what u guys think??

[1rockford1 5,000+ posts]

me and my girl are moving to upstate ny in a few weeks . where gona take her mom who had a few strokes but she is able to care for her self .(in a way) its gona b the first time im gona leave with her with out having my mom around any one have any advice for me? u know hows it to live with your girl/wife for the first time. thanks my luv's

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[Wingsfreak9 10+ year member]

i still live with mommy and daddy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[tipnitty 10+ year member]

Don't do it. Stay single until you are 40, then get married. Wear it out while you can and not waste it on one chick.

 

[05fronty 5,000+ posts]

they change when you live with them. just get prepared

 

[09civic 5,000+ posts]

i still live with mommy //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

this is me. daddy = asshole

 

[xX J Brutal Xx 10+ year member]

hope you have a job lined up already, cuz upstate new york is a ghost town for jobs. i got while the getting was good. taxes way too high and so are the gas prices.

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

It will be awesome.....at first

 

[05fronty 5,000+ posts]

It will be awesome.....at first

that is what i'm saying. shit changes after awhile

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

I think it's always a good idea to live together before you get married though. Get married doesn't change shit, so the law recognizes your partnership, big whoop. Sharing your living space will test your relationship a hell of a lot more. Sacrifices will HAVE to be made and it will either work out for the better or you guys will get so sick of each other one of you ends up throwing the others belongings off the balcony...and yeah I've seen that happen first hand, lol (not my shit but one of my neighbors)

 

[thevic24 5,000+ posts]

Bullets and a gun....

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

less se x...Se x gradually fell about 4 months into living w/ each other.. Found out she was alot messier then i thought. lazy...She always had dinner ready for me though when i got home from work..Which was nice seeing as how i paid for groceries..Make sure you both have decent jobs...We worked it out where we split all bills..That didnt last long..She didnt have the greatest job but was still bad with the little money she had.The only thing she could pay on time was rent...Lesson learned..Now i just **** those types of girls and toss em' out..Still looking for a good one though.

 

[TBH1 10+ year member]

its a learning experience for sure...like stated above, be prepared. it can only go one of two ways. What part of Up state?

 

[MikeofTulsa Moderator]

I met my wife online many years ago. Then she moved in with her grandfather in oklahoma to get away from some drama she was having with her mom and dads divorce. We met in person, she moved in 3 days later. been together every since. celebrating our 3 yr wedding anniversary today. We've been together for about 6 yrs now. known each other for about 8.

 

[Wingsfreak9 10+ year member]

I met my wife online many years ago. Then she moved in with her grandfather in oklahoma to get away from some drama she was having with her mom and dads divorce. We met in person, she moved in 3 days later. been together every since. celebrating our 3 yr wedding anniversary today. We've been together for about 6 yrs now. known each other for about 8.

lulz why does this not surprise me

 

[Mookie 10+ year member]

Everyone meets everyone online now a days.. Its weird as hell.