Woman situation, what to do

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

I know this will sound silly...but whip out your penis....it worked with my current gf. Otherwise, you will get trapped in the friend zone. In retrospect, I probably wouldn't do that again, but it does get the point across that you don't want to be just friends.

Not happenin. I get the point, but it wont be goin down quite like that haha

 

[tsenfw 10+ year member]

I'm fine with the ladies, dont get me wrong. I do, however, seem to always end up the friend. That's where I'm ****ed up in the game.

If you always end up the friend then you're not really doing fine with the ladies. You really need to admit that. I'm not saying you should act like a dick or someone other than yourself but confidence and successful appearance help to attract a lot in the beginning. It really boils down to instinct on a level (ability to provide). Of course after initial attraction, we're thinking intelligent beings and decisions are based more on thought.

I know this will sound silly...but whip out your penis....it worked with my current gf. Otherwise, you will get trapped in the friend zone. In retrospect, I probably wouldn't do that again, but it does get the point across that you don't want to be just friends.

Idk if i would recommend whipping it out but ..... he's right, you need to display some attraction and make it clear to her (subconsciously and consciously) that you are there to be her mate not her FRIEND. Guys who end up the friend tend to supplicate themselves and hide their sexuality. They think they're being nice but that really is screwing them in the end.

I know that's easier said than done, I'm not particularly good at it myself. I'm happy with my current gf and situation but I look back and realize that I could have done some things to get to the same place with less aggravation, wondering, and time.

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

Then lets say this. I can, at any point, have you point out a girl. I am willing to bet by the end of the week she's ***** in my room

Whether or not I get the poon, who knows, but I'll be **** close if I dont get it.

Yet no gf.

And yes, this is coming from a kid who is 5'11 295, and I'm serious haha

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

This is easy, get another gf, stay friends with this one. When she see's your taken, she will

show more interest. Flaunt the new relationship. When she show's weakness, bone her and

treat her like a w*h*o*r*e*, whilst boning. She'll fall for you hard. Now choose between the 2

chicks or play them both like I would.

 

[kovemaster559 5,000+ posts]

This is easy, get another gf, stay frieds with this one. When she see's your taken, she willshow more interest. Flaunt the new relationship. When she show's weakness, bone her and

treat her like a *****, whilst boning. She'll fall for you hard. Now choose between the 2

chicks or play them both like I would.

x2 i have to say hes right. or be a nice guy and play the part. of i love you and want to be with you!

 

[MisterGrubbs 5,000+ posts]

This is easy, get another gf, stay friends with this one. When she see's your taken, she willshow more interest. Flaunt the new relationship. When she show's weakness, bone her and

treat her like a w*h*o*r*e*, whilst boning. She'll fall for you hard. Now choose between the 2

chicks or play them both like I would.

Granted this might work, but there's two issues.

1) I cant do that. That is a downright shitty thing to do. Pimpin or whatever you want to call it, I aint doin it, sorry, call me a puss if you want to.

2) No other chicks I'm even remotely interested in.

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

She's a player, she's playing you. Don't fall for players if you don't want to play

the game.

 

[tsenfw 10+ year member]

Then lets say this. I can, at any point, have you point out a girl. I am willing to bet by the end of the week she's ***** in my room
Whether or not I get the poon, who knows, but I'll be **** close if I dont get it.

Yet no gf.

And yes, this is coming from a kid who is 5'11 295, and I'm serious haha

You're all over the place dude. Are you a ladies man or not? Doesn't really matter either way but you seem to be trying to defend your skills. Remember you posted on CA.com for love advice lol.

So what's some more background. You mentioned how long you've been hanging out with her.

Have you even kissed this chic yet?

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

I will pray for your cawk

 

[cpierce 5,000+ posts]

You're all over the place dude. Are you a ladies man or not? Doesn't really matter either way but you seem to be trying to defend your skills. Remember you posted on CA.com for love advice lol.
So what's some more background. You mentioned how long you've been hanging out with her.

Have you even piitb with this chic yet?

Fixed

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

This girl has game and you don't. Just like I mentioned, girls want a guy that are mysterious, confident, and are a challenge to her in some aspect. You are none of these things apparently, which means you have no game.

Also, it wouldn't hurt if you lost a little bit of weight dude.

 

[dumpin907 10+ year member]

This is easy, get another gf, stay friends with this one. When she see's your taken, she willshow more interest. Flaunt the new relationship. When she show's weakness, bone her and

treat her like a w*h*o*r*e*, whilst boning. She'll fall for you hard. Now choose between the 2

chicks or play them both like I would.

mcsoul is right. this is the only thing to do. and you have no choice but to do it. you will thank dumpin later. now go play with some heads

 

[mcsoul 10+ year member]

All the tears on your pillow are not going to get you closer to her.

She knows you like her, she kinda likes you too, she is a puzzle

with only one solution. She is attracted to game, to playing...

You cannot be her white night in shining armour if you do not solve

the puzzle to get closer to her.

You cannot change who she is, but you can change your approach.

Youre not going to come in and sweep her off her feet, you tried that.

You could kidnap her and lock her in your basement, play the game,

or walk away. By the way, it sounds to me like she's practically inviting

you to play the game.

 

[Banana Balls 5,000+ posts]

I will pray for your cawk

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[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

be a man and tell her how you feel? dont be a B1tch

quoted for truth