so what do those terms mean? its really hard trying to diagnose anything just from someone describing noises, its going to be even harder doing it online with nothing but words lol
edit: ok i get you now. i would honestly have to say take it to the dealer or a ****** shop. someone needs to look it over. checking out a valve body isnt terribly hard assuming you have an experienced person looking it over. the misfire issue, i would just reset the CEL and see if it comes back, although usually the ECU will keep the code as a pending code, until it happens again, and then it will set off the CEL. so its already a good sign that it wasnt a fluke, but might as well try it. as for the catalytic converter, again, i would just hold out on it. one thing that really irks me is the fact that you say wide open throttle, the car drives fine, but when you drive calmly it hestitates. at wide open you are going to be moving the most exhaust, so you should notice hesitation at that point most.
also dont rule out racerx's suggestion on the coil pack. a lot of times specific cars have the same problems over and over, and if he's seen that the coil packs start acting up on those engines, it might be a good idea to keep that in mind