prison reform

Originally posted by lamontjersey i would rather have an uneducated criminal come out educated and get a job instead of coming out uneducated and committing crimes. and most people dont even actually care about the crimes, they just want to ***** about their tax dollars paying for the criminal justice system, yet you never hear these same people ***** about repubican or democrat convention parties, politician diverting tax money to their buddies, bush spending billions on a personal war. get your priorities straight.
I personally think that education in prison is a good thing, but what most people forget is that a lot of peolpe in prison are beyond rehabilitation and are going to get out and go straight back to crime. Its the way they are, some are just plain crazy. And on another note, I will complain to the fullest about my tax dollars going to waste so some ******, killer, etc...can have a nice basketball goal, a TV, hot water, and even socks. I dont know what crawled up your *** but these type of people don't deserve all that. They deserve to wake up, eat, and go back to bed. Id rather see my tax dollars go to benefit the people that actually benefit socitey.

 
Originally posted by Brock I personally think that education in prison is a good thing, but what most people forget is that a lot of peolpe in prison are beyond rehabilitation and are going to get out and go straight back to crime. Its the way they are, some are just plain crazy. And on another note, I will complain to the fullest about my tax dollars going to waste so some ******, killer, etc...can have a nice basketball goal, a TV, hot water, and even socks. I dont know what crawled up your *** but these type of people don't deserve all that. They deserve to wake up, eat, and go back to bed. Id rather see my tax dollars go to benefit the people that actually benefit socitey.

I couldn't agree more. Give the education to those who need it and give the "real changers" of prisoners the other education. **** those who are beyond rehab.

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The way I see it you give up your rights as a member of society (and as a human for that matter) when you commit violent crimes such as **** or murder. Those people deserve to burn in hell. This country is so ****ed up though, it almost seems like that mindset is changing for the worse everyday.

And a second issue, what do you all think of the death penalty? I dont have a problem with using it and I will never oppose the death penalty, but personally I'd rather see a criminal spend 50 yeard in a cage than give him a quick easy death, but then again that goes into tax money and supporting scum for the rest of their life and all that other crap. Ahh, I'm rambling...

 
Dakota.. Not sure what your opinion is or if you are open to changing it.. but, I would suggest looking into several things to add to your paper..

First, I'd say look at this 'backward' to get some insights.. See how many ex-cons repeat the 'same' crime once they get out.. see how many get convicted for a different crime.. See how many 'get jobs' when they get out.. Try to find out what the most common convictions are, the sentences for that, and which ones are 'repeat' type crimes.. This will give you a feel for how 'life' is for these people once they are released.. Also, see if you can find out what percentage of jobs require you to notify them of ANY conviction and how many ask about 'felony' convictions.. I think you will be supprised to see that even McDonalds wants to know if you ever went to jail (and I'd say 75%+ of those places that ask will NOT hire you if you say yes)..

Then, look at the front end.. Try to see what age/income bracket/race ends up in prison most (I actually found something on the web that supprised me.. something like 70% of all prisioners are white male.. flys in the face of the typical thought that prisons are filled with blacks or minorities.. again, mostly a propaganda issue).. I'd say do a breakdown of 'which prison' versus 'income level'.. you will notice that 'rich' people go to country clubs (that your tax dollars are paying for) while 'poor' people go to nasty places.. Look at the family types/sizes as well (broken home or 'neuclear family'?).. few kids, or lots of kids? Were the parents abusive? not present? ..

Once you get a feel for the kind of life people have 'before' they get to prison (and normally it's not so great, that's why they commit crimes) and what kind of oportunities they have 'after' prison you can look at the middle.. the time 'in' prison..

See how many 'crimes' are commited in prisons.. beatings, ****, drugs, murder.. each time one of those occurs, someone is being victimized (well, not the drugs.. but).. The ENTIRE idea of prison is to make perpatrators pay for a crime, which means there was a victim that is being vindicated.. But, in prison, the victim is normally not vindicated.. How is that fair? (it's not.. and to say someone in prison for 2 years for possesion of pot deserves to be ***** is .. well.. if you can say that then we are putting the wrong people in prison).. Don't forget to take into account the guards.. most of which are bitter and on power trips.. and are pretty much operating under the radar of the law (unless there are serious infractions, but those can get covered up too). When you beat on the cage of a dog and taunt it, it becomes ferral (wild, mean, dangerous).. how is doing that to a man any better? You exepct him NOT to do what all animals do? I mean, they are already closer to dogs than the rest of us or (for viloent criminals) they wouldn't be in prison.. so you want to stimulate their primal instincts? And, most inmates are living in fear for their entire sentences.. they may not act like it (or we don't see it on TV or in the movies) but when you know someone can stick you and kill you and most likely walk away, you tend to be nervous..

Ok.. So.. Try sitting in your bedroom for an entire weekend.. only leaving to eat, pee, and poo (in prison, they do that in their bed-rooms). No TV, no stereo, no books, no nothing.. don't look at pictures or draw or anything.. just sit on your bed till you get stiff, then move around the room a bit, then sit again.. I'll bet you don't make 12 hours.. and if you actually make it for all 48, you will be so stressed out that it won't be funny.. with sensory depravation comes psychological problems.. our brains aren't desined to work in a vaccume..

So, you have hundreds of scared, mean, primal people sitting around all day with no stimulous.. slowly getting more and more disturbed.. the only time they get out is to eat (the minimalist argument).. You get to prison for selling pot.. 4 years.. walk into some strange place and listen to the bars closing and get a sinking feeling as you fully realize you aren't getting out for 4 years, no matter what.. you can't run from attackers (who might be your keepers) or run if there is a fire.. you have 'lost your rights', even to protect yourself.. Now, you get put in a cell with someone that you've never met, and have no idea why he's there.. He's been alone in that cell for a few years, no interaction with anyone but the passing guard and at meal time.. You can tell when you look at him that he's a bit squirely.. wild eyes, mussed hair, stinky, scruffy, and looking like he was just given a toy.. Personally, I'd wet my pants at that point..

Now you have people that have been locked up for years, with virutally NO interaction.. then you want to turn these semi-ferral people back on the streets? the same people that came in LESS dangerous/crappy/mean/evil/crazy than when they went in? Sweet, let the mayhem begin! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

Add education (some implied HS.. others noted you can take college courses).. you give them a little more interaction, but does an adult really need 4 years of classes to get a GED? well, perhaps the types that end up in prison will.. but that would be a streatch I think.. You still have people that have little interaction (bad for the brain) and only a GED for education? Highschool kids will get jobs at McDonalds before these guys, EVERY time.. so, education (to a large degree), while not a bad idea, isn't going to do much in the long run..

Add 'weight rooms'.. they can work out (good and bad).. get bigger.. great, now they are a 'bigger' mean guy on the streats.. though, they are healthy and good for meaneal (sp) labor.. road crews for the county or construction companies.. etc.. And, the interaction/stimulus helps reduce our pesky psychosis problem.. and is pretty cheap overall.. buy some weights (say $5,000 for each prison) and you are good for 10 - 15 years.. pretty cheap if you ask me.. Certianly cheaper than paying someone to teach for a GED..

Some people don't work out (weight lift) for various reasons.. but they need physical activity as well (other then being ***** in the shower or beaten in the dining hall, etc).. how is a couple of basketball hoops and a dozen basketballs a bad thing? physical activity, more interaction to lessen pshchological stress, etc.. Hmm.. some people don't like working out OR playing basketball..

Enter TV.. It's NOT like they have a TV in each cell.. they have a 'community room' that has a TV in it (or two) and a LOT of the time, that stuff is donated by charitable organizations or churches.. Watching TV is a pretty good way to numb someone's mind.. and propaganda is a good way to sway people.. and it gives the brain a lot of input .. Now you have some things that can cross the spectrum of the criminals in the prison and keep them all 'entertained' so you don't make them stir-crazy then turn them loose..

Also keep in mind that all of these activites are monitered and the prisoners still have various times they are locked in their cells (depending on the prison I'm sure) so it's NOT like they are 'living at home' or something.. Many prisons have libraries as well.. computer rooms.. shops (auto/wood/etc).. Some prisons even 'make' things for the public (like liscense plates, etc)..

Now, I agree that there needs to be reforms in the prison systems.. Do I think 'prisoners' have too many privleges? In general I'd say no.. but that also depends on the prisoner.. One of the things they certianly don't have is a decent way to learn how to survive in society by behaving differently than the way that landed them in prison in the first place.. Just sticking someone in a cell for 4 years so they can 'think about what they have done' is actaully a pretty stupid thing to do.. I mean, you are talking about 'extreme grounding' here.. but these people are WAY beyond caring about what they did (in most cases).. if you don't try to show them that what they did isn't 'right' and have them believe that, AND show them how NOT to live like they used to, you are only detaining the criminal who will most likely go right back to where they left off..

So, no... they aren't 'over privelaged' in my opinion.. nor do I think we should 'remove' privleges from prisons arbitrarily.. that is reserved for prisoners who act up in prison.. if they want that privlege back, they have to behave.. also teaches them to work for what they want..

As for the death penalty.. I'm for it.. If you **** of kill someone you should die rather than waste my money for 40+ years.. leaving someone in a cage for that long is 'cruel and unusal punishment' (kinda like torture) if you ask me.. and since we aren't supposed to do that.. kill them //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

I also think the time should fit the crime.. I mean, if you get caught in a 'tech' crime (computer related stuff), you can spend 10+ years in prison, but your cell mate that came and went in 2 years beat some guy to near death and got a battery charge.. or the other cell mate you had that came and left in 4 years was selling pot near a school, if he wasn't near the school it would have been a 2 year bust.. You get the idea..

Yes prison is meant to '****' so you don't want to go there.. problem is, a lot of the people there come from worse places.. that's why they ended up in prison.. If you want them to get out and be decent members of society, you can't treat them like animals for X years and expect them to change for the better.. just isn't reasonable..

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In my opinion the only rights prisoners which commit violent crimes would be a bucket and stale bread. just my opinion though. just don't have much tolerance for murders ******, beaters, child molesters, the shitty pathetic excuses for humans. just my thoughts

 
thanksfor that wonderful insight. sounds to me like you might have first hand knowledge of prison systems. your opinion is not wantedthanks though
IMHO this type of opinion is good to be in the open. It demonstrates the foolishness of the "it's society's fault not the convict's" way of thinking.

My personal advice to those types of thinkers is next time a crackhead robs your shit call Saddam.

And yes I'm angry. Angry that our justice system allows guilty to walk the street without punishment. If first offenders were punished they would likely learn in the third grade not to steal instead of at age 18 when it is usually too late. Instead we worry if their mommy loved them enough.

The perfect example of both points is the capital punishment argue. The bleeding hearts of the world will swear it is not a deterrent. I will state that they are deterred forever.

PEACE

 
Originally posted by 97dakota In my opinion the only rights prisoners which commit violent crimes would be a bucket and stale bread. just my opinion though. just don't have much tolerance for murders ******, beaters, child molesters, the shitty pathetic excuses for humans. just my thoughts
Im right there with ya...

 
Originally posted by snova031 Get their hand cut off. You won't be able to steal if you don't have hands:D
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Once you get a feel for the kind of life people have 'before' they get to prison (and normally it's not so great, that's why they commit crimes) and what kind of oportunities they have 'after' prison you can look at the middle.. the time 'in' prison..
What a pantload of Bravo Sierra.

FACT: Every person in America had a desk in a school room, plus books, and a licensed schoolteacher provided for them. The fact that they CHOSE not to attend or to pay attention and hence learn is their fault.

FACT: Most American's start out in entry level low paying low skill jobs. The overwhelming majority work hard and improve their value in the job market and hence work up the ladder. A few either will not work or want the good life before they have earned it and turn to crime. Again this is no fault of society.

FACT: Drugs and alcohol do not force themselves upon us. Those of us who use them made a choice to do so. Those who use them to excess and abuse them made a decision to toss their life on the scrap heap for a very short high. Again society is not to blame.

FACT: There are so many loose women about that anyone who needs to commit **** is either a psychopath or has taken on a demeanor that makes them completely undesirable to even a skank street ho.

FACT: Every ex convict has a legal right to apply for expungement of their record. They have a right to go back to school at taxpayer expense. They even have a right to apply for a pardon once they have fixed themselves. If they take no initiative upon themselves then they take responsibility for their failure.

FACT: This is still the greatest and most forgiving nation on Earth. I get so sick of people bashing it because they are to lazy to get off their arses and fix themselves.

FACT: I do know what I'm talking about. I was raised in Appalachia and had a marijuana conviction at age 18. I decided to lay blame where it belonged...ME. I had also quit high school. Well I went back and received my GED. Attended college. Did 6 years in the US Army reserves. Started work at an entry level position and worked my way to the point that I now have a career which consistently earns me in the high 5 and low 6 figure income bracket.

I can tell you it isn't easy...but it isn't impossible. Of the 4 guys I hung with in high school 3 have been in prison, 1 of them still is. Another has evaded jail but has bounced from job to job and in and out of rehab. If I could fix any or all of them myself I would for we are all brothers. Sadly I can't. We can only fix ourselves. As a society all we can do is provide to them the OPPORTUNITY to fix themselves. Anything else is counterproductive and enabling.

PEACE

 
Originally posted by LWW What a pantload of Bravo Sierra.

 

FACT: Every person in America had a desk in a school room, plus books, and a licensed schoolteacher provided for them. The fact that they CHOSE not to attend or to pay attention and hence learn is their fault.
You live in a dream world.. While I agree that 'most' people in this country have a desk in a room with books (which in poorer neighborhoods might be decades old and barely useable) and a teacher (do you have ANY idea how EASY it is to be a teacher, or how many teachers are actaully pretty stupid? Then take into account that some (if not most) teachers in uber-poor schools are there because they **** as teachers.

The American Educational system is one of the worst in the developed countries.. and despite your pie in the sky outlook, there are a LOT of kids in the inner city that don't get an education, and to blame a 10 year old kid for not going to school.. to say they 'chose' not to go and 'they' are to blame is pretty shitty if you ask me..

FACT: Most American's start out in entry level low paying low skill jobs. The overwhelming majority work hard and improve their value in the job market and hence work up the ladder. A few either will not work or want the good life before they have earned it and turn to crime. Again this is no fault of society.
First, read up on the Capitolistic Economic theory (which we don't follow fully or the 'capitol' would be available to anyone who wanted access to it and would profit (properly) for their efforts, but in this country 2% - 3% of all the people own 75%+ of all this country has as far as resources and means of production). That will let you see that we have to have a minimum of around 3% unemployment for our economy won't work properly.. Now, it's also true that the 'intent' is for that to be 'transient' unemployment, but the reality is, with so many of the jobs in our contry heading toward 'service' type jobs (cleaning toilets or working in McDonalds) in the Information Age, there just aren't enough jobs (even McDonald jobs) for everyone.. we are currently at 7% unemployment.. that means ~17,500,000 people don't have jobs at the moment (well, actually it's propbably a lot less than that since unemployment is based on 'available workers'.. and there are a lot of children in our 250 million people.. lets say 1/4 of our society is 'out of work age'.. old or young.. that's 13+ million workers out of work). A huge number of them have families that are now not making enough money.. That is't part of the 'transient' unemployment either since these people are unemployed (a lot of them) because of the currupt leaders of corperations who stole billions and billions of dollars from investors (now with most 'working' people trying to play the market for retirement, that's a lot of average folks that lost a lot of money) and sending their companies into financial caos (Enron and Worldcom come to mind as the two biggest).. those companies are laying off a lot of people that A) can't make enough money at 5 McDonalds jobs to cover their bills, and B) can't get a job since the companies that would be hiring them are dumping them left and right and there are no industries that can absorb them.. You also have a lot of tech companies folding or 'down sizing' to react to the fact that the economy is falling apart around us.. jobs (factory type) are moving out of the country which leave American's with no job.. what, they should leave the country and go to some 3rd world to work in a factory there?

Second.. Learn about the 'culture of poverty'.. If you had taken any Sociology courses in college you would have learned about that.. It's an outlook on life based on the shitty environment you live in (which is largley perpatrated on them by coperate america to try and make sure there is 'cheap' labor available for very unskilled jobs. And, it's a natural result of 'class systems' which we have in this country, which is very exagerated since MOST of the wealth in this country is owned/possed by VERY FEW people.. by comparison of the total population).. It's something that is almost impossible to get out of since that culture doesn't value the same things or in the same way that 'middle america' does.. And, it's a 'place' that our government (and people like you) don't care about and don't care to intervene in.. The school systems there, by the way, are the shittiest in the Developed world..

FACT: Drugs and alcohol do not force themselves upon us. Those of us who use them made a choice to do so. Those who use them to excess and abuse them made a decision to toss their life on the scrap heap for a very short high. Again society is not to blame.
Again, see the culture of poverty statement.. a lot of these 'people' are being victimized at very young ages (smoking pot and drinking at 8 years old). How can you hold a child accountable for a descision they made when they didn't have the ability to make a descision? For one, their brains aren't physically prepared to comprehend the possible outcomes or even what a bigger picture might look like, and secondly they don't have anywhere NEAR enough information to make a 'reasonable' descision.. Once you start down the path of a life based around drugs and alchohol you don't really come back (not when you start at 8 - 15 years old).. If you think you can, you are a moron. I'm pretty sure you can find a 'few examples' of people who have done it, but we are talking about millions of people who grow up like this and you will only find, at most, hundreds of examples.. less than 1/10 of 1%.. Given that 'society' lets this happen to a small percentage of their population, they ARE to blame (if you ask me).. If the billionares of this country would spend a little of their money on some of the people that help them make their billions instead of spending $25,000 for a pair of shoes, we could lessen the number of people who are pretty much gaurenteed to have no decent life.. (and don't go droning on about how the uber-rich 'deserve' what they have and shouldn't have to give any of it up.. that's bullshit, plain and simple.. no one human deserves to almost literaly piss away the life of another human.. those rich people are rich becasue they are taking from a lot of other, hard working and NOT rich people, most of whom aren't being hurt by it.. but there are some that are being hurt by it, and the uber-rich should take care of those they cause the hurt to.. If you think it's ok for one person to cause the life of another to be shitty/miserable/wasted then you don't really think anyone should be in prison.. or you are so self diluted that you think you deserve to be able to shit on people, but no one deserves to shit on you.. which makes you a target for retroactive birth control.. the world doesn't need more shitbags)

FACT: There are so many loose women about that anyone who needs to commit **** is either a psychopath or has taken on a demeanor that makes them completely undesirable to even a skank street ho.
Since **** has nothing to do with ***, 90% of your argument goes out the widow.. Yes, people who commit **** are truley disturbed.. Same with child-molesters (which seems to include a very bothersome number of priests..).. Those people should be shot in the face, like I said before, the world doesn't need more shitbags.. This includes 'middle american' men (women too I suppose) who commite date-****.. who decide that since this girl got them horny that they 'deserve' to use that person for relief even when they say no.. Don't forget those that do girls that pass out at parties (though, by your earlier argument, those girls deserve to have someone viloate their bodies since they 'chose' to get so drunk as to pass out.. damm you're making me sick..) or drug girls so they can have *** with whom they will.. agian, that's a power trip thing and those kinds of egomaniacs should be shot if you ask me..

FACT: Every ex convict has a legal right to apply for expungement of their record. They have a right to go back to school at taxpayer expense. They even have a right to apply for a pardon once they have fixed themselves. If they take no initiative upon themselves then they take responsibility for their failure.
Apparently you've never actaully investigated that.. or got damm lucky if you were able to get your record expunged.. Normally expungment is reserved for crimes commited before the age of 18, then at 18 you can 'clean you record' up.. though, you are still on file with the federal government for life, expungment doesn't truly 'clean' your record. Getting a pardon is almost impossible (depending on who you have to deal with).. I've even heard of someone being told that the ONLY way they would be granted a pardon would be if they could prove that a company would hire them if and only if they had the pardon.. So much for trying to right a wrong, huh? 15 years later, ONE crime, restitution fully paid, sentance fully served.. can't get that taken care of despite the Public Defender NOT doing anything to help the guy up front? Felony charge where a FIRST (and only) offense should have been presented/charged as a misdemeanor (especially since the person in question ASSISTED the police WILLINGLY to bring all involved to justice).. But, a lazy and dispassionate lawyer let someone get fukked for life with a record all because of a dollar amount? .. it was only a 'felony' because the items stolen cost more than $500 (or what ever the small amount is).

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FACT: This is still the greatest and most forgiving nation on Earth. I get so sick of people bashing it because they are to lazy to get off their arses and fix themselves.
Problem there is, 'fixing' yourself isn't something most people are even aware that needs to be done.. 'knowing is 1/2 the battle' is very true.. If you don't know you have a problem you can't fix it.. Again, people in the 'culture of poverty' don't think they have a problem and a decent part of their problems aren't something they can fix..

FACT: I do know what I'm talking about. I was raised in Appalachia and had a marijuana conviction at age 18. I decided to lay blame where it belonged...ME. I had also quit high school. Well I went back and received my GED. Attended college. Did 6 years in the US Army reserves. Started work at an entry level position and worked my way to the point that I now have a career which consistently earns me in the high 5 and low 6 figure income bracket.
And did you go to prison for that? I doubt it.. You 'could' have, but didn't.. given that 'you' made a 'mistake' and could have ended up in jail/prison, you still think prisons should be total hell on inmates? Would you want to be treated like that? Do you think you deserved to have your life screwed up over one mistake? Not all people in prison are 'nasty' people, some are people that made a mistake and got nailed hard for it.. Rapists, murders, child-molesters, etc are DIFFERENT.. they deserve to die (murders, I would argue, depends on who/what/why etc.. but rapists and child-molesters should die, their brains are just too ****ed up to let them live.. if you ask me)..

This tells me that you really don't know what you are talking about.. getting busted for pot is a joke.. Most places in this country could care less.. Hell, an ex-president of the US smoked pot, and the current president was a coke addict..

I can tell you it isn't easy...but it isn't impossible. Of the 4 guys I hung with in high school 3 have been in prison, 1 of them still is. Another has evaded jail but has bounced from job to job and in and out of rehab. If I could fix any or all of them myself I would for we are all brothers. Sadly I can't. We can only fix ourselves. As a society all we can do is provide to them the OPPORTUNITY to fix themselves. Anything else is counterproductive and enabling.

 

PEACE
I'm gonna venture a guess that you were in the 'middle class' bracket.. perhaps the lower-middle since you have friends that aren't getting anywhere in life.. Or you might have had circumstances that are a-typical for most middle class people (as did your friends).. I know people that I grew up with that were 'middle class' as well and aren't doing anything with their lives..

You made some 'mistakes' and did something to turn your life around.. great, good for you... I'm also going to venture a guess that you are at least a decently bright person.. most people aren't very bright.. that's not their fault, it's genetics (mostly.. I argue that genetics gives you potential and environment will either help you reach that potential or lets you fall to moron status..).. So, I propose that you are a lucky guy that you were able to notice that you actually had the power to change your life.. and I commend you for working at getting out of a rut.. Also, don't forget that you (if I'm reading this correctly) used the Army as a means for college.. the Army doesn't take just anyone (not anymore) so getting the GI-Bill isn't something that everyone can do.. which also means a lot of people can't go to college.. not to mention that there are a lot of people that just aren't smart enough to succeed in college.. Something like 50% of all incomming freshman fail out their first year? and those aren't the dirt-poor wouldbe criminals, those are middle america's children that are too stupid to make it in college but their parents and society say they should go so they can 'have a good life'....

I was on that road as well.. I ended up getting someone pregnant and decided it was time to do something so I could offer my child a better life than I had; Started college.. now I'm a Software Engineer.. Had my daughter's mother not gotten pregnant, there is a good chance that I would have lashed out against society out of anger (knowing what I know about our government and our country's politics and how the wealth of this country is distributed and knowing how powerless most people in this country are to do anything about it). She pretty much literaly saved my life.. most people that are on a bad road don't have anything that jolts them into looking at where they are and where they are going.. When you are moving along day to day, you don't stop to evaluate your life .. it's not human nature.. you have to have something that causes you to re-evaluate your situation and decide if you want to stay there or change that.. When you slowly get into a bad way of life it gets harder and harder to see that you can actually get out (keep in mind that not everyone can, we don't have the resources available.. some 95%+ of our society are trying to make do with

The whole point of 'rehabilitating' people in prison is that 'we' know they need fixing, they don't.. you show them they need to change AND offer them a way to do it.. locking them in a box for X years WILL NOT HELP them.. if you think it will, you are diluted..

What bothers me most about you, LWW.. is you seem to have opinions about thing but they are based on a very minimal amount of analising on your part.. Like saying 'drugs and alchohol dont force them selves on you'.. but they do, when you live in a ghetto and have people handing it to you at 8 years old and all you see around you is people drinking and doing drugs.. You seem to be looking at ALL people in this country as having come from a place that hasn't totally fukked up their life.. like all people have the same base and tools to start from, and say society doesn't have sectors that have people living in sub-human conditions.. You seem like a reasonably bright individual, you just need to examine more of the picture before you settle on an opinion.. if you ask me..

Course, some people just don't believe there are totally screwed up aspects of our country and society want to put all the blame on an individual so they can wipe their hands clean of any involvment or fault.. *shrug*

Anyway.. that's my take..

 
Actually Savant I come from the poorest part of America and was raised in a house with a tarpaper roof. We had an outhouse until I was 12.

The difference between you and I is that I can face what caused my problems while you insist on believing in some big business boogie man who victimizes us all.

As a youth I was victimized by myself and people like you who every time I was in trouble as a minor would convince me that the man was at fault and not me.

Mine is a tough love message and I work with troubled youth regularly. I waljk the walk instead of talking the talk.

I did not use the GI bill for school. I was a reservist and worked my way through.

My sentence was served in a county jail with a dirt floor, no heat or AC much less TV. My statement was shorter and harder sentences not total hell as you said. Please quote me at will but have the intellectual integrity to quote me directly and not with a twisted interpretation of what you WISH I had said.

My expungement took 3 attempts as I had to prove that I had rehabilitated myself.

If one takes the easy way out at every turn in life then failure is assured.

My education in sociology comes from the school of hard knocks and reality and from there my friend I have a PhD.

I will not stoop to your level of calling names of everyone who disagrees and I will trust each forum member to decide whether they feel you, I, or anyone else is a moron.

Do not however think that you have the knowledge to lecture me on the error of my experiences as you have no idea of what you speak.

I can tell you that everyone I have met who has done time was a victim of the victim psychology. By the time a real punishment for bad behavior was laid down the person was a hardened soul.

The only person who can turn someone around is them.

PEACE

 
Originally posted by LWW Actually Savant I come from the poorest part of America and was raised in a house with a tarpaper roof. We had an outhouse until I was 12.

 

The difference between you and I is that I can face what caused my problems while you insist on believing in some big business boogie man who victimizes us all.

 

As a youth I was victimized by myself and people like you who every time I was in trouble as a minor would convince me that the man was at fault and not me.

 

Mine is a tough love message and I work with troubled youth regularly. I waljk the walk instead of talking the talk.

 

I did not use the GI bill for school. I was a reservist and worked my way through.

 

My sentence was served in a county jail with a dirt floor, no heat or AC much less TV. My statement was shorter and harder sentences not total hell as you said. Please quote me at will but have the intellectual integrity to quote me directly and not with a twisted interpretation of what you WISH I had said.

 

My expungement took 3 attempts as I had to prove that I had rehabilitated myself.

 

If one takes the easy way out at every turn in life then failure is assured.

 

My education in sociology comes from the school of hard knocks and reality and from there my friend I have a PhD.

 

I will not stoop to your level of calling names of everyone who disagrees and I will trust each forum member to decide whether they feel you, I, or anyone else is a moron.

 

Do not however think that you have the knowledge to lecture me on the error of my experiences as you have no idea of what you speak.

 

I can tell you that everyone I have met who has done time was a victim of the victim psychology. By the time a real punishment for bad behavior was laid down the person was a hardened soul.

 

The only person who can turn someone around is them.

 

PEACE
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