Shes still going out with her girlfirend to bars yea. But its not to find someone else, its (honestly) i think to get her mind off of the relationship trouble. I attibute it to her being reletively young and inexperienced in relationships. This is her first 'biggie' her longest one before was 3 months, now we're going on 2 years. So i can understand how shes got a lot of unanswered questions in her mind. Also, combine that with graduating college this semester, and her work, i can kinda see how the easiest thign to put on hold is the relationship. I really dont believe that shes going out to find someone to fill a void. I've known the girl a long while, and she would honestly tell me if thats what she was needing/wanting.
we've both been faithful to each other this whole time too, so I hope thats not an issue to her. I think the main thing is our arguments that for her are tough to bare. Sometimes i really cut deep into her, and when I look at it now, more than half of the time its not even her fault. She just happened to be there to yell at. In hindsight, it was rediculous. And now all I want is an opportunity to work that out like we should have done at the time of the fight