Let me put it this way, if both subs could handle a shit ton of power, the xxx would have the capacity to absolutely destroy a sub with 6mm of xmax. Again, it is an indicator of a potential for output, alone it doesn't gaurantee anything. The spiders, magnet force, power handling, etc all come into play and must balance eachother.
The only decieving thing about xmax is the way it is measured and what it actually means. For example, the differences between an xbl^2 motor and a standard motor are very subtle on paper (as in, based on the typical parameters we compare drivers by), but in reality, the xbl^2 motor will provide MANY advantages over a standard motor.
audioholic please correct me if I am wrong