I hate girls, cell phones and court!!! help me.. legal help

[DIPayton 10+ year member]

Alright guys... so a girl got drunk and made up a story I assaulted her to cops... Not a big deal, she since told the police she made it up but I still have to go to trial for it... Not worried. Was already told by police I will most likely be told I am innocent before a real in court sentencing date or however they do it anyways...

One of my conditions before she originally had me arrested was to have no contact with her... no phone calls, computer messages etc.

I have followed this 100%. She was not supposed to have contact with me also, however she did not follow this. She left 7 messages on my phone's answering machine explaining how she's sorry she made it up, she wishes I would talk to her, and even admits how she would just like to hear me say 1 word to her...

But, I still say f**k a btich, I followed the rules... Not talkin to her.

Now I get confronted with phone records.... well she attempted to call me over 150 times in less than a month. Left only 7 messages. This is where my cell phone and legal hate is coming into play. When they confronted me with the records, all the times I ignored her call and did not answer would show up as like a 2 second call between us, the courts say that is fine... However the times she left a message says there is like a 3 or 4 minute conversation (it just shows 'call from her number' - 'call recieved by my number') even though I was not answering. They are saying this is a problem. They are saying that a 4 minute phone record is considered having contact with her.

Until today, I thought it was not a big deal, I saved all of the messages she sent and have been re-playing them daily. I have court tomorrow and went to check my messages today... and the cell phone tells me "all messages from previous inbox session have been deleted"... The phone company reformatted their way of handling their voice-mail messaging system TODAY!!!

All my saved messages for proof that it was her just leaving messages is gone.

My condition for breaking the No contact with her claim is a possible 60 days in lock up.... Am I screwed? what can I do? Calloed customer support with my cell and they said the messages cannot be recovered... Only other person ever to hear the messages is my girlfriend... not a valuable witness in this...

Think I am screwed? or am I just over-reacting and worried about nothing... any help or advice? come on legal junkies... help me out.. sorry for the long post

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[Lingerfelt 10+ year member]

If that isn't shitty I don't know what is. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif

Good luck.

 

[brtnboarder3241 5,000+ posts]

gl man

 

[Racerx250 10+ year member]

Well I've some good news and some bad news. Ca.com is full of legal advisers, doctors, ect. Bring the phone company into it. Have them say they deleted your voice mails. Hell if you end up going to jail. Sue the phone company for destroying your evidence that would make you innocent. Go to jail for a while. Then make a lot of money from phone company. Sounds good.,.

 

[caraudioinstall 10+ year member]

**** that sucks... good luck

 

[Lingerfelt 10+ year member]

Sue the phone company for destroying your evidence that would make you innocent. Go to jail for a while. Then make a lot of money from phone company. Sounds good.,.

Then sue that ***** for harassment.

 

[Trey803 5,000+ posts]

you should win with all of that evidence

 

[JimJ 5,000+ posts]

You have a lawyer already, yes?

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

First of all, you need some girl advice, not legal advice.

Don't hang out with lying, manipulative, whores.

This very well could mean don't hang out with women at all, but some are indeed worse than others. You are at your own discretion at where to draw that line. Or you could just turn gay.

 

[DIPayton 10+ year member]

I forgot to mention, I have close to 150 text messages from her however, where I haven't replied to any; but police seem to think less of text messages from what they could have actually heard.. Her text messages range from "she is sorry she did it" to "I hate you and Im gonna do it again if u dont talk to me".... these are on record... Police actually took my phone the original day I was arrested and were recording her text messages to me. They said it's harder for them to prove she typed those messages as opposed to if I had the voice messages, they can prove much easier if it's her voice. Only reason she has not been arrested so far!

You have a lawyer already, yes?

yessir... apparently one of the better lawyers from where I live. But he did not even hear the messages, and I told him I had the messages saved and now I have to go there tomorrow and tell him what happened... Hopefully he really is a great lawyer.

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

wow

good evidence there

 

[93EXT 10+ year member]

If she reported you assaulting her, she would have gotten a doctors exame for bruises/ cuts lesions. and the police report would have this in it....

 

[livinlegend 10+ year member]

You can't be convicted on phone records alone, they do not prove that you actually talked to her. First, she would have to make that claim. Second, you could have your phone company send you a statement saying that all bills will show calls however long even if its just her leaving a message. File it as official evidence in the police station. That should take care of it.

 

[livinlegend 10+ year member]

Also I forgot to add that it wont show up on your bill if your answering machine answered her, or it shouldn't.

 

[livinlegend 10+ year member]

Here's one thing to keep in mind when it comes to US Law. It has to be proven beyond a shadow of a doubt, and phone records are NEVER solid proof for anything. Drug dealers cannot be convicted on phone records, police don't even bother with that.