3 years down the drain!!!

[mjbailey21 10+ year member]

At that age you should have a stock of at least 3 girls. When I was 17 I was in relationship with 3 girls so breaking up was no problem. But now I can't do that stuff anymore too old..
oo well, what you should do now is try to forget her, and let it go. Try not to look back to the past..

This guy is very right, and I'm not joking!

I have a g/f of 3 years (coincidence), yet you have to have other "potential" girlfriends on the side that salivate at having a relationship with you. Even with a long term g/f anything can happen- so like a boy scout motto- "Always be prepared". This does not even neccesarily mean cheat on your g/f. I don't. But keep in touch with girls and don't be afraid to flirt a little to know what's on the market and keep them under your radar.

Don't feel too bad, it's pretty shitty but once a cheater, always a cheater. Should have kicked her in the *** first time she did it. Don't even worry about the dude either, he's not worth it. Wow, I can't believe I said that. If it were me, I'd find him and eff his car up. Wait for him to come outside (hopefully no guns involved), then kick is ***!!!!!!shiftomne!@#@ //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[adam71 5,000+ posts]

if you can confirm the fact that she did indeed cheat on you, well, in a nut shell, it's over, once a cheater, always a cheater, move on, I know it's probably hard to do, but you have no choice, don't be some sucker for love and let some chick walk all over you, let it go, if she really did f

everything definitely does happen for a reason, no matter what, in the long run this petty sh!t will only make you stronger mentally and emotionally

This guy here speaks with wisdom. I'll never forget my first LhOaVtEe. But in my case I had a kid with her so I will know her the rest of my life. I have a beautiful daughter though. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

Hey ntense........you sure you're only 19?? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[tRiGgEr 5,000+ posts]

Imagine being married to them for 23 years having 3 kids, then divorcing. Now that's a waste. Look at the brite side, at least that did not happen.

Re-bound chicks = cool. Nothing to tie you down, just a mutual aggrement to casual ***

 

[theCybe 5,000+ posts]

It happens to the best of us; Mine ran off after 3 years as well; Long story;

Somebody came in the house and attacked her, supposedly - so I kicked his *** (our neighbor) canceled our lease, and sent her to a good, trusted friend's house to stay while I picked up the pieces and got a new place to stay;

Got the place she always wanted, etc, moved everything in;

And she never came. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

*****. It was all a ploy.

It's okay though - new guy treats her exactly how she deserves - shit.

It'll pan out, man - you'll be better off.

 

[adam71 5,000+ posts]

It happens to the best of us; Mine ran off after 3 years as well; Long story;
Somebody came in the house and attacked her, supposedly - so I kicked his *** (our neighbor) canceled our lease, and sent her to a good, trusted friend's house to stay while I picked up the pieces and got a new place to stay;

Got the place she always wanted, etc, moved everything in;

And she never came. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

*****. It was all a ploy.

It's okay though - new guy treats her exactly how she deserves - shit.

It'll pan out, man - you'll be better off.

damm.....thats a fvcked up story man....why couldn't she just say " i wanna move on" or "lets break up".???? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[TeenWolf 10+ year member]

You have to move on...It will be hard, but it's the right thing to do. As was already said, once a cheater - always a cheater, and you won't be able to trust her.

I know how hard ending a relationship can be, but you have to stand your ground. Best thing to do is keep yourself occupied b/c sitting around the house thinking about it constantly will drive you insane.

 

[joeboxer5876 10+ year member]

it sounds like you loved her more than she loved you. dont waste your time with someone who isnt at the same level as you. if you keep your eyes open, you will find someone who cares about you as much as you care about them. plus you cant have a relationship without trust, i mean i only check my g/f's phone bill once every couple months now instead of everyday //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[Ignatowski 5,000+ posts]

whats her number,since shes avalible -

 

[AVSTANG02]

Just wait till yer 35 been dating a girl for 9 years have a kid with her then find out she's been sleeping with her boss and the kid aint yours

Atleast you can look at it like this nomatter how bad you have it someone else has it worse.

also use the sadness and depression to grow stronger as a person. Hell man people write songs, novels and movies about this shit and end up famous.

Like i said all the crazy shit my exgf was telling me she was doing right up till we broke up and after... i been writing into a movie that will rival classics like 'American psycho', 'even cowgirls get the blues', 'kids' and 'bully'.

now I just have to worry about her suing my ***.

And remember dont take anything to personally just cause she cheated on you doesnt mean anything negative towards yourself... people cheat for the weirdest reasons.

 

[chinny 5,000+ posts]

**** that other ***** up

 

[80INCHES 5,000+ posts]

fuc.k that hoe........got get some more azz your only 18.....u should fuc.kin everything in sight

 

[ruckus]

at that age she wasnt ready to commit better to let it go man. You cant really expect someone that young to commit to one person not everyone matures at the same time and though you may of been ready she wasnt. I wouldnt try to go back with her cause once she knows she got away with cheating it becomes ok to do it again because you will forgive her again. go out work your way through several girls dont bother trying to get a r4lationship again right away becaue they never workout on a rebound you just comparew them to your ex.

 

[audiolife 5,000+ posts]

women are strange sooner or later ill bet she wants you back ..(happened to me with every long term gf) nothing better than to string them right back along then give them the boot after about a week. when she gets shitty about it ask her "how is your self esteem now?" //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif. if she then tries to get in your face leave (or point her out the front door) without a word and no eye contact.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

a quick solution

 

[bimma85 5,000+ posts]

Well ever since the first time it was never the same I always wondered where she was and I hated that shit. I need to move on I know ungrateful *****.

yup, don't get back with that wh@re. You're 18 man, you have plenty of more *** to meet //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif. Especially if you're going to college. Just let the whole city know she's a ***** and if they ever need some pus$y to give her a call. Actually ust put her number in every bathroom you're in. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/up2something.gif.dd110ecf3ae4b76050d87598f2f8de7c.gif

And when she comes crawling back you better not let her in the door, unless its to fok. Then after that tell the trick to get out of your house and go to hell. Like someone already said, once a cheater always a cheater.

Also, you guys hooked up when you were what man, 15? Do you really wanna not be with anyone else from age 15? Hard to look at it this way I know, but it's prolly better she's gone, even if she wasn't a ****.