Woman situation, what to do

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Good technique here, but nothing will beat a real girl. Plus, she's a friend, and you don't want to do something like this to a friend. How hard can it be to find an ugly girlfriend anyway?

The way I see it, this guy is head over heels over this chick, he's not going to take no for an answer, so I'm showing him what I would do. If he fails, he's learned some very important stuff first hand. If he succeeds...

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[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Something I forgot to add, don't tell her that you have a new girl too early. Don't just drop it out of no where. It will make you appear fake. Do it when she starts asking why you can't hang out with her as much or why you stopped answering her calls.

 

[Jep772 10+ year member]

Imagine OP's original problem then add the fact you've seen her BF throw a full cans of beer, flashlights, boots, 40 bottles at her head, give her fat lips, bruises constantly. Called a fat ***** dumb **** **** ***** ass trick hoe beetlejuice etc.. hear about how her ***** is beat up and her tittys are nasty in front of god and everybody. And you know as soon as you leave she's gonna get tortured till he passes out. i don't worship this girl nor am i wrapped around her finger i have known her for a long time and i've known her BF a.k.a. my best friend for the last 10 years but seeing her get wooped on makes me want to make her feel better. before i hear call the cops thats not how it works around here, she's got a phone

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Imagine OP's original problem then add the fact you've seen her BF throw a full cans of beer, flashlights, boots, 40 bottles at her head, give her fat lips, bruises constantly. Called a fat ***** dumb **** **** ***** ass trick hoe beetlejuice etc.. hear about how her ***** is beat up and her tittys are nasty in front of god and everybody. And you know as soon as you leave she's gonna get tortured till he passes out. i don't worship this girl nor am i wrapped around her finger i have known her for a long time and i've known her BF a.k.a. my best friend for the last 10 years but seeing her get wooped on makes me want to make her feel better. before i hear call the cops thats not how it works around here, she's got a phone

This coming from me, the acclaimed ***** of the forums evidentally.

Man the **** up and put a stop to it. It needs to be done, and if you care at all about that girl you'll do it, she might like it but she knows and you know that it isnt right.

TB - so do I reconcile for being a complete dick, and then start distancing myself?

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

^^^ Sorry if I came off rude, but putting your hands on a woman is something I will not play games with.

Friend or not, if he is abusing someone you care about, you need to do whatever you can to help stop it. If that means beating his fvcking ***** ass then do it, it needs to be done, and he needs to know why. He needs to know that he is a piece of **** and that it will NOT be tolerated, and whether or not ya'll stay friends, you will continue to beat his ass if he does it.

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

^^^ Sorry if I came off rude, but putting your hands on a woman is something I will not play games with.
Friend or not, if he is abusing someone you care about, you need to do whatever you can to help stop it. If that means beating his fvcking ***** ass then do it, it needs to be done, and he needs to know why. He needs to know that he is a piece of **** and that it will NOT be tolerated, and whether or not ya'll stay friends, you will continue to beat his ass if he does it.

I have found that no matter what the chick will still go back to the abusive dickhead in the long run no matter what you do. It really usually is a pointless cause and while you want to feel like you are doing something good (Which is natural) in the end you have little or no effect.

Though I imagine if you would have already known this you would not be having the issues you are.

I did not read the entire thread so I really can't comment on that much other than she seems to know your feelings, if this is true she will come to you if she is interested no questions asked. Trust me been there and done that sometimes it works out the way you want sometimes it don't.

 

[Jep772 10+ year member]

I've came close to fightin' dude, he's my best friend and he wasn't always like this (methadone ftl) his son passed a while back and between that, the done and natty ice i don't even know him really anymore. I was close to jumpin' on em last night but i cant deal with police i'm on bond. **** will get super ugly fast and i'll be ****ed if i get my bond revoked, i don't like her LIKE THAT i've never laid a finger on this chick, under different circumstances i would and could but i have a old lady and i don't need that kinda stress right now.

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

why is this thread still going on? i thought we determined she isnt interested and op should move on?

 

[Ken448 10+ year member]

so, when she says "I love you" what is your reply? That is one conversation that needs to happen, I think. What does she mean by that? Obviously, you want it to mean something more than she does. Few people have heard those words from me... My parents, my wife, my children, and ONE of my long term g/f's. Perhaps you ask her to stop saying it if she does not mean it??

She is younger, you say. But how young? 17? 18? Sounds like she is insecure to me, and just playing you for the attention.

 

[Jep772 10+ year member]

plus he accuses her of fckin me ALL THE TIME supposedly. i've never heard a word from him about it.

Toasted1 you're exactly right. She's the type that would be right back within a couple days, never fails. Thats why i said, "she's got a phone"

 

[crunktimes.com 5,000+ posts]

That is one conversation that needs to happen, I think. What does she mean by that?

x2 I would be like you "love me" like you wanna **** my pee pee or love me like please hold my pocketbook while to I go to the bathroom.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

She's 19 almost 20. I will have that talk.

 

[ArrizX 10+ year member]

So, been talkin to this girl for a while, tried to date her and got the friend thing - some of you know how it is, some of you are straight pimps and dont understand. So, anyways, back to whats happening.
A very very good friend of mine ****ed her in the past, and it seems they're starting to hang out more and more, and possibly going to start dating?

So I've seen this girl every day, literally, for months. I'm wrapped around her little finger, sad to say, and I dont know how to take it.

What are you supposed to say when someone you care about is wrapped up in one of your best friends arms?

Seriously

Someone loan me a gun?

AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING ANY FVCKING PICTURES. IF THAT MEANS THREAD FAIL, THEN SO BE IT. fegs. I figured the CAPS would help you figure out what I was saying.

Cut her loose, or get the dude out of the picture.

No other options.

Seriously.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

I'd hit it.

 

[Injected54 10+ year member]

Where's the pics of this chick MisterGrubbs?

 

[twistedmind 10+ year member]

So, been talkin to this girl for a while, tried to date her and got the friend thing - some of you know how it is, some of you are straight pimps and dont understand. So, anyways, back to whats happening.
A very very good friend of mine ****ed her in the past, and it seems they're starting to hang out more and more, and possibly going to start dating?

So I've seen this girl every day, literally, for months. I'm wrapped around her little finger, sad to say, and I dont know how to take it.

What are you supposed to say when someone you care about is wrapped up in one of your best friends arms?

Seriously

Someone loan me a gun?

AND YOU'RE NOT GETTING ANY FVCKING PICTURES. IF THAT MEANS THREAD FAIL, THEN SO BE IT. fegs. I figured the CAPS would help you figure out what I was saying.

Honestly man, bros before hoes. You should know this.

As for what you can do about it, not a **** thing except take her off the pedastool, stop being her shoulder to cry on and treat her like someone you want to **** not hangout with.

you're probably way to far into the friendzone at this point to make a comeback but if you want to try getting off the emo support wagon is a good place to start.

 

[konechiwa 10+ year member]

Honestly man, bros before hoes. You should know this.
As for what you can do about it, not a **** thing except take her off the pedastool, stop being her shoulder to cry on and treat her like someone you want to **** not hangout with.

you're probably way to far into the friendzone at this point to make a comeback but if you want to try getting off the emo support wagon is a good place to start.

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i like how everyone is only reading the first post now.

Grubsies thread got jacked up

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

I didn't read any part of the thread, but judging by the fact that the OP went on to CA.com for women advice my only answer is "Kill yourself"

 

[.::DuD3::. 10+ year member]

Moar cowbell

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

This coming from me, the acclaimed ***** of the forums evidentally.
Man the **** up and put a stop to it. It needs to be done, and if you care at all about that girl you'll do it, she might like it but she knows and you know that it isnt right.

TB - so do I reconcile for being a complete dick, and then start distancing myself?

Read what I wrote dude. You can be an ******* or whoever you want, but just be something your comfortable with doing what I outline. I told you you need to start distancing yourself emotionally while keeping her physically close.