to go on the vacation. if you can't or she says no.. Then you tell her that it isn't acceptable for her to do that. And you wouldn't appreciate her going. Then if that is a problem for her then go with 3 and if you feel at that point for sure she is cheating then 4 [/QUOTE]

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