Woman situation, what to do

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

So am I disregarding this chick, pushing her off some, I'm confused a tad here.
As it sits now, I've pushed her away, told her she cant be with me everyday and call me all the time. I'll see her when I have time, and I'll talk to her when she calls, I wont be calling her. She knows that. She also knows that she'll see me when she sees me, once a week if she's lucky

Stupid move?

And so I pick up a new broad - then what? Maybe she loses interest, maybe it sparks it...

Yes a stupid move, do not push her away. Just call her back and tell

her she's a great friend and you made a mistake trying to push her away.

Stay frinds just like before, when she starts playing you again by telling you

she loves you, you'll know your back to square one.

Now, find a chick, make sure she looks good enough to catch your "friend girl's"

attention. Does not actually have to look better, but cannot be a dog. You do

not even need to do her, just be mysterious about the relationship and let

her think you might be.

Look for the chick you want to flirt with you, even a little. Flirt back a little.

Leave it at that, always flirt back when flirted with. Wait for her to complain

about her man or love life.

Then you complain about your chick, flirt a little more. Compliment her a lot.

If it feels right move in for the score. If bone, then bone relentlessly, have

no mercy, fuk that sh1t proper.

\done

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

And since you **** with flirting, the best way to get started is just by paying the girl silly little compliments. Some guys mess up by being creepy. You have to sound fully committed to the compliment, but don't let your entire night be paying her compliments. Another VERY important part of flirting is the mysteriousness of it. The girl will inevitably ask "Are you flirting with me?" You do not answer Yes, No, Maybe, I don't know. You answer with something mysterious like "You're just going to have to find out". Do not ever answer a flirty question with something direct. It kills the mood.

 

[tsenfw 10+ year member]

Some of these new suggestions are for playing games. F that shiz, what are you guys, 16?

1. Stop being a *****

2. Tell her what's up

3. Make yourself less available

4. Stop worshiping her

5. show her you actually have a penis (if you do, starting to doubt)

6. take control of the situation.

/end thread.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Girls also LOVE, LOVE, LOVE cliche movie romance. Their whole lives, they dream of their wedding, having kids, getting married, having the perfect life, etc. They get these ideas and visuals from movies. So...common sense says, go to the movies for your information on how to flirt with a chick. Play into their insecurities.

Also, as much as chicks love cliche movie romance, they HATE, HATE, HATE being 'picked up' or hit on. It makes them feel demoralized and they no longer have that sense of a challenge or mystery if they know you are trying to get with them.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

He's 21. Guessing chick is around the same age. They still like to play games at this age. Surely you weren't always a heartless bastard yourself Mike.

I wont lie. That made me laugh

Anyways, I guess there is still an element of games being played, and yes we are around the same age, she's a tad younger

Anyways, so I'm confused fellas

At first, was told to push away, kinda, and be in the background, make her come to me.

Now I'm being told to tell her I was a fool, that I'm sorry, it was a mistake.

WTF to do //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crying.gif.ec0ebefe590df0251476573bc49e46d8.gif

 

[lowriderram_95 10+ year member]

LMAO!!! Dude, this sounds so familiar. When I got with my girl there was a guy like you in her life. She did the whole checking in thing for a while, then it stopped. She barely talks to him anymore and he moved on. The guy is one of my good friends, he hates me sometimes for what happened but oh well. She's happier with me, end of story. Just move on.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Some of these new suggestions are for playing games. F that shiz, what are you guys, 16?
1. Stop being a *****

2. Tell her what's up

3. Make yourself less available

4. Stop worshiping her

5. show her you actually have a penis (if you do, starting to doubt)

6. take control of the situation.

/end thread.

I resent the dick comment. I have a dick, I'm just very softhearted to say the least.

I do agree I need to quit being a *****, but if I come out with it, and push it, I'm going to push her away. I know that.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

I wont lie. That made me laugh
Anyways, I guess there is still an element of games being played, and yes we are around the same age, she's a tad younger

Anyways, so I'm confused fellas

At first, was told to push away, kinda, and be in the background, make her come to me.

Now I'm being told to tell her I was a fool, that I'm sorry, it was a mistake.

WTF to do //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crying.gif.ec0ebefe590df0251476573bc49e46d8.gif

Gah...two more things you never say to a girl

1. I'm sorry

2. I don't know

I try to go through life without saying these two things as much as possible, but you have to start somewhere. You are totally appearing like a total wussbag to us right now, and if you complain to the girl like you do with us, it's no wonder she doesn't like you.

 

[lowriderram_95 10+ year member]

Oh yea forgot to mention, her ex wants to beat my ass bc we were hangin out while they were still together and I got further than he did. PWNED!!!

 

[Jeremy M 10+ year member]

lol....she probably likes your personality but is not attracted to you physically....

ontop of things, she's prolly all twecko in the head....

and finally, u do not want sloppy seconds, your young and apparently get any girl naked by dark....just make yoruself too busy to hang out with her....

if and when u do hook up with her, and since your friend already banged her.....ur gonna be insecure and a pscyho paranoid biitch....

turn your emotions off.....when she calls talk to her but act like ur in the middle of something or whatever....i think almost ever guy has been in this situation once in there life....if they say they havent', chances are they're lying.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

I resent the dick comment. I have a dick, I'm just very softhearted to say the least.
I do agree I need to quit being a *****, but if I come out with it, and push it, I'm going to push her away. I know that.

Harsh reality is the best eye opener. Pussy.

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

She's already been leading you on, so get back to the relationship

you had before. Be your normal push-over self. Like I said, you'll know

your back when she says she loves you. That's when you look for a new

chick. Make sure she actually see's you with the chick and see's your

showing her a good time.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Gah...two more things you never say to a girl
1. I'm sorry

2. I don't know

I try to go through life without saying these two things as much as possible, but you have to start somewhere. You are totally appearing like a total wussbag to us right now, and if you complain to the girl like you do with us, it's no wonder she doesn't like you.

I didnt mean that I was literally going to say I'm sorry, but according to what was said, I should tell her I made a mistake. Which I'm not too sure of.

And I'm not a wussbag, I'm just confused and have no sense of control over the situation, so as odd as it may be, I came here for help. That's all.

So do me a favor, one last time, lay down the law of what I actually need to do. I have two different sides and it's hard to decide between them.

Distance myself, let her come

or

Stay friends, and keep trying the ********. Only problem is - what happens if they start dating. Then I cant really do this...can I? Open for interpretation.

 

[lowriderram_95 10+ year member]

Move On!!!!!!

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

I didnt mean that I was literally going to say I'm sorry, but according to what was said, I should tell her I made a mistake. Which I'm not too sure of.
And I'm not a wussbag, I'm just confused and have no sense of control over the situation, so as odd as it may be, I came here for help. That's all.

So do me a favor, one last time, lay down the law of what I actually need to do. I have two different sides and it's hard to decide between them.

Distance myself, let her come

or

Stay friends, and keep trying the ********. Only problem is - what happens if they start dating. Then I cant really do this...can I? Open for interpretation.

Brb, will type out answer, but it's pretty much going to say what McSoul has been saying.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

lol....she probably likes your personality but is not attracted to you physically....
ontop of things, she's prolly all twecko in the head....

and finally, u do not want sloppy seconds, your young and apparently get any girl naked by dark....just make yoruself too busy to hang out with her....

if and when u do hook up with her, and since your friend already banged her.....ur gonna be insecure and a pscyho paranoid biitch....

turn your emotions off.....when she calls talk to her but act like ur in the middle of something or whatever....i think almost ever guy has been in this situation once in there life....if they say they havent', chances are they're lying.

True. It doesnt make me insecure, they hang out and I dont think a second about it, if it happens then it happens, and if I'm with someone and that goes on, I have no business being there. Sobeit.

She is probably whacko, no doubt.

And you might be right, she likes who I am but I'm not hot ****, so I get the lower end of the totem pole, however the fvck you spell that

Oh, and with the getting bishes naked. What I was referring to, in specific, is two times where my friends who have a good bit of game were trying to pick a chick up - denied. I tried, she came home, she was naked at the end of the night.

One girl was with me, never got too far, game fell out.

Other girl just ended up gettin naked, but I'll be ****ed if I aint the one that got her to the house, ha

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

I don't think she's whacked in the head, just does not want commitment.

She can tell your sweating her hard. Would probably drop to one knee 2

weeks after the secks. You having a girl friend already puts you in a safer

zone.

 

[sue bee 10+ year member]

Some of these new suggestions are for playing games. F that shiz, what are you guys, 16?
1. Stop being a *****

2. Tell her what's up

3. Make yourself less available

4. Stop worshiping her

5. show her you actually have a penis (if you do, starting to doubt)

6. take control of the situation.

/end thread.

This is the way to go. Sound advice. If I was to make my own, unique post, this is what I would tell you. Basic elements of attraction here. If there are any sexual feelings towards you residing somewhere within the cold heart of the girl you desire, these will bring them to the surface. How? Supply and demand my friend. You cut off her supply of you, and she will demand more of it. You have to ride it out, though, don't fake it. There are many other ways to accelerate this process, i.e. increasing your value to her, but I don't want to get too involved. Give this a go for as long as you dare, and if in the end she doesn't warm up to you...you're in the friend zone for a long, long time...if not forever.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

First, it appears you are in friend zone to a very strong degree. It is normally impossible to escape friend zone, but I'm hoping and praying for you that you growing a set of balls over night will be enough for her to begin looking at you as something other than a friend. If not, your failure with her will be a life lesson that will only build your experience with women. So with that being said, I will continue forth with the plan of what you need to do to try and escape friend zone.

Alright, you need to start distancing yourself emotionally from her. This is what has turned this chick off from you. She thinks of you as weak and completely lacking game. Keep her close physically though and in a position to stay friends with her if plans blow up in your face. A female friend is always better than a female enemy. Women talk to other women, and you don't want them saying nasty things about you.

By staying emotionally distant, I mean, stop confiding with her. Don't talk to her as a friend. Don't have these stupid "How was your day, mine was just fine" conversations with her. If she asks about you, start asking her questions instead. Try not to answer her questions directly. Blow her off once or twice. Be too busy to talk to her. Let your phone ring a couple times. Don't answer her text messages back immediately. This will plant in her mind that she is not your world any more.

Women love being the center of attention though. If she really likes you, she will pursue talking to you still. This is when you drop it on her that you have a new girl you're talking to. Continue to be too busy to talk to her. Tell her you're busy with new girl, but you'd still like to hang out with her sometime or eventually. This is when you need to start flirting with her. Go full force. Let her know you are sexually attracted to her. If she asks about the other girl, say something like "Don't worry about her". !!!Mysteriousness!!! Girls are attracted to it.

Ask more if you need to, I can't focus my mind on every little detail all at once.

 

[sue bee 10+ year member]

First, it appears you are in friend zone to a very strong degree. It is normally impossible to escape friend zone, but I'm hoping and praying for you that you growing a set of balls over night will be enough for her to begin looking at you as something other than a friend. If not, your failure with her will be a life lesson that will only build your experience with women. So with that being said, I will continue forth with the plan of what you need to do to try and escape friend zone.
Alright, you need to start distancing yourself emotionally from her. This is what has turned this chick off from you. She thinks of you as weak and completely lacking game. Keep her close physically though and in a position to stay friends with her if plans blow up in your face. A female friend is always better than a female enemy. Women talk to other women, and you don't want them saying nasty things about you.

By staying emotionally distant, I mean, stop confiding with her. Don't talk to her as a friend. Don't have these stupid "How was your day, mine was just fine" conversations with her. If she asks about you, start asking her questions instead. Try not to answer her questions directly. Blow her off once or twice. Be too busy to talk to her. Let your phone ring a couple times. Don't answer her text messages back immediately. This will plant in her mind that she is not your world any more.

Women love being the center of attention though. If she really likes you, she will pursue talking to you still. This is when you drop it on her that you have a new girl you're talking to. Continue to be too busy to talk to her. Tell her you're busy with new girl, but you'd still like to hang out with her sometime or eventually. This is when you need to start flirting with her. Go full force. Let her know you are sexually attracted to her. If she asks about the other girl, say something like "Don't worry about her". !!!Mysteriousness!!! Girls are attracted to it.

Ask more if you need to, I can't focus my mind on every little detail all at once.

Good technique here, but nothing will beat a real girl. Plus, she's a friend, and you don't want to do something like this to a friend. How hard can it be to find an ugly girlfriend anyway?