Girl Advice

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

But if he drops her before we wigs, then he can blame it on her.

Based on what he has said thus far it doesn't look like that's going to happen...

 

[jer_stud56 10+ year member]

I don't think any of us would just DROP it after 3 years...sure we all say we would, but if we were in the situation..that's a lot of money and time spent.

On the other hand, I'd still go for one of her friends or something after wards. I've done that twice (and been successful both times). It's a great feeling after wards cause you know she'll eventually find out.

 

[SethPhillips 5,000+ posts]

im tellin you man...

she just want's to play the field....

the field of dicks...

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

I am facked for life now, huh? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/mad.gif.c18f003ab0ef8a0d9c27ca78d77a6392.gif

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

I don't think any of us would just DROP it after 3 years...sure we all say we would, but if we were in the situation..that's a lot of money and time spent.
On the other hand, I'd still go for one of her friends or something after wards. I've done that twice (and been successful both times). It's a great feeling after wards cause you know she'll eventually find out.

Funny how that came first.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

I actually agree with the friend stuff. It seems like ex-girlfriend's friends seem to gravitate towards you once they know you are available. I think the OP doesn't know what he's missing.

 

[andrewmoore13 10+ year member]

that all sounds kinda lame. woman ****. they are the root of all evil.

update?

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Take that $600 bucks and get shit you need then go out and have fun. Don't tell her about it, or spend it on her. If you tell her about it she might stick around for another week while you spend it all on her, then break up with you.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

I don't think any of us would just DROP it after 3 years...sure we all say we would, but if we were in the situation..that's a lot of money and time spent.
On the other hand, I'd still go for one of her friends or something after wards. I've done that twice (and been successful both times). It's a great feeling after wards cause you know she'll eventually find out.

And therein lies the problem. How many of us has stayed with girls just because it is too inconvienant to move on?

 

[MyPoison1 10+ year member]

Kick her to the curb, then she will appreciate what a good stalker you where.

 

[jer_stud56 10+ year member]

Funny how that came first.. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif
I actually agree with the friend stuff. It seems like ex-girlfriend's friends seem to gravitate towards you once they know you are available. I think the OP doesn't know what he's missing.

Yeah - well it works for me because they sit there and ask how the *** is blah blah blah etc and they're like wtf I want good ***...

so a day or so later I get phone calls. Yayyyyyy.

A new chick is the only way to get over a old one. That's life. Hope it was fun while it lasted.

And therein lies the problem. How many of us has stayed with girls just because it is too inconvienant to move on?

A lot I'm sure...but it's more of an inconvenience to stay...it NEVER goes back to what it used to be. EVER.

 

[mrogowski 5,000+ posts]

Ah... to be young and single again. The shit I would do....

 

[MyPoison1 10+ year member]

that all sounds kinda lame. woman ****. they are the root of all evil.

update?

the LOVE of money is the root of all evil.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Sounds like you're smothering her. Loosen the leash.

noth smothering her at all. i didnt actually call her 20 times, like i said it was an exaggeration.

i was just going to say "what if she turned her phone back on"
lol. it wasn't anything about you or her, but i knew if i said it you probably would've tried to call again

ha ha thats pretty funny. nope once i called twice and got straight voicemail i said **** it.

Indeed. I would dump her mos def at this point.
Course my common method for breaking up with chicks was to just completely start ignoring them. Doesn't take long for them to hate you more than anything in life. At that point they get to feel good about themselves because they think they are the ones that made the decision even though I had already moved on weeks before.

i mean sure would be a waste of 3 years if after the very first problem weve ever had we just gave up.

Kick her to the curb, then she will appreciate what a good stalker you where.

certainly not a stalker.

And therein lies the problem. How many of us has stayed with girls just because it is too inconvienant to move on?

again, its def not to the point where its incovenient to leave nor worth leaving yet. i mean up until whatever happened here we were that happy go lucky couple that is just so good together it makes you sick

UPDATE: she called me this morning and said she went shopping, her and her friend went over Robins house, a glass of wine turned into liquor and before they knew it they were all trashed. she didnt want me to worry/get mad at her for doing so.

what makes me soooo mad is that she didnt have to lie. she just got a promotion at work and the girls were going to take her out to celebrate for a girls nite out. she mentioned it to me last week and i said cool, sounds fun let me know when. somehow in that statement she though that if she said she was going out with her friends id get mad.......dont know why, going to get to the bottom of it tonight but thats what she said. ive never been a jealous person, ive always trusted her 100 % she has no reason to think i would be mad if she didnt want to hang out with me that night.

im honestly a very easy going mild temper kinda guy. the only reason my last relationship ended the way it did is cause she was bi polar, would threaten if i ever left her shed slit her wrists and we fought all the time. it was alot of stress for a 16-20 yr old guy to handle. she messed with my head, the guy she was cheating on me with threatened me, and i just retaliated.

im certainly not a stalker nor a smothering jealous boyfriend. not in the least.

 

[andrewmoore13 10+ year member]

so then also is the love of woman... good enough for me.

EDIT: that sounds good man, i'm glad to hear that you're working it out. sucks to just throw away 3 years... sucked to throw away 14 months.