Girl Advice

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Glad to hear it worked out...............but, just be careful. Women are the devils! I even tell that to my soon to be wife that. She just always says, yes............yes we are! I should pick up drinking again.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

that reminds me of the talk I had with one of my ex-girlfriends... except the whole time she was lying to me, but she wanted to end it, so she told my best friend that she was cheating on me and "Not to tell me what she told him." Needless to say I was pissed... but I'm sure that isn't happening to you... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

see thats the thing, if we were in high school id imagine something like that happening but since were adults that would just be retarded. seriously was she 15 when that happened?

this girl is like 23 going on 37. this really was the first stupid *** thing shes ever did. it was totally out of character for her. im able to chalk it up to stress cause i know her life/career has changed so much in the last couple weeks id be a little stressed as well. if something stupid like this happens again then ill start to believe shes a crazy ***** and consider the alternatives but at the moment im willing to accept that shed made a mistake and is sorry for it.

at this point ill trust what she says that it was stress, fear of losing me, i mean i am frickin awesome. id be scared to lose myself too ha ha

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

For all you know she had a one night stand with someone. There was a cute guy at the party she was at so she lied to you. Ended up sleeping with him, and now she can play it off.
Think about it. She knows you wouldn't care about her hanging out with friends to get drunk. That's stupid to lie about that. People lie when they're hiding something. She's obviously a good liar though because you bought that BS story.

Ouch, why don't you just go over there and hit him in the head with a frying pan, lol!

 

[MikeyB 5,000+ posts]

**** pix!!!

 

[Alpineforever 10+ year member]

see thats the thing, if we were in high school id imagine something like that happening but since were adults that would just be retarded. seriously was she 15 when that happened?
this girl is like 23 going on 37. this really was the first stupid *** thing shes ever did. it was totally out of character for her. im able to chalk it up to stress cause i know her life/career has changed so much in the last couple weeks id be a little stressed as well. if something stupid like this happens again then ill start to believe shes a crazy ***** and consider the alternatives but at the moment im willing to accept that shed made a mistake and is sorry for it.

at this point ill trust what she says that it was stress, fear of losing me, i mean i am frickin awesome. id be scared to lose myself too ha ha

lol i was 17 and the girl was 16 when that hapenned, I just posted that up to keep the drama going because it looked like this was dying, but I'm not in the mood to keep being a dick to you, I'm sure she's a great girl man, and you gotta be more confident in how amazing she is... that's all i gotta say.

 

[Nexium 10+ year member]

Tell her she needs to stop lying to you or just end it, I've been through something like this before, it sucks to know after so long she lied to you, best thing to do is try and resolve it or just end it.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

lol i was 17 and the girl was 16 when that hapenned, I just posted that up to keep the drama going because it looked like this was dying, but I'm not in the mood to keep being a dick to you, I'm sure she's a great girl man, and you gotta be more confident in how amazing she is... that's all i gotta say.

It was a gallant effort. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[SB3BabyHuey 10+ year member]

Its sounds like you have a keeper there. Good luck in the future. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
But it is still a boring ending and not up to typical ca.com standards. I come here expecting to live my e-life vicariously through you guys, but when shit like this happens I end up with this emo feeling and don't know how to handle it.

Awwww thats an easy one dude. Just cut urself like the other emo kids. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[Alpineforever 10+ year member]

It was a gallant effort. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

Worthy of even your esteem it seems...

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

lol i was 17 and the girl was 16 when that hapenned, I just posted that up to keep the drama going because it looked like this was dying, but I'm not in the mood to keep being a dick to you, I'm sure she's a great girl man, and you gotta be more confident in how amazing she is... that's all i gotta say.

ha ha sorry to disappoint. since its our first issue in 3 years i figured going off the handle and just breaking it off or going to crazy would make our time spent a waste. thanks for the kind words. she is pretty amazing. hopefully itll make us stronger. got her actually talking to me about stuff so thats a start.

Tell her she needs to stop lying to you or just end it, I've been through something like this before, it sucks to know after so long she lied to you, best thing to do is try and resolve it or just end it.

yeah its such a stupid lie that making her feel bad and apologize till shes blue in the face is punishment enough. if lying turns into a habit like with my ex then definitely it will be ended.

Ouch, why don't you just go over there and hit him in the head with a frying pan, lol!

she wouldnt do that to begin with and if she did shes the type that would tell me i think. she wouldnt be able to deal with guilt of that magnitude.

 

[liftedcj7on44s 10+ year member]

what happens when girls get hammered drunk? They like to **** anything in sight, She is lying to you. if she told you about her going off to a party a week before and you knew about it then why would she have to lie to you???? Kinda fishy to me

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

what happens when girls get hammered drunk? They like to **** anything in sight, She is lying to you. if she told you about her going off to a party a week before and you knew about it then why would she have to lie to you???? Kinda fishy to me

maybe the nasty *****s you might date, sure they might **** anything in site but not this girl. she is the youngest person at her work by like 10 years. when she said they were going to take her out to congratulate her for her promotion that literally means go to the bar thats across from there work and have a drink. they are definitely not the party type. after we talked the other night she showed me pictures on her phone of what they were doing. it was literally 3 girls playing board games and drinking wine.

Exactly dude. She did something that she didn't want you to know about. Could be another man, or it could be drugs. Maybe she stayed up with friends doing coke. She did turn her phone off right? Most people that get high on that shit turn their phones off //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

she hates drug users more than anything in this world. its not even a possiblility. were talking about a 24 yr old girl that loves harry potter, volunteers at the local animal shelter, and is currently raising money for relay for life to fight cancer. just the fact that she got wasted when she didnt intend to is definitely enough to make her embarrased and think she had to lie. also a girl that 3 years ago when she met my friends for the first time and saw us all bonging beers she was so mortified she was on the porch in tears. she still gives me a dirty look if the beer bong appears at parties ha ha she had never been exposed to binge drinking like that before.

we had a pretty good weekend. i think were going to be alright.

 

[fanninator 10+ year member]

great man! she sounds like a nice girl. best of luck to yall.