Yeah if she has a choice, UAE or Qatar or Kuwait are way better places. I just got back in April from Qatar. I was not a contractor, I was one of those out in a trailer in the desert, but the contractors there live an amazing life for being where they are. It's pretty rediculous. I'm only mad because I can't do it......
But I did have a couple buddies recently (within the last 2 months) get back from FOB's in Afghanistan, Pakistan, and Kyrgyzstan, and yeah, it's what you imagine and everyone else is saying. There are some more hardened places in those countries that aren't too bad though.