The MLPS goes out often in those cars, otherwise known as the Neutral Safety Switch, but i doubt that would be your problem. I have a mark viii, and mines going out, and it will jerk occasionally because its confused about the gear, and occasionally when i'm cruising will pop itself into neutral for 2 seconds and then pop back into gear. Try to be a bit more detailed when it happens, in my car (same transmission, although yours is stronger) i've had to replace the 1-2 accumulator spring because it was snapped, and that created a really hard shift. Does it feel like your going over railroad tracks at 50? Could be the torque converter, do you happen to know if you use Mercon iii or mercon v in your car?