Girl Advice

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

how cute.

i know i know you were looking forward to another mans life messed up by a woman. well were not there yet ha ha maybe in a couple weeks. ill keep it updated lol

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

i know i know you were looking forward to another mans life messed up by a woman. well were not there yet ha ha maybe in a couple weeks. ill keep it updated lol

why would i be looking for that? I have never been looking for that. it happens too much as it is.

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

complimentary tit pic?

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

complimentary tit pic?

ill make ya a deal. if we break up then ill post a couple tit pics. but as long as were together the 34d's are mine!!!

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

why would i be looking for that? I have never been looking for that. it happens too much as it is.

yes, yes it does. for a split second i thought it might be happening again. im just happy having found a girl that doesnt take zanax, paxil, or zoloft. ha ha

maybe she needs to //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif ha ha

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

ill make ya a deal. if we break up then ill post a couple tit pics. but as long as were together the 34d's are mine!!!

Doh!! haha glad to hear you guys are doing good man. I am sure you already know a chick will never tell you even if she is getting a little sausage on the side (been there done that) but it sounds like you guys are doing ok. Talking about shit before you blow up is probably the best advice I can offer and what I have learned being married to my wife of 9 years.. as gay as it sounds communications is key.

phil>

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Doh!! haha glad to hear you guys are doing good man. I am sure you already know a chick will never tell you even if she is getting a little sausage on the side (been there done that) but it sounds like you guys are doing ok. Talking about shit before you blow up is probably the best advice I can offer and what I have learned being married to my wife of 9 years.. as gay as it sounds communications is key.
phil>

yeah i mean unless shes looking to break up no shes not going to tell you but deep down a guy knows if his girl is cheating. thats not the case here. like i said i never actually entertained the idea that she was cheating on me. just disappointed that she thought she had to lie to me about something stupid like that. i hate being lied to.

 

[fanninator 10+ year member]

glad all is well...so far. glad i could help...if i did?

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

glad all is well...so far. glad i could help...if i did?

everybody helped. from the good advice to the bad. mostly made the thread to keep my mind occupied. first time this girls ever done anything like that and i was in a real bad place last night. hell i still havent gone to bed yet. lol last time i was asleep was thurs at 11am. this girl really does mean the world to me and for something like that to just come out of no where and happen just had me all messed up.

THANKS CA.COM!!!!

ill keep everyone posted. hell maybe some **** pics in here in the future ha ha

 

[Vipervenom18 10+ year member]

Lmfao. That is all I got to say.

Figure it out, son.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Atleast post some pics of her friend Robin.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Or the chicks from her work.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Where's the tits? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[Alpineforever 10+ year member]

marks house?


UPDATE: After a long long talk things seem to be getting somewhere. still got some things to iron out but basically she just thought that id be mad at her if i knew she got smashed and was staying over robins house. said that she decided to lie to me after she was already drunk and had she been sober she wouldnt have made the same decision.

assured me that there isnt another guy, which is what i was looking for.

what really made me happy about the talk is like i said shes the type that just likes to let things go and hide feelings. i was able to finally get her to openly talk about her feelings and whats truly been stressing her out. most of her stress is coming from her fear of losing me, ironic isnt it. she said shes noticed alot that with this new opportunity at work shes becoming more career oriented (basically just growing up like people do, well most people) and shes afraid i might not continue to love her if she changes too much.

it was cool for once to see her vulnerable like that you know. she prides herself on being tough, and being able to deal with stuff on her own. i honestly think ive seen her cry twice, maybe 3 times since weve been together. i know i sound emo and girly or what not but it was nice to hear her pour her heart out to me for once.

i think i should stop going to school for business and go for psychology. i love to listen and have people share their feelings with me ha ha

i know its not the juicy shes cheating on me story you wanted to hear but thats what happened. it isnt over yet though. still got some talking yet to do. after we got done with dinner we decided to take a break from talking and get a movie and relax.

that reminds me of the talk I had with one of my ex-girlfriends... except the whole time she was lying to me, but she wanted to end it, so she told my best friend that she was cheating on me and "Not to tell me what she told him."

Needless to say I was pissed... but I'm sure that isn't happening to you... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Its sounds like you have a keeper there. Good luck in the future. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

But it is still a boring ending and not up to typical ca.com standards. I come here expecting to live my e-life vicariously through you guys, but when shit like this happens I end up with this emo feeling and don't know how to handle it.