Girl Advice

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Well, that's just plain boring.

 

[MyPoison1 10+ year member]

what makes me soooo mad is that she didnt have to lie.

Lies are unacceptable, let her know if she lies again you will dump her on the spot.

 

[Pl8er 5,000+ posts]

Well I think we have learned something from this:

1. Your bored with your relationship (built up a bad situation because I think your bored with what is going on)

2. You do not trust your girl (went straight to cheating and must be lying)

3. Your girl may be a tad bi (which is totally cool as long as we get pics //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif)

Glad everything worked out for you.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Ah... to be young and single again. The shit I would do....

Sounds like someones on lockdown. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

so then also is the love of woman... good enough for me.
EDIT: that sounds good man, i'm glad to hear that you're working it out. sucks to just throw away 3 years... sucked to throw away 14 months.

Well, that's just plain boring.

Lies are unacceptable, let her know if she lies again you will dump her on the spot.

Well I think we have learned something from this:
1. Your bored with your relationship (built up a bad situation because I think your bored with what is going on)

2. You do not trust your girl (went straight to cheating and must be lying)

3. Your girl may be a tad bi (which is totally cool as long as we get pics //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif)

Glad everything worked out for you.

guys dont run away yet. it aint over. she just explained herself on the phone. the talk hasnt happened yet. she just got off work. there could be more to come tonight........

 

[andrewmoore13 10+ year member]

i'm still here. just seems like it may be something you can work out, which is a good sign... means that she is probably not cheating on you to me... which would be my only concern.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

i'm still here. just seems like it may be something you can work out, which is a good sign... means that she is probably not cheating on you to me... which would be my only concern.

i really dont think shes cheating on me either. we spend so much time together i cant see her having time to cheat ha ha. part of me wants to think honestly since weve kinda been weird together that she might of thought id be jealous (even though i had just said i wouldnt be) and was honestly thinking about me and didnt want to worry me. but she totally went about it absolutely wrong which is what bothers me so much.

my old relationship was full of lies and bs and i vowed id never be in another one like that.

 

[andrewmoore13 10+ year member]

never had it happen and i hope it wont... trust is a huge thing for me...

 

[MikeyB 5,000+ posts]

Alright CA.com im entering the world of advice from forum members. heres my story. ill try and make it short.
Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 3 years. the entire 3 years have been amazing. shes truly the love of my life and every second has been worth it. for about 3 weeks things have gotten weird. weve kinda turned into that like old married couple that does nothing just hangs out and i talked to her about it. we had a good talk and everything seemed cool.

well tonight when she got off work at like 4 30 she says hey im running into target with Melinda (girl she works with) for a baby shower gift for this girl at work. ill call ya back. bout 2 hours later i text her and ask her whats up. says shes shopping. call her a couple times, text her a couple times and i dont get a response.

bout 10 oclock i call and she picks up. says her phone hasnt rang. i say ok cause ive had that happen before. (getting suspicious cause i called like 20 times) sounds echo like so i assume shes in the bathroom and i say hey where are you sounds weird. she says in the bathroom washing face ill call you when im done.

1 hour goes by i call and instantly get her voice mail. i IM her brother and go hey have ur sis call me i think her phones broke. brother says shes not home. i drive over there and i call her. she goes oh i started talking to mom and im about to go to bed. i say wheres ur car. she goes in the garage. i say well ur bro says ur not home. she goes im in bed cars in the garage, i go, come to the door. she goes, i lied. im at robins.

ive been hanging out with some people from work, i thought youd get mad if i said i wasnt coming over tonight. then i go well when you get home ill be here we gotta talk. she turns her phone off and i wait there an hour and she still hasnt gotten home..........

cliffs: been together 3 years, girl lied about where she was tonight, says with friends, turns her phone off when i catch her. still not home.

advice guys.

Ive been in that boat....is this the first/longest serious relationship that you've had? Sounds like she might be having other thoughts about playing the field. Tends to happen with relationships after a while, sucks gettin real close to a chick then seperating and hating each other but its how things go and its a part of life so get used to it.

edit- Once a relationship gets to the point of lieing to one another its about time to stop seeing each other imo

 

[andrewmoore13 10+ year member]

update?

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

update?

I think she's now over at Mark's house now //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/uhoh.gif.c07307dd22ee7e63e22fc8e9c614d1fd.gif

 

[miker 5,000+ posts]

HAHA So I talk to my friend tonight, and he says

"so Some guy come into my work today and asks to use the phone. So I let him, the he starts going, ***** why you not answerin' your phone! whats that in the backround? you ******* his dick!!!? Where the **** are you?" He said this went on for almost and hour.

Think that is is very simillar to this story HAHA.. A guy doesn't know where his girlfriend is, she doesn't answer the phone, and is suspected of cheating..

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

I think she's now over at Mark's house now //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/uhoh.gif.c07307dd22ee7e63e22fc8e9c614d1fd.gif

marks house?

UPDATE: After a long long talk things seem to be getting somewhere. still got some things to iron out but basically she just thought that id be mad at her if i knew she got smashed and was staying over robins house. said that she decided to lie to me after she was already drunk and had she been sober she wouldnt have made the same decision.

assured me that there isnt another guy, which is what i was looking for.

what really made me happy about the talk is like i said shes the type that just likes to let things go and hide feelings. i was able to finally get her to openly talk about her feelings and whats truly been stressing her out. most of her stress is coming from her fear of losing me, ironic isnt it. she said shes noticed alot that with this new opportunity at work shes becoming more career oriented (basically just growing up like people do, well most people) and shes afraid i might not continue to love her if she changes too much.

it was cool for once to see her vulnerable like that you know. she prides herself on being tough, and being able to deal with stuff on her own. i honestly think ive seen her cry twice, maybe 3 times since weve been together. i know i sound emo and girly or what not but it was nice to hear her pour her heart out to me for once.

i think i should stop going to school for business and go for psychology. i love to listen and have people share their feelings with me ha ha

i know its not the juicy shes cheating on me story you wanted to hear but thats what happened. it isnt over yet though. still got some talking yet to do. after we got done with dinner we decided to take a break from talking and get a movie and relax.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

HAHA So I talk to my friend tonight, and he says
"so Some guy come into my work today and asks to use the phone. So I let him, the he starts going, ***** why you not answerin' your phone! whats that in the backround? you ******* his dick!!!? Where the **** are you?" He said this went on for almost and hour.

Think that is is very simillar to this story HAHA.. A guy doesn't know where his girlfriend is, she doesn't answer the phone, and is suspected of cheating..

ha ha good stuff

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

marks house?


UPDATE: After a long long talk things seem to be getting somewhere. still got some things to iron out but basically she just thought that id be mad at her if i knew she got smashed and was staying over robins house. said that she decided to lie to me after she was already drunk and had she been sober she wouldnt have made the same decision.

assured me that there isnt another guy, which is what i was looking for.

what really made me happy about the talk is like i said shes the type that just likes to let things go and hide feelings. i was able to finally get her to openly talk about her feelings and whats truly been stressing her out. most of her stress is coming from her fear of losing me, ironic isnt it. she said shes noticed alot that with this new opportunity at work shes becoming more career oriented (basically just growing up like people do, well most people) and shes afraid i might not continue to love her if she changes too much.

it was cool for once to see her vulnerable like that you know. she prides herself on being tough, and being able to deal with stuff on her own. i honestly think ive seen her cry twice, maybe 3 times since weve been together. i know i sound emo and girly or what not but it was nice to hear her pour her heart out to me for once.

i think i should stop going to school for business and go for psychology. i love to listen and have people share their feelings with me ha ha

i know its not the juicy shes cheating on me story you wanted to hear but thats what happened. it isnt over yet though. still got some talking yet to do. after we got done with dinner we decided to take a break from talking and get a movie and relax.

how cute.