My Family recieved some bad news...

[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

they used the pullout method supposedly...

So basically, no method at all.

 

[l7runner 10+ year member]

It may work out for the best....a special needs child changes everything

 

[tylork92 10+ year member]

It may work out for the best....a special needs child changes everything

yes it does...sicne your a NCer im not sure if you know wat Holy Angels is buts its aplace in Belmont that is basicaly a home from disabled people, my mom works there and just visiting that place makes you put a whole new outlook on your own life.

 

[l7runner 10+ year member]

I have some friends from Belmont but haven't heard of that place...but anytime I go to a disabled/nursing home it tears me up inside.

its bad to think about it like this...but if the baby does have to be aborted it will probably be much easier on ya'll and the baby in the long run.

 

[abrhino 10+ year member]

yall not pro-abortion?

 

[tylork92 10+ year member]

yea for sure...i think the whole family would agree on the abortion if its lets the baby not suffer for the few hours it may be alive at birth....she is only about 3 months prego now....maybe not even that long.

 

[abrhino 10+ year member]

its bad to think about it like this...but if the baby does have to be aborted it will probably be much easier on ya'll and the baby in the long run.

hate to think about it like this, but with her age how can she possible 100% care for a young adult when she is in even worse health and in her 60s? i hope it works out best for yall, whatever hppens.. i know i would not want to make the decision.. and i am pro-choice

 

[tylork92 10+ year member]

hate to think about it like this, but with her age how can she possible 100% care for a young adult when she is in even worse health and in her 60s? i hope it works out best for yall, whatever hppens.. i know i would not want to make the decision.. and i am pro-choice

yea that was the big joke when she announced she was prego that she would be 60 at her own kids high school graduation...but it is something that totally could have been avoided tho ya kno...i would thought with there son being conceived "accidentally" they woulda learned that protection needs to be used but obviuosly not.

 

[abrhino 10+ year member]

who knows man.. a family friend concieved a baby in her late 30s, 1st ultrasound they found a mass that was tested and found to be cancerous.. they lost the baby but her life was saved.. not really relating to your story but the point is, things happen for a reason

 

[l7runner 10+ year member]

I didn't know age was that big of a deal...my mom was 38 when she had me. I guess I turned out fine //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

lifestyle plays a big role in the heath of the mother and child though...but you can't do much to counteract the effects of genetics on a developing *****...DNA rules all

 

[JuicyJeff 10+ year member]

Ifeel so bad for you. I couldn't imagine having to hear that my child would be born with down syndrome. That's awful. I hope there was some glitch and your family doesn't have to go through that. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

 

[tRidiot 10+ year member]

yea for sure...i think the whole family would agree on the abortion if its lets the baby not suffer for the few hours it may be alive at birth....she is only about 3 months prego now....maybe not even that long.

Not even 3 months along and they've said it's 100% sure to have Down's and possibly Edwards' syndrome as well?

That seems a bit odd to me, since most of that testing isn't even done until 15-18 weeks' gestation and takes several weeks to get results back...

I'm just gonna hold off on condemning anything right now, personally.

And for all those naysayers, I've seen literally hundreds of women have perfectly healthy babies over 40 years of age. Yes, the risk goes up, but it's still a better chance than not that things will be just fine.

Don't get shit too twisted up just yet, and I **** well wouldn't go aborting anybody!

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

Was anyone else expecting a Fresh Prince of Bel Air trap when coming into this thread?

...I was

 

[97gp 5,000+ posts]

Pics of aunt

 

[tylork92 10+ year member]

Not even 3 months along and they've said it's 100% sure to have Down's and possibly Edwards' syndrome as well?
That seems a bit odd to me, since most of that testing isn't even done until 15-18 weeks' gestation and takes several weeks to get results back...

I'm just gonna hold off on condemning anything right now, personally.

And for all those naysayers, I've seen literally hundreds of women have perfectly healthy babies over 40 years of age. Yes, the risk goes up, but it's still a better chance than not that things will be just fine.

Don't get shit too twisted up just yet, and I **** well wouldn't go aborting anybody!

Yea i dont kno how they can be that certain either...but aborting it would only be if this other test comes back positive which they say would only let the baby live for max a day or 2 when born.